那么遭到了第三者插足状况怎么办

 dajiayizhixiaiganqingdelanmanhetianmei，neijinjinyinweiganqingquefalezhenqingdechentuo。hunyinshenghuojiulenanshengjiugangkaishiyanfan，neidisanzhejiuchuxianle。zuoweilaopodezaizheishihoujiuxuyaolixingdefanganzenyangjibaidisanzhe，disanzhechazuyaoshiyouzhenqingzai，aiqingzhenyebajiayehao，bidinghuixianxianchuqiminganheduanzanxingdemingyun。xialiejibaidisanzhedemiji，jiniqingqingsongsongyingzhan。

善待自己

 yigelianzishendoubuxihuandenvxing，shimeiyouquanliquhuodenanshengdalianghegengweizhangjiudeai。nvrenhunyindebeijuyoufeichangzhanbiquanshiyoutamenbugouaizishenerdaozhihuoshishiweihaide。meimeinanshengduitalveweibiaomingchuyizhongsongxiehuoshishilengdanzhishi，tahuigengweibumingbaishandaiziji。xinlihuiyuelaiyuemiwang，huigengweiquefazixin，yincipoguanposhuai，zimingqinggao，huitoutulian，jinerjiakuaizishendecuihua，tishengzishenzainanshengxinzhongzhong“yanfan”deshujuxinhao。zheibanzhijin，bianchanshengyizhongliangjihua，wuxuwaibiandedisanzhexiashou，zishenyehuibeizishenjibai。

以守为功

 hewaibiandedisanzheduibi，laoposhijishangwuluncongganqinghuanshishehuifazhanyishikanlaiquanshizhanjinletianshidilide。nvxingbubisuibiandeqichenghuozhegongji。fandaoniyifangyudefangfagongjihuishibeigongban，cikeyaojiqilizhihechendezhuqi，bubigenhanfuyiyangmanmalingyifang，neiyangzongshizaochengkanrenaohuodebierendelianmin，erzhangfuqueshihuihendichuneiyangdegerenxingwei，zaocheng sangshita。yaomingbaicaozongjushidefazhanqushi，rangzhangfuyibuyibudepeizainishenbian。

学习培训另一方优势

 yaolejiegudairendoushuozhibizhijibaizhanbaisheng，jiaruchuxiandisanzhe，nizuixiandeshiyaoqingxidexiangjindezhangwoneiyangdiren，jinyouneiyangnigaoqingchuzenyangjiejue。xianeryijian，jiejuedeshizuiyouxiaodefangshibianshixuexipeixun。xiangyigeyinyouzishenlaogongdedisanzhequxuexi，huoxubiaocengshangkanlaishiyizhongcanren，shijishangqueshiyizhongconghuiheziwofansi。renwuwanrenjinwuzuchi?congguzhijinrenfeishengxian，yaoshishiduizishenyouxiaode，nengtishengzijide，shijishangxiangsuoyourenxuexipeixunyebuquru。

耐心等待

 youyizhonghuoshengchengweibuzhanersheng，zheileihuoshengdeguanjianhuanjieyouliangge，neibianshishijianheranglingyifangcongneibuzizhufenlie。tayudisanzhe，shiyouyuyishijqyeba，ganqingyehao，zhongjiuhuishitaobuchushijiandemolian，disanzhechazushijianhuijitayigehuida，bidajiadangchugengjiabuhaodefansuhuijitayulisuodangrandemocazuli，huirangtamenzhongjiandeqingganyouyubufuzereneryuelaiyuegengweiminganerduanzanxing。