老公出轨外面有第三者不肯离婚怎么办

 renmendouhuixiwangyifenzhangqifeichangtianmideaiqing，keshizaiganqingdexingyeli，renmenyizhihuibujingyizhongpengdaoyixiejinqu，zaochenghunyinpolienaizhiliyi。

恪守自身正室的影响力

 yibanlaishuo，nvxingzaiwaiyuzhihouyikuernaosandiaosi，quebuzhidao，niyueneiyangzuonanshengyuehuiganjuedisanzhetiexindongshiqing，huijiangganqingdetianpingchenggengweiquxiangyudisanzhe。haiyixienvxingrenweijijichechujiunengranglaogongxinhuaineijiuhuodisanzhejijiliquzishen。

 jijichechuqueshihuirangnanshenghuiyouneijiuxintaizhuangtai，keshishijianhuijianjiandixiaochutazheileineijiuxintaizhuangtai，tebieshizaishidisanzhejiaruyongyixietianyanmiyubananshengdeneijiuganzhegaiyiwang，neimenineimezuobingbushixiangdangyuqinzibalaogongzengjiledisanzhema?shijishang，disanzheneixinbinigengxinji，youshitamenhuijijiduinikaizhanjinu，zheiyineishihoujiuyidingbubinaonu，nizhixuwenminglimaodeduidisanzheshuo：“wozheiyiduanshijianbijiaomang，meiyoufeichanghaodizhaoliaowodelaogong，xiexienizheiyiduanshijianbangwozhixinglaopodechize。”nikankandisanzheshifouhuiqidetiaojiao!yinci，niyidingyaokeshouzishenzhengshideyingxiangli，ranglingyifanglejienicaisuanshiyunilaogongyiqifengchuiyudaderen，nicaisuanshitaweiyideairen，jiaruzheishihounilianzishendeyingxianglidousheqidehua，queshijiubaibeile。

找个优良的突破口

 shuohuakaishihenguanjian，youyigeyouliangdetupokounengzhengqueyindaodajiameiyicidetanhuaneirongchangyougejiaoweikaixindeqifen，tishenghunyinwanhuitongguolv。yikaishijiuhuaizhezhizehemaiyuandexintai，yanzhiyouliyeshuqifen。tajiushinicishifushangdeyuanxiongduile，jiuchedimeiyouguocuo?lianqinghehunyinshenghuozhong，meiyourenheyifangyouzerendanfuqingganweijidesuoyouyiwu，ruguonimeidadingtichufenshouhuoliyidexiangfa，jiuxiancongbenshenzhaoyuanguba。

 chucizhiwai，jiushilunshidexuanzechangshitanhuaneirongshenxianbubidezhengchao，jirannizaoyijiandaolelingzishennanshouhuoshengyideshier，neimaniyingshuodebingfeiyingbuyinggaineiyangzuo，zhishiduitashuonidetihuiyuniantou。“bushiwoguaini，jianghuiguaiwotaibijiaominganle。woxiangdaowomengangwanhunshi……”yexuneiyangdegangkaishinanshengmenjiaoweibijiaoguanxin，yexudajiaweijizaochengdeyuangubingfeilaiyuanyulingyigenvrendeyinyou，zhishihaozhangshijianyemeiyouyicizhijidegoutongjiaoliu。

不必道德绑架，给另一方工作压力

 lizailiyibianyan，gongzuoyalihefanmendexintaiyuanbenjiuxuduole，dangnicikezaijilingyifangshiya，naizhidaodebangjiashideshuoyixiexiangjin‘niruguoxuanzelikainijiushishuotaobizeren’neiyangdefumianxinxiyuyan，jiufeichangrongyibalingyifang‘bifeng’，rangnagelingyifanggengxiangfangqini，yinciyaoxiangwanhuihunyin，zheizhonghuajiububijiangguoba。