什么才算爱?大智慧女生是这样做的

 shenmejiaoai??yigexitongruanjiandeshiaiquanguochengbixuxiangxitaguoshangbianwugeliucheng，bingqieshunxubukeyicuo。neimeshenmecaisuanaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaidewenzhangba。

第一阶段——互相吸引住期

 zuixiannigenjuzhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhiquxiyinzhulingyifang，rangnanshengduiniyouhaogan，rangnizhuanzhuli，dangtaduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhihounizaizhuyaobiaoxianchuduitahenganxingqu，zanyangheshangxitadeyoushi，helixingniweishenmexihuanta，shitaganjueshitahuodenideguanxin，neiyangjinxinghuxiangxiyinzhuhoudajiacaigangkaishixianghuxinren。

 zhanxianshiyongjiazhishiyongjiazhidemudishidedao tadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，zaimeiyouxingquaihaozhibiaozhiqianbubiduitabiaoshuxingquaihao，shenmejiaoai??youxingquaihaozhibiaozhihougangkaishitiaoxuanzanyangta。

 xingquaihaozhibiaozhijiushizhinanshengqianyishideshifangyixieduiniyouganjuedeshujuxinhao，lirutoukanni，jijigennijianghua，xunwennimangbumangdeng，xingquaihaozhibiaozhinenggoulejieweidajiachangshuodebiaoshuhaogandu。

 jiarunijiedaonanshengdebuganxingquzhibiaozhi，shuomingnimeiyouxiyinzhudaota，pubiandebuganxingquzhibiaozhiyou：zhuanzhulimeizainideshenshang，buzhudongyuenixianliao、weixinhuifuman、meiyouxiangzhangwonidegerenxingwei、congbuyueni。

 ciwai，youdenanshenghenyoukenenghuiduinichuanchujiadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，yejiushijiazhuangduinibodianhua，zheileinanshengyibanshiyouxiwanjia，huozhechuziyushenglixuqiu，huozhedaizhenduixingxiangyunyongni，liruhunwaiqingren。

shijizenyangxiyinzhucanzhao“haoqixinxiyinzhuquantao”

第二阶段——幽会暧昧期

 genjuyouhuihudongjiaoliuhexianliao，dajiagangkaishizhangwobicidexinxineirong，lirushenghuohexingquaihaodeng，dajiayouyixiexiangtongdian，jianjiandiyongyoulianluogan，bianweilejie。zaizheiliquanguochengzhongtahuiduijiniyidingdezijintouru，lirutameiriyueni，tayueniquwan，taguanzhunideshier，tarangnisongdongxi。

 zaizheiqijian，tahenyoukenenghuiyunitiaodou，ninenghetayuyannuanwei，bubijizhebatadangnanpengyou，tahenyoukenenghuixiangshizhijinkou，danniyinggaigesanchawuhuijueta，shedingyixienanduxishu，jianmanfazhanqushidesulv。

简易合理的恋爱规则(关键)

youhuihudongjiaoliushiduoxiaorongshaoshuohua(nvxingweichimiantian，rangnanshenghexin)

 jianduanxinghuijue(jibian nihenxihuanta，niyeyaogesanchawudehuijuetadeyaoqing，gesanchawuhuijueshizhijinkou、qinwen，rangnanshengmobutoushibushinixiaita)

 buzhudongyaoqing，jijiwanbiyouhui(jiarunidequexiangjianta，yebubilijiyueta，bubizuosonghuoshangmendelieshi，jianjiexingdeyaoqinggengyoushijixiaoguo，lirunigentaxianliaoshuonizhouliudouhaimeifenpei。)

 bubigentadaihenjiu，zaigaochaodieqideqingkuangxialiqu，rangtaqidaijianniyimian(shitaqipanjianniyimian，liuxieruoyinruoxianjuede，youhuishijianbuchaoguo1xiaoshi)

yizhoushuzuiduoyouhuiyici(bubipulunidexuqiugan，bubimeiripengmian)

sanciyouhuineibushizhijinkou(jianmansulv，jinanshengquweixing)

weigaobaiqianbuqinwen(xianjifuwuchengnuozaishentiqinmiwujian，bubishitasuibianhuode)

 diyicirushuibuxingshenghuo(bubirangnanshengsuibianhuodeniderenti，bubirangnanshengrenweinishisuiyidenvxing，neiyangnanshengcaihuiaixitahuodede)

xiyinzhuqiyaozhanxianxingganmiren、quweixing

youhuiqiyaozhanxianrenrang、zanyang

 rangnanshenggangkaishijijidiqinmiwujianshengji，zheiyishengjishiyibubude，qixianshentichupeng，ranhoushizhijinkou，suihouqinwen。zheiyiyouhuishengjiqizhandeshijianzuiduode，shiweilegenghaodisuzaodajiazaiyiqideshushidu。

 youhuiqineishileijitaduinidetouru，zhengqueyindaolingyifanggangkaishiyidiandiantishengzijintouru，taxinganqingyuantourunixuyaoshanyujiena，jiarutaburongyininengzhengqueyindaota。danfanbuyuanyizijintourudenanshengtaduinidexingquaihaoquanshijiade，shiweishenmehuodeniderenti。jiarutabuyuanyizijintouru，nijiuxuyaolengzangta，ranhouzhanxianshiyongjiazhizhizhitazaiduduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhi。

第三阶段——关联明确期

 lijingdierjieduandajiazhongjianyongyouyidingdeshushiduheyouhaodu，zheishihoutahenyoukenenghuiyongyuanyinpeinidaoyigesimideshineikongjiangangkaishiyouhuoni，xianghenifashengxingguanxi。youyutadouhaimeigaobaiquedingguanxi，nvxingyidingyaoguoduanhuijue。jiarunishitachenggongle，neiguanlianhuifazhanqushiweiduanqiguanxi。

 shenmejiaoai?jibian taxiangnigaobaile，yimingqueqinglvguanlian，zaitaxiangtuoniyifukuziqian，nvxingyidingyaozuochudiyugerenxingwei，lirubuxutatuoguangyifu，huotuoguangyifuhoujiaotazhongzhi，jibian nixiaita。

 yibanruguonimeiyouzhenshifahuo，meiyoupinleminglakaita，meiyoujinggaochufenta，neiyangbingbuhuihuihuaidajiazhiyuanxiandeguanlian，liruniduitaxiaozheshuo“nibiezheiyang，wobie”“dajiataikuai”，zuoyixiedaibiaoxingdiyu，niyaoshijianchibuxiejiukeyile。

weiyounimingqueduitaduiniyouganjue，xinganqingyuanzijintouru，xianghenifazhanqushizhangqixingguanlian，nicainenggouhetafashengguanxi。

ruhequedingguanliancanzhao“tanxungaobaiquantao”

 woshitanlianailaoshiyishuo，shenmecaisuanai?zaishuolianaiwangyouhenduojiaonvhaitanlianaidewenzhangneirong，dahuoernenggouquxuexiyixia。