发现老公外遇第三者，妻子怎么做挽回老公？

faxianlaogongwaiyudisanzhe，qizizenmezuowanhuilaogong？hunyinshenghuozhongfaxianlaogongchuguihenduoqizidoubuzhidaoruhezhengqueyingduilaogongdehunwaiqing，chuyubaoweizijijiatingdeyuanze，chulilaogongwaiyuzuizhongmudeshiwanhuihunyin，womenyiqilaikankanzenmeyingdui。

一、老公出轨要离婚怎么办

1、huitoutuliandepofu，zhenduinanshengeryan，qingxuzhihenyoukenenggengcaogao。ruguoniyaoxiangbanfachulidajiahunyinshenghuozhongdenantishi，nixuyaochuanzhedabandeguangcaizhaoren，yaoshibukedang。

shijikanyixialaogonglihunledeniantoudaodishiqueshi，huanshibeidisanzheweibi。dangdisanzheweibizishenlaogongshi，haikeyiquqianghuizishendehunyinshenghuo。

2、buyaohaipa，youyigehaodexintai，jinihelaogongtaliyishicaihuigengweixinxin。yidingyaogaozhilaogongliyidechengbenfei，ersuodepengyoubushishuojiniduozaiyizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，jinjinranglaogonglejieliyubi。jiarulaogongtiaoxuanhuiguotou，neimanijiuxuyaobawozhulaogongdexin，bubibashierzuodeneimajue，ranglaogongjijifanhuijiazhong。

二、怎么正确处理婚外情

1、心态状态要放正

laogonghunhouchuguilihunleyi、bubixianggepofuyiyang，yaojitamenyigechuanbozhengnengliangdexifu。xuduo huozhizishendelaogongchuguideren，yibanfanyingquanshibacuodoutuidaozishendelaogongdeshenshang，ganjuezishendelaogongwaiyuzaixian，ganshenmequanshitadecuozaixian，congbuhuiziwofansi，weihezishendelaogonghuiwaiyu?

yincichajuezijidelaogongchuguile，bubibaquanbudeshierdaohuosuodoupianxiangta，bubiyikuernaosandiaosi，yaoxuehaosikaobenshencunzaidebuzu。wenyiwenzishenyiqianshibushijitamendejuedejiushitayihuidaojiajiukanjiannixiangyigepofuyiyanggezhonggeyangbaoyuan，taxiabanlewanleyoushuotachulaiguihunle，zhuyaobiaoxianyifubugaoxingdemoyangzheixie。

2、duoyixiegoutongjiaoliu，bubiquandoubiedaoneixin

xuduo nvhaizaihunyinshenghuolizaifenqichanshengdeqingkuangxia，nvhaiyizhixiguanxingyonglengbaolitidai，youyutamenyizhiziyiweishijiangguoyeshimeijiangguo，neihaibibushangyongjianmotidai。

yincidanglingyifangjuedenishufuwenniweishadeqingkuangxianiyizhiyiju“meishier”，balingyifangtuizou，danshilingyifangyehuibeinidexintaiganqi，zaizhihoulingyifangxiangyaonaizhishihaipazaiquxunwennifashengshenmeshishier，niyejiuyougangkaishiqubaoyuanlingyifangweiheburongyiguanzhuni，yincilingyifangfanmenlebuqingchuyinggaizenmezuo，jianjiandidajiazhongjianzaichanshengnantideqingkuangxiadouxiguanyonglengdantidai，jianjiandiyulaiyuzhaobuzhedajialiangrenzhongjiandegongtongxing。

renrangzhibuguonvxingrouruodezhuyaobiaoxian，jilelaogongdaliangdezixinquzaiciwaiyu。tazaihunyinshenghuozhongwufadedaodejuedegenjuyudisanzhetouhuandedaolekaolv。

zaineimezongrongxialai，yidanpengdaolegaopaiweidedisanzhe，disanzhequdechenggongshangtaidegailvhuiyuelaiyueda。shijishanglaopoyaozuodeyinggaishibidisanzhegengdongnansheng，bitagengpojufengcai，bianchenglaogongxinlizuijizhideneinvren，benyidimidehunyinshenghuocaihuichuxianzaishengdegailv，chongfenliyongdenenglianglingdisanzhedashiyiqu。