相亲怎么样才能不尬聊，4个技巧

 xiangqinzenmeyangcainengbugaliao？80%huijiaguonianderenhuibeianpaiquxiangqin。tamendefumubunengjujue，suoyitamenzhinengyingzhetoupiqu。nizhidaosuoyouguanyuxiangqindeyufangcuoshima？ruhebimiangangadeliaotian？

1.找出细节，适度夸大，适度夸大

renmenzongshigengrongyiduixihuanzijiderenyougenghaodeyinxiang。yinci，qiaomiaodizhaodaoyuduifangxiangguandedian，shiduzhenchengdizanmei。

 biruzheidunfanchidedongxihaibucuo，neimejiukeyizanmeiduifangfeichangshanzhangdiancai，ruguocantingyeshiduifangtigongdexuanze，neijiukeyizanmeixuanzecantingdehaopinwei。

ni:haha，xiexie，neimeyunnanlvxingyoushenmehaowandema？(xiayigezhutizidongdakai)

2.多问柔性开放性问题

 ruguonibuxiangrangduihuayigangadefangshijieshu，niyinggaijiduifangchongfenfahuidekongjian，biruwengengduokaifangdewenti，danjizhuyaochengweiyigedaerkongdongdetaolun。

实例

liru，tongyangshiwenxingquaihao，yixiashiliangzhongjiaoliufangshi：

ni：nideaihaoshishenme？

她：美食.旅游。

马上尬聊了...

ni：pingshizhoumonibashijianhuazaizuoshenmeshang？

ta：zuofan，hepengyouguangjie，huozhequduantulvxing。

 xiangqinzenmeyangcainengbugaliao？kaifangshiwenti，huidarenheshiqingdoukeyi，erqieshizhenshide。tiwenfangkeyigenjudaanzhongdexijiejixutiwen“xihuanzuoshenmecai”.“duantulvxingyibanqunali，youmeiyoutuijian？”xiangguanhuati。

3.分享你所看到和听到的，表达你的感受

 duiyujibenshishixinxidejiaoliu，fanyingdeshikeguanqingkuang，danyaoshenrulejieyigeren，tataiduhejiazhiguanyeyinzangzaimeiyigehuayudebiaodazhong。zaijiaoliushi，yongtonglixinsikaohetonglixin。goutongzhongdezheixieruanzhiliangfanyingleyigerenshifouzhidaoruhesikaotaren。

实例

ta：jintianxiabanbijiaowan，dagongrenkeburongyi。

ni：shechunan，renyoutongxin。niandiyijingmangdaofeiqilaile，queshishizheiyang。

shunyankeyitidaojintianxiabanhouzenmehuiyouzheiyangdeganjue，shishenmeshi？

4.保持相同的输入和输出频率

 jiaruwentiguoyumiji，jiuhuijiduifangtaiqiangdegongjixingheyapogan。bijing，meigerenlaixiangqindoushiweileqingsongyukuaidiliaotian，erbushiweilebianlun。

 xiangqinzenmeyangcainengbugaliao？liru，zailingyifanghuidayigekaifangdehuatihou，shouxianshidangdihuiyinglingyifangdehuida，ranhoushidangdifenxiangnideguandian。buyaoyicishuoyiqie，zheiyangshuangfangdouyoukongjianwan。shuohuashiyaozhuyikuozhan。