面对相亲男吊着你的表现，学会吊着他，反而让他主动回头粘着你

 wanhuiganqingbingbushisiqibailaideqiufuhexing，jiushinizaicixiyinzhuta，shitaganxinqingyuandehenizaiyiqi。xiangqinnanliangnvshengshenmexinli？yaoxiangzhenzhenzhengzhengdewanliulingyifang，zuixianyaochulishangyicitanlianaidenanti，cizhizaitiqianzhunbeiercixiyin。xiangqinnandiaozhenidebiaoxianyounaxie？

学生实例：

 xiahenanpengyouchenshixiangqinyuehuilejiede，yikaishitongyixiangqinyuehuishiweilegenghaodisaizhuqinrendezui，qianwanbiefanta，qudaoyihoujiandaonanpengyoufandaoyoushifenxingyun，chenyougaoyoudakushuai，nianlingbitadasansui，keshishouyibitaduoliangbei。liangrendiyicixiangqinjiuliaodaohenkaixin，yincijiujianjiandifazhanqushiqilai。

 yigeyuejianle8cimian，dibaciyouhuideqingkuangxia，liangrendeguanlianjiumingquele。tanlianai2geyueyihou，liangrenyoutongdingjudaoyiqile。

 tongjuderizihenjizhi，chenshigelanmanshenshidechengshudenanren，shanjierenyi，huijitatiqianzhunbeixiaojingxi，huiyoushihouzuofanjitazuodunxicanting，yehuizaitalaiyuejingnanshoudeqingkuangxiajitatuinazhuhongzaoguiyuancha，ruhekanquanshiyigewanmeilianren。

 xiangqinnanliangnvshengshenmexinli？danshi，naliyoushiquanshimeideren。zhihouyouyici，xiayutongshijuhui，shoujimeidianlezidongkaiguanjile，youyuxiabanledeqingkuangxiagenchenshuoguo，yincitajiushuxindewan，lingchenhuidaojiadeqingkuangxia，jiazhongdenghuohuihuang，daketingliyanweiershenhou，nanpengyoujuranhaimeiyoushui。

 taheguodianjiu，chenjiandaozheiyimoyang，danaopiqi，xiayixiazibaochiqingxingle，nanyixiangxiangzheihuoshipingshineiyigewenroudenanrenma。danshiguohou，chenyouhuaizhetazhiqian，shuozishenbianshidanyoutayincicaihuiqingxushikongde，xiabianmeiyouzaihu。

 nianzhihoudeqingkuangxia，chendegongzuozhonghuranyoujifa，huiletazijidejiaxiang，jinguanshebude，keshigongzuozhongbixuyemeiyoubanfa，liangrenyaozhujianyiguolianle。

 suirantongxinjiaotongchuxingbijiaofada，keshihemeirishouhouzaiyiqiduibi，yixiazikumenlexuduo，xiaannaibuzhuxiangnian，xianglaixiangquyihoujuecezhuizhenanpengyouerqu，lizhiqutadedachengshi。

 yikaishiliangrenhaihenxingfen，duijianglaiyechongmanlexiwang，haojingbuchang，chendegongzuozhongmang，peitadeshijianhenshao，zaizaijiashangtaganggangkaishiyigexindedachengshi，meiyoulejiedepenyoumeiyoulejiedeziranhuanjing，gongzuozhongyishibanhuiyebutaihaozhao，yincitadexinlihaiyouyixiejinghuang。

 chenmeiyoulijijitakuanwei，tademeiyouanquanganyulaiyuduo，yincijiuxiangnianzhelingyifang，xiangbudaoyouyuzheizhongnanti，liangrendefenqituxian，zhengzhiyulaiyuduo。

 youyici，xiazaichendeweixinpengyouquanjiandaoyizhangtamentuanduituozhandehuodongzhaopian，fajueyouyigenvshengzhaoxiangdeqingkuangxiaquanshihenanpengyoukaozhede，haihuijixumenbakuazainanpengyoudeshoubeishang，tabijiaomingandezhujiancaiyiyixieshi，yincizhiyinanpengyou，huodebiaoshutadoubuchedijianxin，haihuijixuchaqin，jiushizheiyangjiaolvbuandeduguole3geyue，nanpengyoumingquetichuliangrenlizhilizhi，jiulinshibanfanhuibabamamajiazhongle。

 xiabukeyijiena，touruzheimeduo，tapaoxialepenyougongzuozhongzhuizhetahuilai，bukeyijiushizheiyangfangkaishoufenli。yincitafangkuanrongdadukenqiutahuiguotou，haixunzhaobabamamajia，danshidoumeishenmeshijixiaoguo。tadoubuqingchuyinggaizenmebanle。

 yaoxiangwanliuxiangchenneiyangdenansheng，nijiuxuyaorangzishenyuelaiyuechuse，jitamenqifu，diaozhuta，neiyangtafandaohuijijinianzheni。

一、感情不是你的所有

 zaitanlianaizhizhong，xuduonvhaizaiyuzishenxiaidenanshengjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，lixingzhanyoudanao，huibulizhidezuochuyixielingrenganjueyiwufangu、naizhishihuangdandechunshi，nanshengyifangmianhuiganjuezheishiai，yifangmianyouhuiganjuetashigongzuoyali。

 qingganlizuixianyaoxuehuizunzhongnanrenhuodenanshengdezhongshi，shikezhangwohaozishendexinlizhuangtai，bubihusiluanxiang。gengbubirenweibatazhuadeguojin，aidetaishen，jiukeyitigaodajiadeqinmiwujiangan。taiduodepuluxuqiugan，feichangrongyiqueshiyouhuoli，ranglingyifangbuaixi。

 kuanrongdaduyugaoyaoqiudenvxing，burongyizaochengnanshengdegaoduzhongshi，dangranyewufadedaonanshengdezhongshiyuaixi。yaoxianghuodenanshengdezhongshi，yutafazhanqushizhangqixingdeguanlian，jiuxuyaozuoyixiekeyihuodenanshengzhongshideshi，liruyoujiagou、guannianjiqidaodedixian，youduliderengehesanguandeng。

二、掌握另一方的要求，顺水推舟

 xiangtaonanshenghuanxi，yidingyaoxuehaoshunshuituizhou，zhangwotadexinliniantou，bawotadegerenaihao，zaitadegongzuozhongrichangshenghuo，zhaoxundajiadeqinggangongming，dedaotadehaogandu，lajindajiadeguanlian。

 jinji，nidetouruhetadeyaoqiubuyiyang，neiyangnitourulezaihaoyejinjindadonglezishen。bubimangmugenfengdetouru，zainiyongyuanbuzhidaotayaoxiangnaxiedezhuangkuangxia，duohuaxieshijianguanxinzishen，tigaozijidegerenmeili，xiyinzhutadeliuyi。xiangqinnandiaozhenidebiaoxianyounaxie？

三、改变现状，二次吸引

 youxiudenvrencaikeyihuodenanshengdeqinlai，nidechusebianshixiyinnanrenjiaodadezichan，yinciqinfengaibianxianzhuang，tigaozijidefengcaiba。

1、仪表美

 nanrendoushiganxingdongwu。nixuyaojianxinzheiyidian，buguanheshi，yigebiaomianpiaoliangdenvrenshizhongshibibiaomianyibandenvxing，gengjubeiyouhuoli。

 nvxingyingdangyunyongzishenbiaomiandechuntianranyoudian，jiangzishendeliangdianzhanxianchuqu，congrongyan、shenxingdengcengmianjiangzishendeyouhuolishifangchu。

2、心灵美

 youqudelinghunqianpianyilv，yougushiderenwanlitiaoyi。zaimeilidenvrenmeiyouguannianyeshizhidahuaping，kongpiaoliang，shijianzhangle，nanshengbianhuiyanfan。yincinvxingyiyangyaoshanyuchajuezijidexinlingmei，yongzishendeguannian、hanyilaixiyinnansheng。

 xiangqinnandiaozhenidebiaoxianyounaxie？cizhi，zaihenanshengdexiangchuquanguochengzhong，shidudebiaomingduitadehaoganduyuxinlai，shifangchulaihaogandudeyucitongshihaixuyaoliuyilakaijuli，bawozhudaoquan，zhengqueyindaodaotouruzijintouru，tishengqingganzhongdechendianchengben。

四、激起独占欲，升級关联

 dabufendenanrenzaifenshouzhihouhaihuijixuduiqiannanyoubaocunyidingdeduzhanyu，tashitanlianaiguanxinglideyibufen，xuehaoyunyongzheileinanrenxinli，jiqitafapiqi，suihouchenjishengjiguanlian，tuidongfuhexing，qudechenggongwanliu。

 xiangqinnanliangnvshengshenmexinli？duzhanyudejiqiyouhenduozhongduoyangfangshi，yaoyijulingyifangdexingqinglaishezhibuyiyangdewanliufangshi，yongbuduifangshi，zhangwobutaihaoduhenkenengdebuchangshi。