男友去足浴按摩被我发现后分手，现在想挽留他该怎么做？

 henanyou18nianzaiyiqiganqingwending，taduiwohao，qingshanggao，danshitaxinqigao，erwoqingxuguanlibuhao。yigeyuezongshichaojiayici。20niandifenshoule，yuanyinshifaxiantahepengyouquzuyu“anmo”，yishiwufajieshou，yizhidajitadezizunxinchaojiapinlvhengao。houxufenshoubannianyizhiweicengduanguolianxi，woyewanliuduoci，danshitahaishifenkai。

nv：95，dufeichu，yueru7k，putongbenke，youyifang

nan：94，duchu，yueru1.2w，wuche，fangdaimeiyue7k，shuangyiliuzaizhishuo

 2018niandizaiyiqi，jiatingdoujiaoputong，shuangfangjiatinghemu，tamamashierbaoma。fumuyoujieshaotiaojiangenghaode，danwotutaduiwohao，qingshanggao，renheshidouhuiheduifangfenxiang，xingquaihaoyizhi，jidongwodeyanwaizhiyi，yedongwodeyuyanyouzhi，renshengdaoshileixing，wohenchongbaita，yuanyihetayiqichengzhang，woshiaisajiaoyoudianzuokeaixing，wodequedianshiqingxuguanlibuhao，taxinqigao，zizunxinhenqiang，pengyoubitafazhandehaojiuhuigantanziji，biandejusang，yigeyuechaojiayici。

 2020difenshou，wuleihongding，zhijinweizouchu，daohuosuo:faxiantahepengyouquzuyu“anmo”，yishiwufajieshou，danbushefenshou，zuodaosi，dajitazizunxin，chaojiapinlvup，tajuedecishiwufawanhui，suitichufenshou。fenshoubannianlaiyizhiweiduanlianxi，wowanliuguoduoci，tayouyuduocihaishixuanzefenkai。

几点分手原因：

1.woqingxuguanlicha，taleile;

2.renweiwobushiyigehaodejiehunduixiang，xuyaoyigerengongtongchengdanfengyu;

3.renshengguihuabugoumingque;

huazhenqinggandaoshi，wozoubuchushilianyinying，kaishihuaiyiziji，xiangqinduociwugan，gaizenmeban?

花镇情感导师回复：

 congnidemiaoshulaikan，duifangdejianxingyuangaoyuni。nitutaduinihao，qingshanggao，haishuota“jidongwodeyanwaizhiyi，yedongwodeyuyanyouzhi”，xiangxiangwomenzairichangshenghuozhongpengdaodedaduoshunanshengdoushininapamingmingbaibaidishuoletamenyeweibikeyiwanquanlijie，dantashibuyongnishuojiuzhidaonixiangyaobiaodashenme，zheideshiduanweiduogaodejiannan?zheiyebuyiwaiweishenmenizheimeshangganzheduita，fenshouzhihouyourucishebudele。

 fanguanniduizijidegexingmiaoshu，shi“qingxuguanlibuhao”，erqiehai“youdianzuo”。nitigongqingxujiazhidenenglibiduifangxiangchataiduotaiduo，ruguoyanzhibubitagaosanfenyishang，dabudaomoumeinvwanghonghexiaoyanjingtuokouxiudakazhijiandechaju，genbenbuzuyiwenzhuzheiduanganqing。

 tadejianxingrucizhiqiang，nidepuyouzheimegao，suoyiyouduoouxingweiwanquanjiuzaiyiliaozhizhong，nimenzheizhongpeizhi，duifangruguoshidanoude，jiubuzhengchang。tadefangfabingbuzhengque，danhenmingxian，niwanquanzuzhibule。

 paokaidaodecengmianbutan，xiangnizheiyangdeqingxuheidong，jiuhaobiyigehaodianliangjigaodeshouji，chongdianshixiaoshi，kaijishifenzhong，zheigesheisheibuxiangzaimaiyitaihuozhehuangeshoujibeiyong。

 genghekuangduifangbinidexuanzequangaolehenduohenduo，niduitalaishuo，meiyourenhezhideliuliandedifang。tadetaidufeichangmingque，jiushitielexinyaoheniduanjueguanxi，shenzhizaifenshouhouzheibanniandeshijianli，liannisongshangmendeduanzetadoubukenjieshou，nandaonihaibunengrenqingxianshima?

 zhiyuni“kaishihuaiyiziji”，wozhixiangshuo，nibuyonghuaiyi，wanquankeyidadanyidianxiadinglun，yinimuqiandezhuangtai，ganqingbukenengshunli。nishuoziji“xiangqinduociwugan”yehenzhengchang，bijingquxiangqindenanshengdaduoshudoushishitounanhebunan，genbenmeiyouniyaodegaoyanzhigaoduanweijianzinan，suoyinikendingbuhuidongxin。qitaxiangqinduociweiguodebaobei，nimenyekeyiduizhaoyixiazheiyitiao。

 youqishi：tangruohenshaoyourenduiniyijianzhongqing，danshizongyourenanpaixiangqin，xiangqinshiduifangchangchangdounengkanshangni，niquejuedemeiyouganjuede。yibandoushishibunvhai。

 xianzai，baizainimianqiande，zhiyouliangtiaolu。diyitiaoshijiangdipu，niuzhuanzijidebuxing，buyaozaitanlianqingxujiazhi，zheiduinilaishuofeichangnan。diertiaoshizhaoyigelaizipinkunshanqude，zishenxiongjinghencha，piaozaidachengshidenansheng，bingqiechuqianchufang“qu”tahuijia，yihouyeyaokangxiayangjiahukoudezhongren，zijifuyanghaizizhangda，zheitiaodekenengxinghaishaoweigaoyidian。daodiyaoxuannayitiaolu，jiukannizijile。