家庭妇女该怎样智斗第三者防第三者?

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?dangzishendehunyinzaoshoubeiju，laogongyouledisanzhe，yexuzishenyouyouyushijiatingfunv，yixiazibianchenglaoruobingcan。zheiyineishihoudangnizaiyixindijiaozong，youkuyounao，budanwujiyushi，fandaohaihuibalaogongbixiangdisanzheerdehuaili，cikeyaoruheduifudisanzheer?zuoweizhengshi，xiangniuzhuanqiankun，wubizhenzuoqilai，zhidoudisanzhe，nenggouzhuanbaiweisheng，huaxianweiyi。neimajiatingfunvzenyangzhidoudisanzheni?

委曲求全，维持理智

 richangshenghuodenantiquanshiduisuoyourenshideneixinduanlian。danglaogongyouledisanzhe，niwanbanbiequwucongshushuo。keshidaonenggoujingxialaichendianziji。zenmefangdisanzhe?xiangxiangzheimeduoniandeyishizhuxing，shishazaochenglejinridenanti。jiarushizishendeyuangu，zishenbixuyaoliuyijiuzheng。jiarushilaogongdeyuangu，yexuyouhenaita。neihaiyaoxuehaorenshou。

 yaolejieyishizhuxingbingbushijizhide，bingbushichediyizhaorenmendelixianghuaerxing。nimeifajianchixiaqu，keshinizhuyaodeshinenggoujuecezishendexintaiheqingxu。dangnizishenxiangdekai，jiumeishenmenanyijiejuedenanti。yinci，xianweichilizhi，zaizuoquanmiandesisuo。

提高自身，刚柔并济

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?youyushijiatingfunv，baituoleshehuifazhan，yinciganjuezishenchuanzhedabanbuchuanzhedabandoubuzaihu，huoxugengshiyouyunineiyangdeqingkuang，zaochenglaogongjiandaoniyeshijuepibei。zhangciyiwang，yidianershenmiganyemeiyou。

 jiashanghuatitaolundanyihua，feichangrongyilingrenjuedeyanjuan，cikelaogongshenpangchuxianledisanzheerzaban?nikeyixuehaotigaoziji，duokanyuedumouxiexinwenbaodaohuoshihenganxingqudeshujie，rangzishendejingshenshizhisuizhinianjichixutigao。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?nenggouzuojiatingfunv，keshibunengyushehuifazhanshikong。lingwai，dexueyidianerchuanyidapei，wulunduomangduolei，doububizuo1gebuxiubianfuderenlaozhuhuang。

 gangroubingji，nenggouranglaogongyanzhuhushan，fajuejiazhongdehuiguliangwojuedebenlaidoushi1gelingrentengxidexiaogongzhu。disanzheerwangwangzhaolaogongxiai，bujinjiushishuoyouyubiaomian，huoxudoubuqianqueyoupinweide。keshijiaruzheizhongsuyangnidoujuyou，laogongzaozhongwanhaihuibasixuquhuilaide。zhongjiujielehundenanren，jiaruxifumeishenmedadebuzhengque，meiyouhaoduogexiangyaoqueshihezishendexifuliyide。zhangwodisanzhexintai，shidudianhualaogong

 disanzheerjirandangshangdisanzheer，bixushiyousuoxu。yaobushizhitujinqian，yaobujiushishuoxianghuihuaibierendejiazhong，yaobujiushishuorenmenchangshuodezhenqing，keshirujindedisanzheeryebumengle，burongyishadaoainanrennaxieyebuzaihu。gaobuhao，nonggefeihunshengzinvchuqu，neimayishengquanshichengdanhebubian，neiyangduixiaohaidoushijudadebuheli。

 yinci，ninengkanmouxielianqingdeshehuixintaixueleideshujie，guanxinxiadisanzheerdexinlixiangfa，suihoukanshidudejihuidianhualaogong，ranglaogonggaoqingchu，disanzheernenggouduiniyouganjue，haikeyixiaitaren，youyunibingfeidisanzheerdeweiyi，youzhedisanzheerjiushishuoyouzhezheijianbushangyebaoxiandeshangpin。yaoranglaogonggaoqingchu：yecaozhongjiuyemeiyoujiahuashangyebaoxianheanquanxing。

 erduinieryan，laogongsuanshizishendeweiyi。genjuyanzhiyoulideshuoci，ranglaogongjinzaohehaoruchu。xuduonanrenwojuedeyoushiyehenlixing。neiyangnihaiyaoqiadangdibalaogongladaozishendejiazhong。

 zuoweijiatingfunv，zaijiazhongbaofaweijideneishihouyebubibuzixin，zhinengweichizishendexinxinheyingyong，bingcaiqucuoshiditongyixingdong，zhibizhiji，nenggoubalaogonglafanhuizishendeshenpang，badisanzheerzhanshengzaiqianzhongshuweichengyiwai。