老公有外遇怎么办？男人找情人的缘故有什么?

 hunyinchuguidisanzhe zenmeban?disanzhezishenbingbushiweifanchuantongshijiazhiguannian，yebukeyishuoweifanshehuidaode。keshiduibenren、jiazhongheshehuifazhanchangyoujudadeshanghai。shi1gefeichanglingrentoutongdenanti，neimanandeweihezhaoqingrendeyuanguyounaxieni?xialieyuanguhuiyinqihunyinchugui：

1、爱慕虚荣

 youxierenshifeichangwufapandingde，tebieshizaizaiqingganwentishang，feichangrongyijian1geai1ge，daozuizhongyebuqingchuzishenaidedaodishishei。jiaruzheizhongqingkuangchanshengzaijiehunqian，huoxuwukefeiyi，danshiruguojiehunle，haiyaoduilianrenjiatinggongzuochengdanzeren。

 zheileiaimuxurongdeguannianjiashangjiehunhoudeshenghuodebushihenjixiangruyi，jibianhezishenjiehunduixiangshi“aidenanren”，yehuibianhuahenda。youyujiudelianrenxianchuchuqudeduoshiquexian，erxindeqinglvxianchuchuqudeduoshiyoushi，natarendeyoushiquhezishenairendequedianjiaowei，zishendelianrenhuoxuyaoshaoxunxuduo，hunyinchuguidechanshengyejiuwukebimianle。

2、婚姻基本不平稳

 chengshunanrenmendabufenquanshichushizai20shiji60shidai，nageshiqichushirendehunyindabufenyiranshichengxi“fumuzhiming，meishuozhiyue”，jishishihunyinzizhude，qihunlianjiaoyouguanniandoushifeichangqianque de。

 yinci，liangrennengjieweifufuerqiexinglai1geruzilibian，shiqianbingmeiyoushiduoshaozhangwo，youhenduojinjinyougedandandechupeng，naizhiconglejiedaowanhunjinjinduoyueyineideshier。nageneishihounanrennvrendeguanniandouhendanchunxing，wanhunjiushishuoyibianshenglixuqiuhechuanzongjiedai，ganqingyaoqiudeyaosujiweixiwei。

 xianeryijian，zheileihunyinshiqianqueganqingmanyidude，duiyuhunyindeyiwunijiudaziranbianchengwaibudeshufu， youqineiyangzheizhongkai fangduoyuanhualuojisiweifanlanchengzaideshidaili，zheibanshufuhenrongyibianchengtuzitoushangdeshizi，yuefayinrenzhuyijiuyuefayangtongnannai。

3、衣食住行孤独简单

 jiarujiehunhoudeshenghuolingrenjuedexinhanhebufuhe，xuduorenjiuhuizhaoxunbiededefangfahuozhecijixinglairangzishendexintaizhuangtaidedaokaolvhejunheng。liruhunhoushenghuolingrenjuedegudu、wuqu，fufubiciquefaqinmigan，bukeyijilingyifangchanshengshenghuoqingqu，zheishihou，disanzhe、hunyinchuguijiuchenxuerrule。

 tebieshizaishineileizhangqixingliangdifenjuerdidefufu，jiandaotarendefufudoushuangshuangduidui，xiangaitianmei，neixinzaisuonanmianzaochengmishihebujunhengdejuede，yinerfeichangrongyixunzhaoqita“wenrouxiang”。

 yeyouzheizhongzhuangkuangshihunhoushenghuoguodujiandan，qianquechuangyi，meiriquanshiyiyangdeshier，yiyangdeyishizhuxingfangshi，zheishihouqingganfeichangrongyibiandepingdanwuwei，yishizhuxingyemeishenmekuaile。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，hunyinchuguideqitecijixingjiugengfeichangrongyixianchuchuqu，bawozhudajiadexin，shiqijuannianbunengziba。

4、夫妻性生活孤独枯燥

 “jiqingshuiyiyangdeyishizhuxingtianfujiadianyan、tianfujiadiancu、tianfujiadianxiangyou”。xiandaiqingganquanweizhuanjiaguangfanrenwei，hunyindebaochiheyuanmanmianbulexingshenghuo。

 “ganqingxianghunningtu，xingshenghuoshijianzhugangjin，heyikuaierjiaohunnitu。”wanhunzuixianshiwenmingxingweishehuifazhanbixudezheizhongchengxu，jiehunzhengshushijindaoxingshenghuodiguodezheizhongguanfangwanghuzhaoqianzheng，tadecunyoubiaodazheiduinanrennvrennenggousuiyiditefaxingzhutihuodong。

 danyezhengyouyusuiyi，caicushifuqixingaizhongdejingshenshizhikaolvheroushenkuailemanmanjiangdi，youyujiehunqianzheixiexingfudechuxianhuanjuejianjiandixiaotuile。rutongfuluoyidesuoshuo：“helihefawanhunyihoudexingshenghuobingbukeyiduijiehunqianfuqishenghuoshouxianzhizuochuchongzudepeichang。

 yibanshuolai，tajinpizhunfuqizhijianjishaoshudejileinengzaochengshengyundezishilaixunzhaokaolv，youyuneiyang1geyuanyin，jiehunhouxingfudefuqishenghuozhiyoubaochiliangnianshijian。”youyushehuifazhanyishideduiwaikaifang，dangdairenziworentongyulaiyumingxian，bulunshinanshihuanshinvshi，xuduodougangkaishiduifuqishenghuodepinzhiyongyougenggaodeguiding。