情感维系：为什么男人都爱找第三者

chuguidenanrenhaihuizhaotuituoshuojiahuaburuyehuaxiang，zhengshiyoushidoubuqingxibenshenduitafeichanghao，weishenmehaihuihunhouchugui，waimiandenvshidaodinalihao!

shishishang，tamenburongzhiyiyoududaojianjie，cainenggou xiyinnanhaizidemuguang，neitamendaodiyounaxiebuyiyang?doushuonanrenaizhaodisanzhe,disanzhedaodinahaoni?

1.比你更懂男孩子

shishishang，tamenbingbushidequebinigengxintengnilaogong，zhishizaiyixiefangmianbinigengdongnanrendexin。youdechuguidenanrenyouyuxifudeguanxinbugou，xifububawotazaixiangshenme，qiahaoyouyigenvrendongta，hetajiaoliuyugoutong，anweita，jitaguanxin，tayishihulihutujiubeiyinyoule。

2.rangnanhaizizhaoxunzixinxin

nanhaizizhaodisanzhehaiyouyigezhongyaodeyuanyinjiushikeyizaitayanxiaxunzhaozixinxin，kaolvdaoxintaiguiding。nanrenheqizizaojiuyiqixiangchuhenjiu，bawohenshen，xifuzhangwotadequedianhebuzu，jiaruxifuqiangdayidiande，laogongjianghuiyizhibeixifuerzhize，nanhaizizaixifuyanxiajiuhuikanshangqujiaoruo。nanhaizishiwubibeijingpeide，tamenwubinvshideningwang，laikaolvdaotamendeaimuxuronghexintaiyuwang。disanzhejiuhendongzheiyidian，zainanhaiziyanxiayizhijutibiaoxianrouruo，yeyaoshuoxiechuipengnanhaizidehua，zheiduinanhaizishifenxiangshou，nanhaizijiuxihuanneibandenvshi。

3.完美主义者刺激

waimiandenvshiduiyunanhaizilaijiangdoushixianxinde，meifahuodedecaisuanzuode，jialidexifuerzaojiudaozhishijuedeshijuedeshenmeipilaole，jiuhuiyikaishiyeshenghuowenhuawenhuayishuzhuixunxinshengshiwu。duibenshenyaoqiubutaigaodenanhaizihenrongyijiuhuibeizheixienvrenyouhuo，yexushihunwaiqing，yeshijianghuiyudisanzhebuyiburao。nanhaizibianyuyishidexianxinciji，chengdanbushangyouhuo，jiuhuizuochubeipanjialideshiqing。waimiandenvshihuikaolvdaonanrenshenglishangdeguiding，kaolvdaonanhaiziwanmeizhuyizhecijideganjue。

4.tamenyaoqiuhen“jiandan”

zheiyijiandanzhishiyikaishideneishi，tamenhuigaozhinanhaiziwuxumingfen，wuxutapei，buyizhanjutajialideshijian，buyijiuchan……keshigandaoyihoujiumeiyouzheimejiandanle，“yaoqiujiandan”zhishifangfancuoshi，shibianyuhoumianyaoqiudaohenduo，bianyubananhaiziniezaishouli。

dangran，disanzhezailihai，tangruonimeixiedai，tamenquanshiyouhuobuxihuannide。yiduanqinggantongchanghuikailie，dabufenyinweilianggerendeqingganzaojiuchuxianlenandian，cishiruhefangzhilaogongchugui?xuyuantiyizhenzhengyouxiaodefangshishichulihaolianggerendeguanxi，jiejuehaoleneibunandian，caidiyudelewaishengrenqinru。yeshijiushiduoguanxinta，xuejinggaoduzhongshita，haohaohunyinjingying，biejiqitanvshijiyu。