那爱人两人隔得很远如何谈恋爱

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挽留外地男朋友心的方式一、不必冷暴力

zhengchaoyihou，youhenduorenhuitiaoxuanlengbaoliqujiejuenanti，huoshiyouderenyouyulingyifangjiatinglengbaoliertiaoxuanfenshouziyiweishijishijianlingyifanglizhiyixiabianhuibajiejuewenti。chanshengfenqiyihou，dajiabukeyipengmian，bicihaitiaoxuanlengbaolidefangfa，neiyangtongchanghuizaochenglingyifangneixindedaliangcaiji，yinchulaidaliangnanti，naizhihuihelixingjinibuchongzuaita，neiyangdajiadexinlijulibianhuimanmanzouyuan。

挽留外地男朋友心的方式二、多沟通交流相互化解矛盾

zaiyiguoliandelianrenzhong，youyulianggerendezuoxishijianbiaobuyiyang，goutongjiaoliujiyuyehuijianjiandijiangdi，dangbicichuxianganqingweijideqingkuangxia，jiuxuyaoganyurenqingbicizhongjiancunzaidebuzu，jinzaozhaoyigeshijianpengmian，jishibukeyipengmianhaiyaotishengdajiadegoutongjiaoliujiyu，zhangwolingyifangneixindeniantou，lingtinglingyifangdexinlihua。

 lingwaishushuonizijideniantou，dangliangrenzaiyiqipingxinjingqidetanyitan，jinyouneiyang，shilianaimadajiacaikeyijutifenxinantidegenbenyuanyinsuoshu，jinercongyuantoushangjiejuekunnan。yinci  chuxianganqingweijifangzhilengbaoli，gengweitishengdajiadegoutongjiaoliujiyu，tuidongqingganfazhanqushi。

挽留外地男朋友心的方式三、掌握另一方的本质要求

yixienvxingyouyulianggerenwaidi，bianhuichangchangzaochengcaiyineixin，changchangjiankonglingyifangdexingji，zailingyifanggongzuozhongfanmangdeqingkuangxiachangchangdadianhuajilingyifang，ziyiweishineiyangkeyilajindajiazhongjiandejianju，jieguojilingyifangjiduodegongzuoyali，ranglingyifangyaoxiangdujueni。yaoxianglajindajiazhongjiandeguanlian，jiuxuyaomingbaihuanjielingyifangdegongzuoyali，ruhetanlianaizailingyifangdepengyou、penyouyanqianzhongshilingyifang，dangtaganjuenishizhongshitade，dangranjiuxuyaozaipenyouyanqianduotidaoni，tishengyunijiaowangdejiyu，pengyouyekeyifangzhidajiazhongjiandefenqichansheng。