老公有了第三者该怎么防第三者？

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?rujinyishizhuxingshuizhunpubiantigao，shuobailebaonuansiyinyu，dajiachibaochuannuanhuidianjizheganshani?huoxushidunlun，xingzhougongzhili，danshirentebieshizaishinanxingzheileixiaodongwuzuiaimuxurong，kelizhixiaoyingshuomingruzaixiaodongwudexingxingweizhong，xinzuyuandechuxiangengfeichangrongyizaochengxingchongdong，yincidisanzheermanmanyingshiersheng。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?disanzheershishehuifazhandewuzhi，doushifuqixingshenghuobuhemudewuzhi，tashiwaijieyaosuheneibuyaosude1gefuhexing。henxianeryijian，waijieyaosuzhilaogong，erneibuyaosuzhilaopo，erdisanzheershishishangyeyiweizhefufulianggerenzhongjianfenqiderengehua。jiarulaogongyoudisanzhezenmeban?

1.先提问问题他需不需要找情人

 xiangyaozhidaogaizenmeban，wubixianzhangwodisanzheerchuxiandeyuangu，laogongzhaoqingrenyouerzhongzhuangkuang，zheizhongshichixuxingde，lingzheizhongshipianmianxingde，jiarushidiyileiqingkuang，zaiduifudisanzheyiqian，niyingdangzailaogonghezishendeshoushangzhaozhaoyuangu，nilaogongpingchangshifoudangdaichenshimei?shifouqingtiaolanqing?zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 jiarushidehuaniguanjiangaiyingduinilaogongbingfeidisanzheer，neiyangdenanrenkuanrongletayihui，tahairenweizishenganlehaoshier，baojinzhizhihouzhengchugexiaosixiaowuxiaon，yushangneiyangdenanrenyaozhuangshiduanwan，gailijiuli;dangnilaogongpingchangchushijiaoweigangzhengbuagangke，duijiazhonghenyongyudandang，kehuanshichulegui，zheishijiubukeyiyitangchihuiguainilaogongle。

2.你务必思考一下下自身是不是充足合格

 1gejigedelaopobingbuyiweizhesuxingyemei，keqinkejianxianggequanzhibaomuyiyang，nifushita，weijunzuogengtangliufeichang，zaicantingchufanglimianmangjinmangchu，qianchexiaohai，zigaozidalaoliuzhipodebaisemeigui，zailaogongyanzhongwojuedejiushishuoyipanjinzhencai，youyunishuhuchuanzhedaban，laogongduijiniganxiezhiqing，quemeiyoureqing，cikejiaruyougetongqingdalide20suinvhaisongzhitazuishang，taruhedichuhuanshang?

 jirannilaogongxiaidisanzheer，haiburuxuexibierendisanzheer，tashoushangbixujubeiniqianquedeyexulaogongyouchongjingdezhiliang，jianghuishiduizishenrongmaodezhongshi，jianghuishifengfuduocaidejingshenshizhixiuyang，yejianghuishitashanyuzhangwonanrenxintaidegongzuonengli。

 zenmefangdisanzhe?zaizheiciyuanpeihedisanzhedeconglinzhanzhong，nizhinengjiangzishendezhengtishilitishengdaolingyifangdeshuiping，naizhikuayuelingyifangcaiyouyingmian。kantarenshiruhebadisanzheerganpaode，yongleshenmefangshi，jibaidisanzheerdefangshiyouyoushenme!

3.愿意争得就得忍受

 lejiezishendelaogongzaiwaibianxuduoren，laopoyixiazihaowuyiwenwufajiena，ganwanbukeyibaqipodaolaogongtouding，baoyuanchukaishitagengdichuhuoshiyinneijiuerduobiyiwaimeiyoubiedeyongtu，biebalaogongyesuzaochengduishou，duishouzhineng1ge，disanzheer，jiarutamen2gedoubeizuoweiduishou，jiubuhaiparongruyugongma?

4.理性给你看起来更有感染力

 denglaogonghepingfenshouyihou，biezhejizheshualaijienan，zhishiyaoquanjielaogongduizheiyiduanlushuiyinyuanbaochiqingxingmouxie，disanzheerzhaoyihunnanrenzhibuguochuziyuerzhongyuangu：yiweiqiancai，erweiqinggan。jiarutaweiqiancaierzhejie，neimazheileinvxingnengyaoma?jinrigenzheiyihongxiaozhangliwoyuanyangxishui，mingrihuoxujiuhegengfuyoudefufushuangshuangbajiahai;

 jiarutashichuziyuganqing，neimazheileiganqingchengshuqima?zhibuzhiyi1gejiazhongzuoweifuchudaijia，yiliangrenfengyutongzhoudehenduonianqingganzuoweifuchudaijia?disanzheerjiaoweinianqing，rujinrelianyizhenzixinxian，zhihoubidinghuizaochenghenduoyishimaodundenanti。qici，guannianchuantongshidebabamamayebixuburongyijienatamenyanlidehulijing。

 niyaoshidiandaoweizhi，shengyudejiujiaodaolaogongzishenjianjiandiquchuaicenairenxunwei，zaizheiliqineinikeyiweichilizhi，bubiweibiweibi，zuozijigaizuodeshi。jianxintazuizhongnengtihuidaonideyongxinliangku。

5.根据公公婆婆与子女的助功分裂她们的关联

 nanrenyoutaibanquanshifenghuangnan，duibabamamadehuaweimingshicong，jinidegonggongpoposipolianxiaozhiyili，rangdajiadexiaohaidongzhiyiqing，yongquanbujiazhonglaijibanzhuta，xiangbidisanzheerziji，dajiadenengliangzhanyoujueduideyoudian，yincizaihuozhichuguinanrendeneishihoubixubukeyiluanlefangcunhetachangfandiao，nikeyilejiehetachangfandiaojiushishuohetadebabamamachangfandiao，nizhuangjitatuomatahaowuyiwenhuidaozhitababamamadeweiman，babenlaiyouyiyujidequshizhuanhuachengquedian。

6.愿意把第三者儿赶走，你还要保证按兵不动

 nibulunshiquzhaoqingrendanshahuanshizhaotajichulilun，shishishangdouzaoyipululenidelieshi，ruguonihetaniudazaiyikuaier，niganjuenilaogonghuizhanzaisheineili?daziranshidisanzheer，youyutashipugongdelingyifang，fandaobinikanshangqugengxiangkuzhu。

 shuobailebingxingguidao，jiushishuoyaorangdisanzheerduinidetongyixingdongheniantoushadoubudong。nizuigailongluoderenwojuedejiushinidelaogong，lianggerentanguoyihou，ninenglinshilakaidisanzheerdeshier，hetaduoduodegoutongjiaoliu，duitakaizhananshizhe，lirutitidangchuxiangaishideqingkuang，guaiwanmojiaodiqiangdiaojiazhongdebiyaoxing，ranglaogongzaicibiancheng1gelianjiadenanren。

 neiyangyuqinguzong，shijianyizhangzaitieshixinchangderendoushibianhua。nikeyitahuigaoqingchunizhenduitadeshiyongjiazhi，nikeyishizhongruyititazhufan，xineiku，xiwazi，nengzaitazuibianzhideneishihoubuguyiqieditiaoxuanleta，disanzheerhaoduogeyuedexuyuweisheyouzennengtidaizheileiqingyi?

 xuduoneishihounanrenzhaoqingrenyequanshiyizhenzishizucaijiangcuojiucuo，dangnijiyutayuanliang，tabidinghuiduinitianmanganxie，gengweizhenxijiatinggongzuo，dangtaziyuandibasixufangjinledajiashoushang，neimadisanzheerdefangshouzhanshuyejiangbugongzipo。