相亲男不想谈的表现，相亲不谈感情谈交易

 xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？zhongsuozhouzhi，nannvbilishihengyichengweihunyinshichangdechangtai。danshinannvzhijiandechajuzhiyoujiqianwan，weishenmehuiyouchaoguo2yidedanshenrenkouni？

bilishiheng，langduoroushaoshiyigeyuanyin，danbingfeiquanbu。

muqianyingxianghunyinzuichangjiandeyuanyinshiwuzhitiaojian。

wulunshizhudonghaishibeidong，xianzaihenduodanshennannvyijingwuxingzhongwuhualehunyin。

caili、jiazhuang、cheduipaichang、fangwu、qiche，youxiedifangshenzhiduihujiyeyouyaoqiu，duigerenbenshendekaolvjiaoshao。

zaixiangqinzhongbeikanbuqijijiapindushengnvhou，shizidakaikoudenvhaiyebeishihunnanqingnianlieru“heimingdan”。

 jinguanxuduonanxingbeipojieshouwuzhihunyin，bingmoxunannvhunyinshiyixiliezhangqihetongjiaoyi，danguoyumingmuzhangdan、buguanxinnanxingqingxudenvxingjiqijiatingrengranwufadedaogongzhongderenke。

weiledadaoyaoqiandemude，gezhongshouduandouyongjinle，gezhongjiekoudoushihuayangbaichu。

 “fumudeyanglaojin”，“gegedeqiziben”，“jiaxiangdechuantongxisu”，“shaojibierenxiaohua”dengdeng，ruguonanrenbuji，neijiushi“bugouai”。

youxierenshenzhilandezhaoliyou，zhijiejiandancubaodishuo“woxuyaoanquangan”hailiangdeqianshi“anquangan”zuihaodejiqi。

danshi，zheizhongjiandancubaode“anquangan”，wuyiyuchuanbierendexie，zouzijidelu。

 zheijiuxiangyouzheimeduodeanquangan。ruguonixiangyaogengduo，takendinghuishaoyidian。ruguoshuangfangbunengdachenggongshi，zheibijiaoyi“maimai”ziranbunengchengjiao。

 28suidexiaokedaxuebiye，zaierxianchengshiduzigongzuo。tadetiaojianhaibucuo。zuoweiyijiaxiaogongsidexingzhengzhuguan，tadeyueshourukeyidadao1wanyuanyishang。

liangnianqian，tadefumuhaichuzidiyaletadefangzi。

 xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？anlishuo，yitadetiaojianxiangyaotuodanziranbushiyijiannanshi，zhishitadaomuqianweizhihaimeiyouzhaodaoyuanyiyutaxieshougonglaoderen。

xiaoketongchangmangyugongzuo，meiyoushijiantanlunhunyin，suoyitazhinengtongguoxiangqinlaiwanchenghunyinheaiqing“xiaoshi”。

erqiezuijinyinian，tabiandeyuelaiyuebuxihuanxiangqin，yinweitafaxianxiangqingenbenbushitanhunlunjia，ershizhuanmenzuojiaoyi。

nvfangdegezhongyaoqiurangtagandaotoutongbuyi，tayeyoulenifanxinli，juedehunyinyeshizheiyang。

xiangqinhenduo，zuozaizhuoziduimiandenvhaihuanleyigeyouyige，dansihuzaihetongyigerenxiangqin。

yinwei，tamendexuqiushiyiyangde。

fangwu、qiche、gongzuo、caili，erzheixiedongxiyaomeshiweilemianzi，yaomeshiweileanquan。

 yougenvhaishuodehao：“ruguoyouyitianwoxianzaikanqilaibuhaokan，huozhewolaole，nibuxihuanwo，neiwokeyiliuxiayixieqian，fouzewohuiheniyiqiwanzheimeduonianma？”

xiaokeduitamendexiangfafeichangfangan，tazongjuedezhiyoujingshenruhuderencaihuijingshenchuhu。

 lihunhouniyiwusuoyoudeyuanyinshiniyiwusuoyou，zheiyunishifoujiehunwuguan。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，niweishenmeyaoweizheigenanrenyaoqian？

xuduonvxingdoubahunyinzuoweiyizhonganshenlimingdechouma，xiangnanfangyaogezhongqian，koukoushengshengweifangzhilihunjingshenchuhu。

 dantarenweineixienvrenyiwusuoyou。tamenhunqianbunuligongzuo，meiyouche，meiyoufangzi。dangtamentidaojiehunshi，weishenmetamenxiangbananrendeshourubianchengzijidesirenshouru？

zheigenbenbushihunyin，wanquanshixijie。

suizherenmendedixianyuelaiyuedi，hunyinyoushihuibiandeganga。

 jidedangchuwojiehundeshihou，zainiangjiazhangluohunyandeshihou，linjuzhuawen，“nizhangfujiajileniduoshaocaili？”“nizhangfujinimailoulema？”“sanjinhualeduoshaoqian”dengdeng，zheijibulimaoyouganga，danshihenduorendouxiguanle。

 cailihejiazhuangduihunyinlaishuowuguanjinyao。zaigudai，hunyinzhuyaoshifumuanpaideliyijiaohuan，danxianzaihunyinziyouyinggaishihunyinhuiguigengduodeaiqing。

yihunyindemingyijinxingqiaoranlveduo，zheizhonglveduoguoyuxunsu，yizhiyuxuduoshihunnanrendouwufakangju。

youyuwunai，tamenzhinengxuanzebujiehun。

 ruguoyigenvrenzaihunyinzhongxuyaoyongwuzhilaijianlizijideanquangan，neimezheiyangdehunyinshizuicuiruode，gengbuyongshuonianqingfufudeqingganbiaodale。

xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？nvrenyaozili，nahunyinzuojiaoyi，bijingshishuizhongyuejingzhonghua，nanyizhangjiu。