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beiaideren,yige28suidouhaimeitanguoyicitanlianaidenvhaigenwoshuo，ruhequxunzhaozishenxinaidenansheng。tayiqianhenxihuankannanzhutingshuaidexiaoshuoji，chenmihanguodianshiju。shijiyizhimeiyoudianshilianxujuhuoshixiaoshuojiruciweimeiyijing，yinci ta，ningkebutanlianai。neimebeiaideyoushiwukongyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbeipianaidedouyoushiwukongdewenzhangba。

28suineiyinian，tahuranxiangnengtong，tayaoxiangchuduixiangwanhun。yinci  ，gangkaishiweizijizaojiugeshigeyangdeshejiaomeiti，weizijilejienanxingpengyoudejiyu。yedahuishangbaihehua、zhenaiwangdengjiaoyouwangzhan，huoshiqubaomingcanjiaxiangqinyuehuidujialvyou，quxunzhaonanhaizi。

keshitazongzaibeishouyanlidaji，yilaishitadexingqing，taxinzhikoukuai，bingbushineimamingbaiweirenchushi。duixiaitakeshitataoyandenanhaizi，huihaofan，jurenyuqianlizhiwaiyiwai。ciwai，chuyu28suizheigenianling，youlaiyuanyuzheiyidachengshigeshigeyangdeyinyou，baohanchusedenanshangsi，beiaideren,gongzuozhongguke，zheixie。shubuzhi，tahenxinhan，youyuzheixietaqinpeidenansheng，zheixiezaicanzhuoshangjitadangjiu、shifennuanxindenansheng，yizhixianghetafashengguanxi。

tahenxinhandeshuo，xingzhijie，woshiduomedeqidaizishenmeiyouzhangdale，shizhongxianggehaitong，wuxuqulicaineimefanzadeguanlian。cengjingdewoshizhenxinshiyidexianggentamenjiaoyoude，tamenyouzishendefengcai，youfengfuduocaidejingyan，zainimangrandeqingkuangxiahaihuijixurangnizhidao，yongcandeqingkuangxiahuizaipenyouyanqianhuzheni，buxuniyinjiu，wenrouderangniyibeiguozhi，quanbuquanshibuluhenjidetiexin。neishihouhennanguo，zhihoudongle，huoxuzhendeshinanrenhenvrenmeiyouchunzhendeyouqingba，genghekuangdajiabiaozhunchaleneimeduo。

tashuo，tazuifangandejijuhuabianshi：dahuoerquanshiliangxingle!jinyebuzouba!juedeyouqiwukenaihehewunai!tafenbuqingchu，zheixiexiangshangchuangdenansheng，shenmeshixiangchijiudeshenmexiangwanxiade，yinci jiuyibinghuijue，bazijibaodehenyanmi。

“wulunzhiqianwoshizenmeganjuezishenbuxiangzhangda，keshiwohaishizhangdayihou，yourenshuowodezhishangqingshangjinyoushiwusui，hehehe。yinweiwoganjuewanhunanaxieyijianshieryanqueshimeiyouchongfenzhunbei，danwojuedehaohaodizhaoyigeaideren，zhihouyiqiquyingduirichangshenghuo。”——mangranzhongdechelizi

xingzhi：qingxuehaoxunzhaobuniqingwoyuandeganqing

xuduo gaolingweiliannvshi，haimeiyouxuejingyunanshijiaowangzheiyike。tamencuoguozaishiheshijiantanyichangshihetanlianaidejiyu。

shijishangbujinshichelizi，baohanxuduo beibabamamachuierbianfeng“bubishounanshengmengpianershishenme”denvhai，duguogaoxiaohuanshiyaobipozishenhaohaodushubimiantanlianaidenvhai，douhuiguancheyizhongbuzhengquedeaiqingguan。tanlianaishiyimenkechengneirong，jiuhaoxiangduzhongxiaoxuezhongxuegaoxiaoyiyang，congtanlianaidaowanhunyeshiyigeyouqianrushendequanguocheng。ziranbuqingchuyouderentiaoji，huoshiyeshiyoushijisuideshaoniandaxuesheng——tanlianaiyeyiyang，liruyoudenvhaishibasuijiushengxiaohaile，youdetandiyicilianaiqindiyigewenjiujielehun。wanhunjiuhaoxiangyizhigaoxiaobiyezheng，biyehoulehaidezhaogegongzuo，haidezaizheigeshehuifazhanpijingzhanji，shijishangwanhunyeshi，jiehunzhengshuqudele，hunyinshenghuoneijiaowangdedaxuewencaigangkaishi。

zheiyishidaibianle，shuzihua、dashehuifazhanrangganqingyuelaiyuebingbushineimahaixiuheanggui。yinci ，xuehaocongbenrenquanqiu(xiaoshuoji)lizouchuqu，yingyongdelaidaozhenzhengderenjijiaowangziranhuanjingli，congjiaoyouwangzhan、congweixinligangkaishijiaopengyou，tashigehaodefazhan。

danshi，weiherujinxiangchudaodenanshengyebuchunzhen，wuyuanwugujiuxiangshangchuang?weihezheixielingrenshifenqinpeidekewangerbukejidechuruzhichangnanshi，quezheibanbukanni?yigemeiyoutanguotanlianaidexiaonvhai，yanlidezhongchanjieceng，wangwangpuludeyimian，yuangushi，tazhijiangnidangzuoyigenvren，yigeyaoxiangchenggongdelieshi。tamenxiangyouzheileibeiqinpei、beishouyuquanweixingdezhenshishenfen。tamenyongcanqingkuangxiahuzheniyeba，buxuniyinjiuyehao，quanbudetiexin，quanshizhihucanzhuoshangnanrenduinvrendebenxing，yizhongliyizhishixingdefengchangzuoxi。

beipianaidedouyoushiwukong,niqingwoyuanzheigedongxishibukeyidangzuoganqingde。niqingwoyuanzhiyoubianchengchuruzhichanggongzuojingyandequanshi。nvhaizimenyaogaoqingchu，diyi，youxifudenanrenshibukeyipengde，meitanguotanlianai、jiaruxianghaohaodichuduixiangdenvhaiwanbule;dier，“zaibinguankaifangyaoniwan”，“daowojiudiancantingzuoxiaquebaohencha”，shijishangzheiyiyanwaizhiyiduomedexianzhu。bubixiangxinnanrendekenqiu，neijinjinyewanlibenyongde。

zeqingxile，shijishangniyejiudongle。zheixiewuyuanwugujiuxiangshangchuang，yejiushishuozainvhaiyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandexiangshangchuangdenansheng，shijishangquanshiyouqiantitiaojiande。zheiyiqiantitiaojianbianshi，kuaijiejiudianajiudiancantingaliangrendulidechuzufangwua，zheizhongnuanweidezhuanyoumingcibaizaiqianmian，yaoniruweng，nirule，tamenmorenshezhijinizaoyidayingjindao“liangxingdeshoujiyouxi”。shubuzhi，nirulewengyouguoduanhuijue，youzenmerangrenbunaopiqini。keshi，tamendeyuanyi，yidingbingbushihaohaodigennichuduixiang，tamendeyuanyiyidingshi，tianmingyihoushuotichufenshou。

beiaideyoushiwukong,neineiyangdejiujushifouguoduanbukeyiqu?yiqunrendejiuju，nenggouqu，danbubibazijidangxiaohai，bubibazijidangzuoyigenanshishehuifazhanderuoxiao，bixurenzhaoliao，ercongrongxiangyouzheileizhaoliao，yaoxuehaozaifanzhuochayanguanse，xuehuixuexi，xuehaoqiaruqifendefabuguandian，xuehaofazhanweiyige“hetamen”gongpinghuihuaderen。huoxuyantanjuzhishaoxianjiaonen，meiyouguanxi，jianjiandifazhan，canzhuoshangmianxuedexuduo ，jibian shijiaonendeyantanjuzhi，doushihuizaibeigongjiaocuozhongbeikuanrong。yaoshiyongxin，bianhuihuodefazhan，huodezhongshi。ciwaibimiancanhouzuoyizuo，yaoshikehaijide，nibushiyiruoxiaodezishiyutamengongpingxiangchu，lingwaibujiliangxingyouxiliuyoujiyu。neilianggeren，jiuhaihuijixushipenyou，jibian jinjinqianchangzhezhi。