“相亲多久确定关系？”先听听过来人给你的建议

 rujinzheiyishehuijingjifazhanhenxunsu，gongzuozhongyezhanyoulehenduorenjuedaduoshudeshijian，ruhechenggongxiangqin？gongzuozhongdeshejiaoquanbingbuda，shieryouyouqiduo，zheiyangyilaidajiatanlianaidejiyubianhuidadadedijiangdi。daoshidudenianjidouhaimeixiangqinjiehun，babamamabianhuizhujianducu，zheigeshixiangqinyuehuijiukeyichulizheigewenti。juedaduoshurenyaoshimeiyoushijiantanlianaibianhuitiaoxuanxiangqinyuehuizheileifangfaquxunzhaodelingyiban。yigeqiadangdelianaiguan：xiangqinyuehuinenggou，danbiezhejizhewanhun！xiangqinduojiuquedingguanxi？

1.尊重自己的第一觉得

 xiangqinyuehuiduozhangshijianheshiquedingguanxi，zheiyishierjiudekandajiaxianghuzhijiandejuedezenyang。liangrenxiangqinyuehuidiyijuedequeshihenzhongyao，jinguanshuozheidiyijuedelibianshiduoshaobutaizhenzheng，youyudiyicijianmian，tongchanghuibazijizuihaoshideyimianzhanxianjilingyifang，neimananyigaoqingchulingyifangshiruhederen，jiujingshifouheshizishen。

 huanyigeshijiaokanlai，diyicijianmianliangrenquanshiyizuihaoshideqingkuangqupengmiande。neibianshilingyifangzuihaoshideyangzi，jiarudiyijuedeyebuxihuandehua，neimazhihourichangshenghuodaoyiqiyeshinanyide。

 ruhechenggongxiangqin？nixuyaozunzhongzijidediyijuede，jiarudiyijuedeshihe，neimacaihuichuxianjinyibudefazhanqushi，erzheiyifazhanqushidesulvshibixugenjuliangrenzaiyiqishifoushihelaijuecede。

2.看另一方是否适合自身

 liangrenxiangqinyuehuijiarudiyijuededouhaibucuo，neimacaiyoujianchixiaqudehenyoukeneng。duojiunenggouquedingguanxibingbushidiyijuedejuecede，diyijuedeshikanshifouyoujianchixiaqudebixu，erkanlingyifangshifoushihezishendeyouyigequanguocheng。xiangqinduojiuquedingguanxi？

 xiangqinyuehuiyiliangtianhuoshishitiandabangeyuequanshinanyiqueshikanqingyigerende，wulunshinanxinghuoshinvxing，tamenzaigangtanlianaideqingkuangxiaquanshixiayishideyanzangzishende，zhongjiushuangfangdoubutaishu，yeshiyouyidianbuzizai，zheizhongquanshinenggoulejiede。

 liangrenzaiyiqizuizhongyaodebianshikanlingyifangshifoushihezishen，zheibixuyigejiaoweizhangqidequanguocheng，bingbushisanliangtianjiukeyichulide。yibanzhishaohaiyaoyilianggeyue，zhidaobicizhijianchedilejie，keyibazuizhenshidezijichengxianzailingyifangdeyanqian，zheigeshihoujiukeyizhujianquedingguanxile。

3.不必太心急完婚

 xiangqinduojiuquedingguanxi？xiangqinyuehuiquanshibenzhewanhundezongtimubiaoqude，keshiwulunshinanxinghuoshinvxing，zaixiangqinyuehuidequanguochengzhizhongdoububitaixinjiwanhun。youyuwanhunbingbushijianyideshihe，nihaixuyaogaoqingchulingyifangshifouduiniyouganjue，shifouxiangyaolejieni，kuanrongni。

 bingqietaixinjileyoushihaikanbuqinglingyifangdezhenzhengxiangmao，qingganzheileishiershijibudaode，wulunshizishenlejiede，huoshixiangqinyuehuixiangxijieshaolejiede，dajiadoubukeyixinji。

 womenkeyibiandemanyidiansuihourenzhendiqulejieyigeren，neiyangdezhangwocaigengweihenyoukenengzhenzheng，xiangqinyihoubiezhejiquedingguanxi，yaobicizhijianzhangwo，sanguanyizhi，youqishihe，neiyangzaizaiyiqicaisuanshizuihaoshide。

 zongjie：ruhechenggongxiangqin？“xiangqinyuehuiduozhangshijiannenggouquedingguanxi？”xiantingyitingyoujingyanrenrangnidetiyi！zheigewentidehuidabianshizhidaozhenzhenzhengzhengzhangwolingyifang，biciganjueshihe，bicizhijiansanguanyizhi。zheigeshihouniyejiunenggouquedingguanxile。heshimingqueyebuguanjian，guanjiandeshiyaoshihezishen，keyizhangqizaiyiqi。