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 kanguoxia，jiepingneirongshinvshengshuo：“shapaozi，shangnaqule？”yishunjiannielebahan，zheixiongdihaijianzhilaoniuyiban，zheizaiqizhongdeanshizhedoumeitingchuqu，guoduandiduitashuo：tatingduiniyouganjuede！tamengranyitouwushui，yincibangtapouxileyibo。

1.积极便是机遇

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？liangrenxiangqin，nvshengkeyijijifaxinxiyueni，yidingshiduinideyinxianghaibucuo，zheiyidianburongzhiyi。youyuzaizenmejiangnvshengdoushihuiqidaizishenzaiqingganzhongshibeijijikandaide。zheipengyoumeirizhaolingyifangliaotian，lingyifangchixumeiyouhuijueyuniliaotian，fandaojijizhudonghuifu，erqiezainimeiyouzhaotadezhuangkuangxiajijilaiyueni，zheijiushiyizhongjiji，yidantajijile，jiubiaomingnishihaiyoujihuide。erjiarulingyifangyizhishichuyubeidongdeqingkuang，neimejiuxiangyaonibuduanjiechuanheqinfenle。

2.尤其的叫法能拉进间距

 xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga？xiangqinyihoukeyichixuliaotianbianshiyigewanmeidekaiduan，erzaizheigequanguochengzhonglingyifanghuranrangniqiyigehenyouqidejiaofa，rutongpengyoudexiangqinmubiaoneiban，huranjiujiaota“shapaozi”，shijishangzheileifangfabianshizailajinbicizhijiandejianju，neimezuodanshibianshizaiyunianshizhe：taduinidejuedetinghaode。suoyishuorenmeiyigezishiquanshihanyouzhenduixingde，yibaneryan，buyuanheyigerenzoudetaijinjiuhuiweichiwenminglimao，erxiangheyigerenzoudejinxie，jiuhuiyouyiqiyixieyouqidejiaofa。

3.接纳邀请

 xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga？shijishangzaizheiyiciliaotiandequanguochengzhong，yemeishaojixiongdixianjixiance，zaiqizhongjiubaohanyaojiji，zuoweinanshengjiarubuzhudongyidian，rangbierennvshengjijishiduoshaobushitaishihede。yinciliaoqijihuitianzhihou，pengyoujiudianjizhezhiquanlingyifangchuquchigefan，lingyifanghentongkuaiditongyile，youyulianggerenshijiarenxiangxijieshaode，yincijianjudaoyesuanbushangyuan，haisuandeshangjiaoweibianjie，pengyouyizhidanyouzheidanyounei，shitabuyaoxiangtaiduo，jienayaoqingyesuandeshangyigehendadejiyu，biaominglingyifanghuoshitingduiniyouganjuede。

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？zongdelaishuo，jiaruxiangqinmubiaokeyizailiaotiandequanguochengzhongbaozhengzhishangsandian，ganjueliangrendejiyuhuoshijiaoweidade，xiangqinzaoyibianchengkuaicanshiaiqingxiajiaoweiguangfandejiaopengyoufangshi，keyijienazheileifangfaderenhuoshijiaoweishijide，youhaogancaihuizaicigoutongjiaoliuxialai，meiyouhaogandujiuhuizhudongduandiaolianluo，yifangnankan，nilejiezheizhonganshizhelemeiyou？