相亲第一次见面聊什么，应该如何聊天

 nvrenhenanrendiyicijianmianshibuyinggaitaolunlingyifangdeqingshi。xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？tamennenggoujianyidizhangwolingyifangdejiatingjingjiqingkuang，jiangchulingyifangdegerenaihao。diyiciyuehuibixuxuehaozhaohuatiliaotian，neiyangcaiburongyileng。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

 nvrenhenanrendiyicitaolunnaxie？zheishiyigefeichangzhidesisuodenanti。nvrenhenanrendiyicijianmianshibunengshuodeguoshen。zhongjiu，tamenbicizhijianbingbushihenlejie，dantamenbukeyirenhedongxidoubutan，huoshihuatitaolunhenwuliao。tamenbukeyizaicijianghua，bingqiehenfawei。yincishiwomentaolunyixiazenyangzaidiyicihewoyouhuishixunzhaohuatitaolun。

一、女人和男人第一次讨论哪些

1. bukeyitanlingyifangdeqingshi

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？wodiyicibutaizhangwolingyifang。lejielingyifangdeqingshishibutaihaode。gengguanjiandeshi，dangyiwangzaoyiyiwang，dajiayoubugaobieguoqudeqingkuangxia，dajiazennengcongtoukaishini？jiaruniyizhiwenlingyifangyiwangdeqingshi，huishitaganjuenitaiguocaozong，jianglaijiaowangbutaihao，tahenyoukenengjiumeiyoushihoufazhanqushideniantou。

2. tanyitanbicizhijiandejiazhong

 diyicijianmian，womenkeyihaohaoditanyitanbicizhijiandejiatingjingjiqingkuang。liru，dajiajigexiongmei，bicizhijianzaijialidepaixing，guanlianzenyang。youxiexiangzailiaojiazhongxiguanxing。womenkeyijianjiandizhangwolingyifangdejiatingjingjiqingkuang。

3. 谈个人爱好

 ruguowomennengyouyitongdegerenaihao，dajiajiunengyoudaliangdehuatitaolunhedaliangdeshijianyiqizuoyiyangdeshier。yaobushizhengtiliyibingbuzhongyao，danjiarunidequanyishiyouyisidehuoxinde，tahenyoukenenghuibeilingyifangyanxianhuoduji，yehenyoukenengfazhanqushichengzhengtiliyi。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

二、怎样在第一次约会时寻找话题讨论

1. zhongaideshiwaixinxiangmu

 jiarunixiaihuwaiyundong，ninengtaolunnixihuanshenmehuwaiyundong，buguannipingchangshibushicanyuyiqiezhutihuodonghuojulebudui。jiaruniyouxingqu，nenggoukaolvdaocanjiaganshou，yeshiyoudaliangdeshijianhelingyifangjiaowang，zhangwolingyifangdexihao。

2. zhongaidewenxuezhuzuo

 chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？ruguonishiyigegengyazhideren，nihenyoukenenggengxihuanyueduwenzhang。ninengtanyitannixiainaxiedewenxuelei，naxiedeyuanxiaoshejifengge。naweizuiaidewenxuejia，zuixihuandejuzi，huoshiniduiwenxueleiyounaxiedexiwang。

3. zuiaideyinleshipin

 wojianxin，henduorendoushiyouzishenxiaideyinleshipin，youdexiaiqingjingdeqingyinle，youdexiaireqingdeyaogunle，youdexiailingrenchouqideshangganyinle。zuixihuandehuaijiugequ，wujindeganqing。zuiaideliuxingqu，kgekeyizaiyiqishi，ninyoushijian。

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？nvrenhenanrenbukeyiyicishuodeguoshenhuorenhedongxidoubuyongshuo。nizhibixuxunzhaoyigehuatitaolun。jiaruniyouyigeyitongdexihao，ninengtaolunyigeyitongdexihao，tashizuihaoshide。