第一次见面，相亲女买衣服要求相亲男付钱好吗？初次相亲女生注意事项

 xiangqinyuehuiyibanquanshidaogaolingnianlingcaihuiquxiangqin，20laisuiderendouburongyiquxiangqin，chucixiangqinnvshengzhuyishixiangyounaxieni？youyuneigeshihouyeyouzizhi，tiaolaitiaodiao，yefeichangrongyixunzhaomubiao，yincichedibuyongxiangqinyuehui。chucixiangqinsongshenmeliwujiduifangni？

 youyixienvxingdengdaogaolingnianling，shiyouyutamentaitiaoguidingtaigao，yincicaihuizaochengzishen30jisuileyemeiyouwanhun，bingqietamenquxiangqindeqingkuangxiahaibuyuanyijiangdibiaozhun，haimingquetichuyixielingrenwufajienadeguiding。

nanshengmeimeipengdaoneiyangdenvxing，doushihuiyouqidedanxin，yebuhuizaizaiciliaoxialai，doushihuitiaoxuansheqi。

 chucixiangqinnvshengzhuyishixiangyounaxieni？xiabianyouyigeneiyangdeshili，xiangqinnvhexiangqinnandi1cipengmian，liangrenguangjiedeqingkuangxia，xiangqinnvkanhaoleyitaoyifu1wanyuan，guidingxiangqinnanfufei，haishuozheiyeshizaimoliannanxing，yezuoweishijijianmianli，jieguobeixiangqinnannuchi：“gun，nimeizige。”

谢女性/32岁：

 wojinnian32sui，wokanqilaiyouqidepiaoliang，bingqieshenxinghenmiaotiao，jinguan32suile，keshidoumeiyoukanqilaihenlao，youyuwojiaoweizhongshiweihubaoyang，yincikanqilaixiang20laisuideren，zhiqian20suideqingkuangxia，xuduonanshengzhuiwo，bingqiequanshipailiechengyitiaolong，keshiwobutaixihuanneixieren，youyuzheixienanshenghenqiongle，taihanchenle，peibushanghewozaiyiqi，bingqiewodeguidingyeyouqidegao，jiarudadaobushang，woshiburongyitongyizuotamendenvyou。

jiuyouyuwoguidingtaiguodugao，meirennengtongyidele，zaochengwoaobianchengdalingnvqingnian。

 wodejiarenyiban，xinshuiyeyibanban，jinyou5000yuanqianyigeyue，wofumuzaiwoganggangchushengbujiujiulilehun，youyuwobabachuguile，yinciwomamachibuxiaojiutiaoxuanleliyi，lihunzhihouwomamaweilegenghaodizhonghuowomeiridouyouqidenuligongzuo，congyigeruonvshengbianchenglenvhanzhi，yinciwohenqinpeiwomama，ershiwomamayechangchangwenhuajiaoyuwo，zhihouzhangdayihouyidingyaozhaoyigefuyoude，qianwanbiezhaoyigeqiongguangdan，fouzerizihaowuyiwenhuiguodetongkubukan，neishihouwoyebeiwomamatamenhuyoule，yincicaihuiyaowoyuelaiyueneimashiji。

 wochuqugongzuozhonghou，jinguanxinshuidi，keshiwomeiyigeyuetaoqianyouqideqiangda，zhixuwoyaomaidewupinwodoushihuiqumai，bingqiehaiqianleyidaduiqian，jinguanwobiaocengchuanzhedabandeguangcaizhaoren，yeyouqidexiangmingai，danshijishangshenhouguodehenbukan，jinjinwobuxiangzhanxianchuqubale，wozhixiangjiangwozuihaoshideyimianchengxianjitarenkan，yinweiwoyouqidexiaimangmupanbi，jiarujiandaoyoutongshibiwogengweifuyouchuandegengweihao，woyeyouqideduji，suihoujiuxiangbanfaguodebitagengqiang。

 neigeshihouyouhenduonanshengzhuiwo，keshizheixienanshengdejiatingtiaojianhenyiban，wohenkanbushangtamen，yincibuyuanyihetamenzaiyiqi，neigeshihoutamenyequebaozhihouhuibangwohaoderichangshenghuo，keshibuxiangxin，youyuworenweineiyangdenanshengyagenjiumeiyouqiantu，meibiyaozaitamendeshenshanglangfeijingli。

 manmandiwodenianjiyeyulaiyubianda，keshiwoshenbianderendouzhaodaomubiaojiuwohaishidanshen，woyouyigezimeijiajileleyigefuerdai，meiriderichangshenghuoguodeyouqidehao，yifukuzi，pinpaibaochungaoquanshizhimingpinpaide，tadeneileirichangshenghuozheishiwochaosimuxiangde，suihouyinweiwoxiangxiangtaneibanzhaoyigefurenguofurenderichangshenghuo。

 erworuhedouyubushangneibanderen，meiyicipengdaodequanshiyixieqiongguangdan，tiaolaitiaodiaoyinweiwoaodaogaoling，womamayeweiwodehunyindashijuedeyouqideyoulv，suihoujiufenpeiwoquxiangqin，shuoxiangxijieshaoyixiefuyoudenanshengbangwo。

 wocongtouzhiweidouxiangqinyuehuilejishici，yemeiyouxunzhaohewoqingyide，zhihouyouyige，yaowoyouqidelingrenmanyi，jiazhongsuanshimanfuyou，bingqiehetadi1cipengmiandeqingkuangxia，tayeyouqideshenshi，yizhedabanyikanbianshiyigefuren，zuizhuyaoshitahaihenshuai，yincineishihouwoduitayijianzhongqing。

 neishihoutayuewochuquyiqichifan，haijinleyijiagaoduandecanguan，bingqiechidecaiquanshipianguide，quanshiyixiemeiweijiayao，neishihouwogaoxingdelebude，yinweiwozaitayanqianzhuangdehenmiantian，zhuangchuyifuwenwandeyangzi，duiyinweiwotinglingrenmanyide。

 chiguofanhou，dajiabianqudaxingshangchangzouyizou，suzaozengjinganqing，neishihouwojinleyijiayifudianshichuan，zheiyijianyifukuzishipinpailaide，libiandeyifukuziquanshipianguide，neishihouwokanhaoleyitao，suihouwoyedianjizheshitabangwofuqian，zuoweizengjiwodeliwu，zongzhitaneimedaqi，jueduibuhuihuijuewode，bingqiewoyexiangzaitadeshenshanghuodeyixieyichu，suihoujiunazheneitaoyifukuzi，qushoukuantaineibian，rangdaogouyuanjifei。

 neishihoudaogouyuanhewojiang，zheitaoyifukuziyao1wanyuan，woyiweitahuijijibangwofuqian，xiangbudaotalizaiwobianshangshierbujian，jiandaotadongdoumeidong，woyejile，jiuhetashuodao：“nizenmehaizhanzhea，fufeia，nandaoshuoxiangqinyuehuiwoxiangmaixielipinzengjiwodema，jiarunikenmaizheiyijianyifukuzibangwo，jiuzhengshinihenzaiyiwo，zhihouhenizaiyiqi，yinweiwohuiguodefeichangxingfu，yincinilaifufei，songzheitaoyifukuzibangwo，zhongjiunanshengsongnvrenliwuyehenyiqiezhengchang，nikendingbuhuilianzheiyidianyebutongyiba，kanzhenichuanderenmorenyang，butaikenengneimexiaojiaziqiba。”chucixiangqinsongshenmeliwujiduifangni？

 jiushitademiansehenbuhaokan，huifuwo：“wogangbingbushiqingnichifanlema，bingqieneiyidunfanhualewo5000yuanqian，yinweiwomeiyougufunini，zaishuolenihewocaidi1tianlejie，butaikenenghuisongnineimeguideyifukuzi，chufeishinishiwonvpengyou.wohuisong，yincinibunengguidingneimetaiguo”。

 neishihouwoyouqidefahuo，wodeguidingnaerguofenle，nandaoshuonanshengsongnvrenliwubingbushihenzhengchangma，xiaojiaziqijiuxiaojiaziqihaishuodeneimazhenzhenyouci，wojiangdao：“wobuzaihu，nijintianwubiyaobangwomaizheitaoyifukuzi，fouzenijiushixiaojiaziqibianshixiaoqi，buyuanweiwotouru，jiarunilianzheiyidiandoubuyuanweiwotouru，neimewojiajinininanaxielaiaiwo？jialibingbushifuyouma，1wanyuanqianzhenduinilaishuoyagenjiusuanbudeshenme。”

 tatingjianwoneimeshuoyihou，lijinuchiwo：“yuanbenduinihuoshitingyouhaogande，danshinidegerenxingweigengxinlewodesanguan，duinidehaoganduyezhujianxiaotui，xiangbudaonishineimeshijidenvxing，woyouqianyouruhe，zheiyibushinide，niyoushenmeyangdezizhiguidingwo，shibushinigentarenxiangqinyuehuiyeshineiyangde，laoxiangkengtarendeqian，xiangzaitarendeshenshanghuodeyixieyichu，woyaogaosunibutaikeneng，woshiburongyizhelenidedao，zaishuole，woyebuqiannide，niweihezhilingwo，nisuanlaoji？wofumudouhaipaneiyanggenwoshuohua，niyoushenmeyangdezizhi？worenweiwomenbuheshi，neijiuzheiyang，yeyougangchideneiyidunfan，5000yuanqiannizhuan2500bangwo，wozenmebukeyizainideshenshangbaibaidetouru。”

 neishihoudaxingshangchangliyouhenduoren，bingqietashuodaowodeqingkuangxia，zheixiedaogouyuanyizhizaiwangzhewo，gaodewohenguoyibuqu，wukenaihexia，wojiangneiyibandehuoshifeijiaojitale，fuqingyihoutajiangwojiaruheimingdanle，zhuanguoshenjiulikaile，neishihouwojidelebude，bingqielianyediuguangle，zheixiedaogouyuanyizhizaineilitaolunwo，shuowoshiyigebaijinnv，wowulianlijibaituoledaxingshangchang。chucixiangqinsongshenmeliwujiduifangni？

 daoxianzaidougaobudongwojiujingzuobuduinaxie，woyejiaonanshengsongyitaoyifubangwobale，youwuma？weiheyaoneimewuruwo，woxiangtahaowuyiwenmeiqian，qingwochicanfan，haixuyaowofuyiban，xiangzheileixiaodujichangdenansheng，wobieyehao。

 jieyu：chucixiangqinnvshengzhuyishixiangyounaxieni？nvxingyoushiqueshibubitaizigaozida，bubizongganjuezishenhenniu，shijishangniyizhizaitarenyanzhongyiwenbuzhi，jiranzishendenianjibianda，jiuyingdangmingbaishoulianxing，jinzaozhaoyigerenjiaren，erbushihaiguidingzheiguidingnei，fouzezhinengrangnanshengdichu，yehuirangzishenzhaobudaonanpengyou。