对待前男友的正确态度，怎么和大龄剩女相处？

 gongchudebanfayouhenduo，xukanruhelinghuoyingbian。zheiliyousandiangongnicanzhao，diyidianbianshizhongshita，duidaiqiannanyoudezhengquetaidu，dierdianbianshixuehaojijigongxiang，disandianbianshijitaguishugan。ruguonipengdaoxihuandenvshideqingkuangxia，ertazhenghaoshiyigedalingnvqingnian，qingbuyaojitazhuangshangdalingnvqingniandebiaoshi，wulunshihendadenianjidouhuiyouzishendeqinggan，hetajiaowangdediyibushiyaozhongshitazhangwota，nicaisuanshizhenzhengdeaita。youyikeduitabuhuigaibiandezhenxinshiyi，buhaobuhuiqidepeizheta，biyiqiedouguanjian。

重视他

 zhongshitashixihuantadediyibu，zhongshitajiuxuyaoduitayouyigeqiadangdelejie，tashidalingnvqingnian，dantayeshiyimingnvshi，tayekeyixiangyibannvshijiniguanaiernv，yunyingjiazhong，weichizhenqing。tadeqianghanlaiyuanyugongzuozhong，yinergongzuofangmianniyinggaizhongshitadetiaoxuanheniantou，lejietayoushihoudebaqi。nixuyaomingbaiqushangxitayubierenbuyiyangdemei，tademeibingbushiruanruo，bingbushipianai，fanershizaiqinfenshangjinnuliquanguochengzhongpengdaocuobaihejingjizhilushidejianyihejianqiangbuqu，tamendeshenghuozhuangtairangtamendandudequjinxing，zheishidenibunengzhishenshiwaiyebukeyiquanliyifuxiezhu，nixuyaodeshijiyuyidianjilihuoshibangyigexiaomang，rangtalejieniyizhizaishenpang。

积极共享

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给与归属感

 xuduonvshixinlidoumeiyouanquangan，dalingnvqingnianmenyouyumangliugongzuozhong，duiqingganhezhenqingdouwubidequefaanquangan。nanshizaiyutamengongchudeneishihouyaofenwaidejitamenchongzudeguishugan，rangtamennengqieqieshishideganshoudaonide。zaitamenkaixindeqingkuangxianinengpeitamenyiqikaixin，duidaiqiannanyoudezhengquetaidu，shangxindeqingkuangxiapeitazaishenbiankuanweita，diyishijianganlaitamenshenpang，xiangtazhengshinideneixinshiyoutade，bingqiefangdaolediyiwei。dalingnvqingnianxingziyejiaoweiji，yinerdangtamenyunichaojiashiyoushishixiangrangrenzhuyidaotamen。zuihaoshideguishuganbianshizhenzheng，ruguonishizhenqingshiyideduita，tamenbianhuiganshoudao。