如何找话题跟相亲对象聊天？和相亲对象如何交流

 shenghuodejiezoujiasuxuduonanhaihenvhaitianjialexiangqinyuehuijingbing，duibiyuzhoubianlejiedejiarenpenyou，zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？zenyanggenyigeyumoshengrenliaotianshishifenlingrenkunaode。youyuxiangfazhanqushiqinggan，jiuwubiyaoxianconglejiezhujian，erxiangqinyuehuishibumingbairuheliaotian，bianhuirangzheiyijiezouganzhibubuqian，cikeliangrenzaiyiqimeiyouhuashuofenweibianhuijiaoweinankan。dangdairendexiangqinyuehuifanchoudouhenguang，zenyangshinizaitarenyanzhongchuleibacuini，jiuxiangyaonibawoyidingdehuatitaolunheliaotiandejiqiao。hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

一.和男朋友能够闲聊的范畴

1.周边的自然环境

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？liuyiguanchashenpangdeziranhuanjing，nenggoushuoyishuonijuedeshenmedifangjiaoweiyouqi。jibianshizheigedongxihenpingshi，keshijiarunihenfengquhenhuishuogushi，jiunengrangtabeibaozhuangdehenxuxurusheng。jiuliru，yingduizhuozishangdecandao，nenggouwanxiaoshuo："zheiduikanshangquhendengduidecandao，ruguoshilianrendehua，nijuedenaweinanhaizi、naweinvhaini？"

2.社会发展的感受

 dajiasuozaideshehuifazhanxingtaigeyi，yingduimeirichanshengdexuduoshier，ninengyouhenduoxiangshuodehuahuoshishenrudeganshou，niyouxihuanderenleheshi，yeshiyoutaoyanderenheshi，haiyouniqijiheguanzhudewupin。ruguoniganjuedajiadexianliaopengdaoduanbanshi，zaizheizhongcengmianxuanzeyigeshinizuijidongdehuatitaolunqujiangba。

 danshibixuliuyideshi，shidudebiaoshuzishendexintaihejianjiejiukeyile，zhenduishehuifazhanzhongdeyixiezhuangkuang，bubibiaoshuguodufukuadeniantou，youqishishaofabupianjideguandian，neiyangfeichangrongyiranglingyifangganjuenishiyigefenqing，guoduxiaojibeiguan。

3.是不是喜爱探险

 zheiyihuatitaolunyijulingyifangdechudehuida，nengzaifeichangdashuipingshangshuomingnvxingshibushiheshiwanhun。keyishuoshuodajiazuolezuifengkuangdeshi，huoshijiaozongdedujialvyoulijing。budannengjiangxianizijideyouqudeshi，bingqienengcongtadehuiyingfenbiantadegexinghua，shiniduitayouzhedaliangdezhangwo。

4.zairichangshenghuozhongyoushenmefeichangzhideganxiedeshier

 budannengshinigenjuzishendehuiying，zhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenshiyigemingbaiganxiedesanguanqiadangderen，gengguanjiandeyeshinengcongnvxingdehuiyingzhongzhangwotadejiazhiguannian，huoxutahuihuiying，zuiganxiedeshiershishenpangdoushiyouyiqunyizhishiyonghexiezhutadepenyou，huoshilaozongjilezishenshengzhidejiyu，neiyangbuyiyangdehuidajiunengjiaoweichujiongranbutongdejiazhiguannian。

二.如何找话题跟男朋友闲聊

1.聊时下情况

 diyicihenanpengyoupengmian，xianghuzhijiansheiyeburenshi，jibenshangdeliyizhishilishushiwubiyoude，xiaorongzhehelingyifangjiangchukaichangcijiuxing，jianyidaqidegenlingyifangshuo：“ninhao，hengaoxingrenshini”，bujiaobuzao、qianxunwenwan、zixinxindandingcongrong，jibenshangdounengjilingyifangliuyougehaoyinxiang。

 nenggouhelingyifangliaoduijintiandetianqi、yuehuichangsuo、gonglujiaotong、lingyifangyizhe、youhuiqifenzheixiedeqingkuanghetihui，tashizuihaoshiqingchunankanshengshudehuatitaolun，liaodehaodehua，zaiyikaijiukeyijindaolejie、kaixindeqifenzhizhong。

2.聊个人爱好

 gerenaihaoshifeichangrongyikaiqifangbianzhimendeyigehuatitaolun，dangdajiadexiangqinyuehuijindaonankandeqifenshi，jiukeyiwenyiwenlingyifangdegerenaihao，jiarudajia2geqiahaoxingquaihaotouyuan，huatitaolundekeliaoxingyejiutishengle，huatitaolundangrannenggouyuanyuanbujuedeliaoxialaile，bingqieyitongdegerenaihao，hainenggouweiyihoudeyaoqingzuopudian，zaojiuliangrendulijiaowangdejiyu。

3.liaorichangshenghuo、liaogongzuozhong

 richangshenghuo、gongzuozhongshidajiamiqiexiangguandehuatitaolun，gendajiaderichanglianluoyegengweimiqie，jiaruninaozhongqueshimeiyouhuati，neimejiuliaoyiliaozishenderichangshenghuo、gongzuozhong，wenyiwenlingyifangderichangshenghuo、gongzuozhong，danqianwanbieduilingyifangpingtoupinzu，liangrenganglejiezuibihuidebianshisuiyidianpinglingyifang，ninengshuoshuozishendetihui，biaoshuyixiaduirichangshenghuo、gongzuozhongdeguandian，congeryekeyilianluodaodajiabicidejiazhiguannian。hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

三.和男朋友找话题聊天时的常见问题

 ‍1.jianghuaguodujinzhang，zhijieyuanyinjiushiniqueshaozixin，helingyifanggoutongjiaoliuyouzuai，haipa。zenmerangzishenyuelaiyuezixinxin，dahuoernenggoukanyikanzheixiefangmiandeshuben。xiangrangzishenxunsudegenggai，nenggoushizhequjieda。

 2.jianghuaxishengxiyan，meiyoujiqing。nideshengyuguoxiao，lveweizaozadediqu，tarenjiutingbuqingchunishuoshenme。jibiannixuelezaiduodefangfayiranyongbudao。jiuzhengfangfa：yongweixinyuyindezuoyongbazijishuodeyiduanhualuxia，huikanganshouyixia，younaxiebixugaishandediqujiuquelile。cizhi，wenyiwenpenyoudetihui，rangnidepengyoujiuzheng。

 3.sixianghunluan，biaoshuwuluojixing。nixiangyaoqubiaoshuyijianshihuozheguannian，yaoyoufeichanghaodesiweiluoji，bixuxiansisuoshuli，suihouzaihuiyinglingyifang。bubiyijuhuajianglaijiangqu，ranglingyifanghaofan。

 4.hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？rendedanaozhishichubeibugou，suhuashuodehao，shudaoyongshifanghenshao。meiyouzhishichubei，nihenyoukenengnanyishencengcihuatitaolun。huizongchulaibianshi，xinfuqizao，buxihuandushu。youduguoyixieshubenhuojiandaoyixiebaodao，meiyoulijiqushulishuli。xiabanlechenniyuhulianwangerbuguanzhushishiredian。qinfentigaozijidezonghenengli，nideshenpangcaihuibuqueyixingpengyou。

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？shijishangliangrenjiaowang，liaoshenmebuzhongyao，guanjiandeshinengtandaogongtongyuyan，buhuiyigerenziyanziyu，ranglingyifangganjuewuqu。jiaruqueshimeiyouhuati，duozhangwotapingchangxihuanshenme，duokanduotingcaikeyiduojiang，zheijiushisuzaohuatitaolun。zenyangxunzhaobicizhijianneixindegongmingdian，jiubixudajiaduozhangwoduogoutongjiaoliu。