相亲聊什么？挑选适合的時间闲聊！

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留意措辞

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掌握另一方必须一个如何的另一半

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挑选适合的時间闲聊

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试着聊一些不一样的话题讨论

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不必一次性发过多的內容

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观查另一方的反映

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互换彼此之间的私人信息

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