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 henanpengyoumeiyouhuashuogaizenmeban？zhujianyiduanshijianhailiaodemanhaode，danshihoubianjiubutaishuohuale？zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？zijinan，meiribianshiwenhaonichifanlema，xiabanlama，shuijuelema，gongzuoyouduoleia，juedezishendouwenfanle。hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

 zaizheigeshenghuodejiezoujiaoweikuaideshiqi，xiangqinyuehuihaowuyiwenshiyizhonggaoxiaolvdefangfa，nenggougenjutarendexiangxijieshaolejieyuzishenbiaozhundatixiangdangdeyixingpengyou，suihouliangrenzaiyiqixianghuxinren，guancha，kanyixianengbunengyitongzouruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian。

 diyiyinxianghenzhongyao。zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？yaojilingyifangliuyouyigehaodejuede，jiuxuyaoliuyizishenjiaojilingyifangdediyiyinxiang，baohanzishendeyizhedaban，zhunshijianmian，limaohuoshiyouyapinpaixingxiang，yiyangzaixianliaodeqingkuangxiahaiyaojilingyifangliuyouyigehaodeyinxiang，bubikankanertandeshuogebuduan，meiyoulingyifangjianghuadekongjian，gengbubibuduandetantinglingyifangdeshenjiaqingkuang，xinzideng，neimahuijirenhennanshoudejuede。

 nenggoucongbuxianggandehuatitaolunyinjin。liangrendiyicijianmian，henyoukenenghuifashengmeiyouhuashuodezhuangkuang，cikenenggoucongtianqizhuangkuangyinjin，lirujinridetianqizhenhao，qiwenhaolajiufeichangrongyilingrenxinqingyukuai，wohenxihuanmeirihuanhuanxixide，shigekuangfangbuji……neiyangjiuhendangrandiyinjinhuatitaolunle。

 nenggoushidudechengzanyixialingyifang。suhuashuodehao，xiuenaisidekuai，jinguanzainiyanqiandehaibushinidelianren，keshiyeshiyouhenyoukenengtabianhuibianchengyunixiangbanyishengderen，yinernenggoushidudechengzanyixialingyifang，lirunikanqilaishigehenxindishanliang，nizhangdezhenshuai，nijianghuazhenyouqu，deng，neiyanghaikeyiyinchulaixuduoliaotianhuati。

ruguonihenanpengyoufashengmeihuatiliaotian，huoshiganliaodeqingkuangxiashifouyingdangfangqile？

 bubixiang，jishininyoumudikeshiqueshibubixiangzhenduixingquzuozheiyishier。suiyueran，youhuatitaolunjiuyaoliao，meiyoujiububishuoxieshenme，jiarulingyifangmeishuoshuopojiuzaiciganliao。sheqiyebushibuneng，keshilingzhaoyigehuoxuyejiushizheiyang。wojiushizheiyangcuoguoxuduo。buyuanyishuogushi。dadaolibaifangzaizheile。

 ganliaodezhijieyuanyinshiyouyifangtaoyanlingyifanglingyifangchixudezhaoxunhuatitaolunertaoyandeneirenshiyingfuyanleshisuihouxianliaojiubianchengleyiwenyidashidejizhecaifangzhizhinantidouwenwanhoushenxiangaliaojiezouganxiangqinyuehuiduolezhihouzhixiangyaojizheixieliaodelaiderenzaicifazhanqushidejiyuyouyuxiangqinyuehuitongguolvhendijibianliangrenliaodelaizuizhongyebuyidingjiuxiangqinjiehunerliaobudaodejiugengyaoliangle

 liangrenjibianshibicizhijianzhongyi，pinlemingxianghuatitaolun，yehuibaneirongliaoguangde。yinciworenweibaguanjiandeshiliaoguangyiqianzhaoyijianhuoshiduofennenggouzhangqixingyiqigandeshier，lirutongyigeshoujiyouxi，tongyigezongyijiemu，tongyixingribendongman，tongyizhongjianshenyundong。suihouhuatitaolunjiuduole。danshijiaruzhaobuzhe，huoshihuanleba，xiangqinyuehuizishenbianshibuduanhuan，zhizhixunzhaoshihederendouquanguocheng。

zhixubicidangzhongyouyifangshijiaoweixinggeneixiangderen，meihuatiliaobingbuguaiyi，doubuyiweizhebicimeiyouganqing。

 fanguolai，nimaganjuemeihuakeliaodanhaibuganjuenankancaisuanshiwanshandeqinggan，maimaihanqingdeningshizhelingyifangbuyeshiqingganhaodefanyingme。youqishudepengyouyehuimeihuakeliaode。

gennanpengyouzaiweixinshangmeihuatiliaogaizenmeban？

 wohaizaiyidigongzuo，jiazhongqinpenghaoyouxiangxijieshaoyigemubiao，tayemeiyoujiaxianggongzuo。meijianmian，jiujialeshoujiweixin。jibenshangquanshiwojijizhaotaxianliao，tayehuihuiyingwo，youshihuayetingduo。danxianzaideshijianzhanglewoganjuemeihuatizhaotaliaole！

2个闲聊的小技巧：

 diyi：yaotikaifangxingwenti，erbubitifengbixingnanti。liru，bubiwen：“shibushinixiaikandianshiju”，lingyifanghuiyinggeshihuoshibingbushi，huihuajiuxuyaozhongduanle。nenggouwen：“jinqide《honghaixingdong》tinghaode，nijuederuhe”，neiyanglingyifangnenggoubalabalashuoyiduilaihuifuni。

 dier：xianliaonenggoucongyigehuatitaolunladaolingyigehuatitaolun，liruganggangyouguanyingpiandedianhualiaoyiliangjuhou，lingyifangtangruoshuo：“jinqiwogongzuozhongtingmangde，meikongkandianshijuye”。niyejiunenggouchenjibanantizhuandaogongzuozhongshanglai。liuyidantiaobubitaikuaitaijingchang。zaijiangdao，zheigeshiyagen，gengguanjian，yaoxianliaoliaodaohao，nidezuoyigeyouxiuderen，duosuzaoxiegerenaihao，neiyangcaiyoudeliao。

 neimejiangba，quchugexinghuajiaoweineixiangxingdenvsheng，jiaruyigenvhaibutailicaini，niyemeihuatihetajiang，neimatashizhibajiuduinimeixingqu，nineixinyehuimanmanyuelaiyueyanfan。jiaruniduizheiyinvshengxingquaihaojiaoweida，tiyinixianzhangwota，fanweixinpengyouquanfanqqkongjian，kantaxihuanshenme，zuijinzaiganshenme，yeyousanguanshangshifoufuheni。xiamianjiuduizhengzhiliaole，taxiaitesemeishi，niyejiuzuogongkekanyixiazhoubiantesemeishidaiquchiyichi。taxiaidujialvyou，niyejiuliaoqingshanlvshui，haiyoujihuiyuegelibaitiantageqingnaxiede。

 taxiaixiaoxianroumingxing，daitaqukankanxiaoxianroumingxingdedianyingaxunhuiyanchangshade。taxiaiwenxuelei，neinijiuqukendabutou。taxiaishechipinpai，neinijiuquqinfenshengzhijiaxin。ziran，niruguozaizhangwodeqingkuangxiafajuejixiangbuduijiukeyijianhaojiushoule。

 jianxinxuduodixiongdoushiyouguoxiangqingushiba，henyoukenengyouhenduoshiqinpenghaoyouxiangxijieshaolejiede，zheileizhuangkuangdenanpengyouquanshijiaxiangneilide，henyoukenengzaibuyiyangdedoushishenghuohuoshigongzuozhong，neimadangranhetaliaodaolaitianjiumeiyoushenmehuatitaolun，youyufeichangshaoyouyitongderenjijiaowang，neiyangmeihuatiquanshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier。

 tanbaishuowobenrenbingbushihenzantongzheileibuyiyangshejiaoquandexiangqinyuehuifangshi，liaobenrenruguoliaobudaozhendeshinanyijiaowangde，jiusuandajiazaimenbudanghubuduidouhennannonghuonongbuhao。keshiniqueshiduinanpengyouyouhaogan，niyequeshibenzhezheileimenbudanghubuduiqutanduixiang，ertazhenghaoyoujibenshanghehuzheiyidian，dajiazhongjianquefadeyejiushizheijinyoudeliaodaolaitianmeiyoushenmehuatitaolun，neiwojuedebingbushishichedimeiyouchulidefangfa。hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

 dajiachangchangyurenxianliao，quanbudehuatitaolunguanjianlaiziyurichangshenghuo，wojingchangjiangdeyijuhuabianshi“nidehuatitaolunlaiziniderichangshenghuo，nideshenghuoshiruhedegennidehuatitaolunbidingyouguanxi”，shijishangchukaizheizhongdajiayeyouxuduohuatitaolunshinenggouliaode，zhibuguoshinipingchangdexianliaofangshimeiyoushejidaobale。liru，zuijibenshangdedajianenggouliaogerenaihao，danjiarujibenshangzaoyimingxidao2gejieji，niaigaoerfuqiuhuaxingdexingye。ciwai，dajiahainenggouliaoyiliaozongjiaoxinyang、ziranjie、tesemeishi、xiaodongwuzheixie，jiaruzheizhonghaimanyouchongzudexiangjiao，haikeyiliaoyiliaoershideyixieyouqudeshi。

 jiarudajiazhishangquanbudecengmianyemeiyouxiangjiao，neimahebuyichengxiangdai，shifangyalizishen，jiusuanshiganliaoyihoudexiangyuyixiaoyehuihaohenduo。zongeryanzhibubijiyuqiucheng，nenggoujianjiandizhangwo，keshiyebubiyoutaiqiangdezhenduixing。

 hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？yiqianjiandaoguoyizexiaomanhua，jiangdebianshirenyurenzhijiandejingyu。yikaishimeiyigerenquanshiyouzishendebianjiao，doukanqilaihehetarendebeidaoerchi，zhihouyouderenbazijidebianjiaomoqudequrongrutaren，keshiyigeyoubianjiaodehemeiyoubianjiaodehuoshibukeyimeifaqiehezaiyiqi。yeshiyouliangrendouweizaiyiqierhuxiangmoqule，danshi2gemoquyihoudehuanxingyiranmeifazhonghezaiyiqi。zheiyiquanshijiehaoxiangjinyouquzhikeshuderennenggouchedidejiehezaiyiqi，shubuzhi，quanshijiehuoshiyouneimeduozaiyiqiairen，zheiyeshiweishenmeni？

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？zheishiyouyusuiranliangrenmeiyoubanfachediqiehe，keshishuangfangdouyongxinquguanzhequrongrulingyifang，neibanjishibukeyichediqiehehaikeyixieshoubingjianzouwanyisheng。dajiameiyigerenquanshigengweiyuzhongbutongdegeren，nihenyoukenengzheiyishengdouzhaobuzheneiyigenenggouyunichediqiehederen，yezhaobuzhenenggouyunileyibeizitianderen，keshirichangshenghuohuoshiyaozaici，hunhuoshiyaojiede。yincihebubaguidingdiaodiyidian，hebuweizijiyejilingyifangduoyidianshijianhexixinjianjiandixuezhequhuxiangmoheqi，neiyangjishixianghuzhijianmeiyoutaiduodeyuyanbiaodayekeyixieshoubingjianzouwanyisheng。