怎样处理感情问题？如何做个好男友

 xihuanyigerendexinqingshizenyangdeni？baochiyiduanshenxinjiankangdelianaiguanxibixuxixinheqinfen，youqishilianaidejuedezhengjianjiandixiaotuizhishi。ruguonijuedejinqizishenzuoweinanyouzhuyaobiaoxiandebuzuhao，huoshinijinjinxianggengshangyicenglou，benwennengjiniqiangdiaoqiadangdefangwei!neimezenyangchuliganqingwentini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanruhechuliganqingwentidewenzhangba。

方式1:创建公平的关联

1、诚信.

 ruguonijuedezheiyiduanguanlianliyounaxienanti，yaoduinishuodenvyou。yidingyaowenroudimingquetichu，bubirangtaganjueniyizhizaizhizeta。buyaohaipagaozhitanixuyaohuoshiyaoxiangdeshisha，jiaruniyouyuqingganyiwaidemafanshiyaoxiangyiduanyurenxiangchudeshijian，huoshibixuxuanxie，yeyingdangrangtalejie!

•xiangduidi，niyeyaowentayounaxieshierjiushinimeiyoubaozhengde，neiyanghuirangshuangfangdoukaixin。

 •xinqingyumenbixuyigerenjingyijingdeqingkuangxia，yaorangtalejie。liru，ninenggaozhitanijintiangongzuozhongbuchenggongyinci qingxubushitaihao，erbubibashiluoganxuanxiezaitadeshenshang。neiyangnenggoufangzhirangtaganjueniyizhizaiduitafahuo，jinerduizheiyiduanqinggansangshixingquaihao。

2、不必外遇.

 jishitafajueyihoukuanrongleni，taweilaiyehuinanyixinrengannini，zheihaowuyiwenshijidajiadeguanlianmaixialeyimeidingshizhadan。shizhonghaijidedangshiniweiheyaojuecehetazaiyiqi，ezhizhuiqiuwanmeibiedenvrendeyinyou。

 •jiarunichajuezijiyizhiyaoxiangwaiyu，neimenihenyoukenengbixuzaicisikaozheiyiduanqinggan。meigerendouyouyouyubudingdeqingkuangxia，keshiyizhidianjizhebiedenvrenyiweizhezheiyiduanqingganchulenanti。xiangqingxishibushiniqueshichongfenzhunbeiyaohezheigerenbaitoudaolao。

 •jiaruniqueshichuguile，yaoxiangnvyoutiaoming。zhenduiyixienvrenlaijiang，mengpianbiwaiyugengbijiaoyanzhong。zhaoyigeshidangdejihui，yongrouhedefangfagaozhita，bingjinidebuzhengquezhiqian。suirantiaomingshijianjianxindeshi，keshiyangaizhenxiangshiyidinghuijiqingganchanshengliefengde——ruguotazhihoucongtarenneibianlejiezheiyijianshierdehua，yiqiejianggengnanwanliu。

3、真心实意.

 jishiniyaohongnvpengyougaoxing，yebubixinkoubuyi。buzhenxinshiyidebiaoshuhuoxunengrangtakaixinyizhenzi，danzuihouhuijiqingganchanshengnanti。

 •bubiqingyizuochufuwuchengnuo。jiqingganyixieshijianlaifazhan，gaizuofuwuchengnuoshizaizuofuwuchengnuo。ruguonijuederujinrangtajianqinrenhaiguozao，neimejiububiyaoyuetafengnianguojieshilaijiazhongyongcan。jinguanqingganbixuweixianghutouru，danchixuweitafangqinizijidehuanlezongshijiniweilaibaoyuanta。

4、学好表述.

biehaipajinidenvyoulejienijuedetayouduomedehao。zheihuirangtajuedezihao，youyizhongxingfudeganjue。

 •zuiyaotian，keshibubidasixuanyang。changshikuazannidenvyou，jitalaodongsuodedeguanxin，bubizhuyaobiaoxiandezhangkongyutaiqianghuoshitaichiqing、tainannai。

5、学好对她讲话.

 zaitajianghuadeqingkuangxiazhuanxinzhizhilingting，tebieshizaiyongxintantaonantideqingkuangxia。zheibudanshiyizhongzhongshi，yeshizaihutadeyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian。

 •weichigongpingdegoutongjiaoliu。bubihuaguoduo，yebubiguodujianmo。huaguoduohuirangnvyouganjuenigengzaihuniziji，erbushita。taijianmozehuirangtaduinijuedeyanfan，huoshicaiyiniduitasangshixingquaihaole。

方式2:维持神秘感

1、玩下烂漫.

 ruhechuliganqingwenti？jitazuoyiduntazuixihuandewanfanyeba，songxianhuadaotaqiyeyeba，xihuanyigerendexinqingshizenyangdeni？zheileixiaolanmannenggourangtalejietazainixinliyouduoguanjian，nizaihuta。

2、夸赞她.

 meiyigenvrendoubixubeitishitayouduomeili、conghui、fengqu、quwei。nixuyaochangchangkuata，jiusuanjinjinyouyunizaoyizhuanquletadehuanxin，zaoyiyutachuangjianlechengdanzerendelianaiguanxi。nikuatashiyouyunifazifeifudishangxita，erqiexiangjitadaliangdexinxin、daliangxingfudeganjue。

3、性需求采用对外开放的心态.

 youliangdefuqishenghuonenggoujiaiqingbaoxian。ruguonijuededajiadefuqishenghuoyulaiyufawei，huoshinidenvyoujuedebumanyi，neimawanshandiyutatanyitanzheigewenti。

 •jinguanzuikaishihenyoukenenghuixiuyuqichi，keshijiaruneiyangdejiaotannenggoutisheng dajiadefuqishenghuozhiliangdehua，chijiukanlaishifeichangzhidede!

 •denghoushihedejihui。zenyangchuliganqingwenti？buyaozaiqunzhongchangsuo、zaibierenyanqian，huoshiyiwanxiaodeyuqimingquetichu。nazheijianshiqingwanxiaohenyoukenenghuirangnvyouganjuenankanhuoshiquefaanquangan。