jinqichangchangtingjianxuduodanshenzumendiaokan,shuojialexiangqinduixiangdeshoujiweixin,zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian?keshibuqingchuweihehaigangliaoyiliangjubierenjiujiangwoshandiao,woganjuezijishuodehuameiyouyiqienantia......xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga?
zenyangliaotianqueshihenzhongyao,neima,zenyanghexiangqinduixiangkaizhanweixinliaotiandekaichangcicongerzhujianliaotianni?
一、要以风趣的方法开局
jiaruliangrenxiangqinyuehuimeiyoupengmian,yingyongweixinliaotiandehua,zheigeshihoukaijushijiaoweiguanjiande,zuihaoshiyifengqudefangfa,jiarukaijujiaoweishengsedehua,neiyanghuiranglingyifangsangshiyuniliaotiandexingquaihao,youxierenzaidaguozhaohuyihoujiubuxianglinile,yincikaijushifenguanjian,jiaruzheigeshihouyongyizhongfengqudefangfakaizhan,neimalingyifanghuiduinizaochengxingquaihao。
二、针对性不必太强
henduorenxiangqinyuehuiyihou,jiudianjizhelikebanvshengzhuidao,benlaihenvshenghaibutaishu,feidebatayuechuqupengmian,renweihenvshengpengmianle,jiunengjinyibufazhanqushi。wulunnvshengyuanbuyuan,zongzhiyuelezailiao,neiyangxinjideliaotian,queshihuichuxianshijixiaoguoma?qiahaozheilijiuyouyige“jixingzi”denanhaizi,tayiqianhexiangqinduixiangliaotian,yeshishifenxinji,jieguobeinvshenglijijujuele!
zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian?niyouqixiaixiangqinyuehuidenvsheng,zheiyinenglejie,keshifangshibudui,qinfentulao。jiarunvshengyunidoubutaishu,nilaiyuetadehua,neibaifenzhibaihuibeijujue,youyunvshengduiniyebuzhangwo,tazenmekenenghuitongyiyunipengmianni?yinci,zhuixiangqinduixiangbukeyixinji,fouzezongshijinvshenggongzuoyali,liuyoubuchengshudeyinxiang。
三、不做“话题终结者”
shuobaile“huatizhongjiezhe”,bianshibuguanliaoshenmehuatitaolun,dounengqudechenggongdebahuatitaolunliaosi。liruhexiangqinduixiangliaotiandeqingkuangxia,chediliaobushangnvshengyouxingqudediqu,huoshirangnvshengyagenjiebushanghua,zaochengnvshengbuhuiying。zheijiushijieshuhuatitaolundezhuyaobiaoxian。dahuoerhaowuyiwendoubuyuanzuo“huatizhongjiezhe”,sheiyebuyuanliaotiandeqingkuangxiagaliaoba。neiyoushenmebanfanenggouchulima?
jiejuefangan:weixinliaotiannenggoushunshuituizhou,zailiaotianyiqianxiankanyixiatadeweixinpengyouquan,guanyutadeshierduozhangwoyixie,kanyixiaxinxineirongtazainaercengmianjiaoweiyouxingqu,zheigeshihoucongzheixiefangmianzheshoushibijiaohaode,yincizuihaoshixianzhangwolingyifangdeaihao,tashijiaoweiguanjiandeyibufenle。xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga?
四、聊天要“掌握分寸”
henvshengliaoduole,zaisuonanmianmeiyouhuatiliao,jiaruniqiangzhizhaohuatiliaotianliaotian,feichangrongyirangliaotianbianweiganliao。yinci,hexiangqinduixiangliaotiandeqingkuangxia,yaocaozonghaoliaotiandeshijian,bubixialiaobuting,yaomingbai“zhangwofencun”。yibanlaishuo,henvshengliaotianzuihaoshibubichaochuyigexiaoshi。liaohenjiudehua,nijiangzishendehuatitaolundouliaowanhou,neimenihoubianjiumeiyouhuatiliaole。yucitongshi,liaodeshijianguozhang,nvshengyefeichangrongyiliaoni,zaochengpijuandejuede。
liaodechabuduole,jiubixujijizhongzhiliaotian,neiyangnvshenghuigengweixiwangxiayicideliaotian。
xiangqinyuehuiyihou,womenyaoduogennvshengliaoliaotian,neiyangcaikeyihetazengjinganqing,keshi,liaotiandeshijian,yidingyaoshezainvshengkongyudeqingkuangxiacaixing,fouzenvshengmeiyoukong,neihaowuyiwenbukeyilijihuiyingni。jiusuanninyouzaiduohuatitaolun,yemeifaliaole。henduorenwulunnvshengyoushijianmeishijian,jiusuiyizhaotaliaotian,jieguodabantianmeihuiying,huoshicailiaoyiliangjujiumeihuiyingle。
xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga?neiyangliaotian,hexiangqinduixianghaowuyiwenburongyiyoujindude。zheiyinanhaiziyiqianyeshiburongyiliaotian,xianglehenshuciqindoushibaile,houbiantazhaodaodajia,shiwomenlaixiezhutachulizishendenanti,yucitongshi,zaiyoudajiayiduiyijutizhidaotahuiyingnvsheng,neineiyangshifouyoushijixiaoguoni?dajiataolunyixiatadeliaotianjilujiuzhidao:
youyunvshengdabaitianyaogongzuo,yinci,dajiahaowuyiwenbukeyizainvshenggongzuodeqingkuangxiazhaotaliao,fouzehuiweihainvsheng,yibanlaishuo,wancandezheiduanshijianshigehaojihui,zheiduanshijiandajiadoujiaoweixian,doushiyoushijiankanshouji。mingquenvshengyoushijianliaotianyihou,keshinvshengduixueshengmeiyouhaogandu,jishiyoushijianliaotian,yehuiyinghenlengmo。
zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian?liaoguoyoumodehuati,nvshengdehuiyingbiyiqianyaojiqingxuduo,jiusuanshiyouyoushang,yexiangyaohexueshengliaotian。zheijiushinvshengduixueshengyouxingqudezhuyaobiaoxian,xiangqinduixiangyouxingqule,caihuibiandejijiqilai,neiyangjiunenghetajinyibufazhanqushile。
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