高情商的相亲聊天记录？寻找自身的真爱！

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1、防止向另一方太多售卖自身

 taiduodejimaosuanpihuiranglingyifangjuedenishigeganqingyikaozhe，zhihouyidanpengdaobushunxin，bianhuizhaotadatukushui！zaizheileifumianxinxixinlifangyuxia，feichangshaoyouxierenxiangyaoyunishencengcixiangchu。fanguolaizaidiyicijianmianshi，jiarunizhiduigerenqingkuangqianchangzhezhi，zhishuogedayue，fandaonengjilingyifangliuyouxinxiangan，xiwangyunixiayicipengmian！

2、始终交给另一方讲话時间，充足重视他的主导权

 shehuixinliyanjiufaxian，27%deshibaixiangqinyuehuidouyuanyuyifanghuaduoderen、lingyifangwunaidenankanjushi！zairichangshenghuozhong，xingqingjieranbutongderenyekebianchenglianren、haoguimi，huoshihongyanzhiji，danzhenduidiyicijianmianlaijiang，bicibingbulejie，yiqieconglingkaishi，nizhidao90xiangqinchenggongde10gehuati，gaoqingshangdexiangqinliaotianjiluyuanlaiyouzheixie。jiugaizunxunkendinggongpinggongzhengdebiaozhun。tiyiniyizhizaihuihuashijinkenengjiaojilingyifangjianghuashijian，lingrenjuededaonidetiexinhegongping。

3、目光集中化在另一方的“三角区”流荡

 yilingyifangmeijianweijiajiao，liangguanguweidijiaosuochanshengdesanjiaoxing，beixinlixuezhuanjiachengzhiwei“jiaodianguanzhuqu”。yulingyifangjianghuashi，jiarunidemuguangchixufensanyuzheiyi“sanjiaoqu”，jiangjirenliuyoubeimingxianguanxin、zishenbianchengjujiaodiandejuede，zheihuilingrenduinihaoganduzengzhang！fanguolai，jiarunihenhendidingjinlingyifangdeyanjingkan，fandaohuishitayikaishijiuzaochengchengjian。

4、迅速寻找与另一方的相交

 jiaruniyudaoderenyunidelijingjieranbutong，siweifangshijieranbutong，nizhaobuzhegongtongyuyanshi，jiujinkenengfanfulingyifangjianjie，yibiaomingzishenyutachuzaitongyiguandian。zheiyangyilai，lingyifangbianhuizaochengzishenchengjiugan，duinihaoganduzengzhang！

5、尽量避免讲话时的手式和口头禅

 jianghuashiwuyijiandeshoushihekoutoushanhuibiaolunidexinlitihui，jiarulingyifangshiyigeshulianxinlizhuangtaideren，nidejinzhangbianhuibeiyishunjianbawozhu，jinerqueshiyixiliedeyoudianhejiji。

6、调低自身的优势，高度重视另一方的特长

 bubizhitukankanertandexianbaizishendeqiangchu，neiyanghuiranglingyifangyouyapogan，ninengduitadexihaohetezhangduozuoyixietichuwenti，neiyangyehuijifadajiaxindehuatitaolunhegoutongjiaoliuchongdong。

7、切勿讨论厚重话题讨论

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