无暇的爱,正确恋爱观

 shuangxiangqingganzhangaiyounaxie？chuduixiangdequdechenggongshifou，bingbushikanshibushihaishizhijinkou，zhishiyouqingganzhiliangerding，xuduo qingkuangxiashizhijinkoubuyiweizhequdechenggong，tichufenshoubuyiweizhebuchenggong。guanjianshikanzaizheiliduanqingganzhongnishibushiwanchengleliangjianguanjiandelianaixinlimeirirenwu。nishibushigengrenshizijideyaoqiu，nishibushimingbaiaiyubuai。neimewuxiadeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshuangxiangqingganzhangaidewenzhangba。

 aidebeimianbuyinggaishihen，eryinggaishiyiwang;neiweiheyouderendeaihuibianweihen，erbukeyibianchengyiwangni，neishiyouyutaxianghenizaiyiqilibian，qianquelexinxin……

 zailianaizhongdajiabixujinxingerxiangguanjiandexinlizhuangtaimeirirenwu：yi、yaogengrenshiziji。chuziworenshidingyiwai，rangliangxinglianaizhongdezishengengxiangxiqingchudizhanxianchuqu。er、suzaodajialianrendenengli。congcongxiaoxiguanxingshenaigangkaishixuehaolianren。

看一个男人是否好老公有三个标准：承担、重视和平稳。

chengdandaibiaozhetanengduizishenchangshuoguodehuachengdan。

 zhongshizejiushizhi，takeyizunzhongzijidelingyiban，bianshidajiayibanchangshuode，niliangzhongjianchuangjiandeshi“xiaohuobanshiguanlian”，dajiajiaowangdefangfashigongpingde。

 ciwai，tayeyaoshiyigewendingqingxuderen。youderenxintaifeichangrongyiqiqiluoluo，neiyangderenshinanyibaochiyiduanchijiudeguanliande。

 shangbianshuodejinjinhaolaogongdebiaozhun。ruguowomenbabiaozhunzailagaochengjingpinnanrendehua，hainenggoushulichushuobaile“sanxineryi”debiaozhun。

zuixiandiyigexinshigaoxing。tazijiyinggaishiyigeleguanderen，zheihuiranghetayiqijiaowangderenyejuedexinqingshuchang。

diergexinshiguanzhu。guanzhudaibiaozhetiexin，tashiquanbunvhaidoufeichangrongyilejiede。

 disangexinshihuanweisikao。shenmeshihuanweisikao?bianshijiejinsuonengweitarenkaolvdenengli。huanweisikaoshizhongshidelaiyuanyu，yeshilianrenjianchulimaodunshizuizhongyaodenengli。

yeyouliangyi。diyigeyishichengxin。chengxindaibiaozhezhenxinshiyi，zhenxinshiyiyeshichengdandejiben。

 diergeyishizhencheng，bianshiyaokeyiyongzhenchengdefangfaqujiangjielianrendegerenxingwei。tashixuduo rendaoyulianrenjiaowangshinanyibaozhengde，lirulingyifangyibuxiaoxinwandaoshi，yongguyidejiangjiefangfalailejie，bianhuigangkaishizhizelingyifang，nibuzaiyiwo!

 youxierenmailaiyizhibuduankuibendegegu，rutongyingduiyiduanwufawanhuidehunyinshenghuo，yingbuyinggaipaochuqujiugenshibushiyingdangliyiyiyangkunhuozheta。zaishiershangsuohuachulaiquanbudechengbenfei，liruxiaohaodeshijian、qiancaideng，dangzheizhongchengbenfeimeifashougoushi，zaihunlianjiaoyouxinlizhuangtaishehuixinlixueshangbeibianchengchenmochengben。weihedajiabuyuanyiliquyigebujiankangdehunyinshenghuo，weihebuyuanyisheqiyigemeiyoushiyongjiazhidegegu，yuangushidajiabuyuanyiqurenkezheizhongchenmochengbencongcimeifashougou。

 nanhaizizaitanlianailidexintaiyaoqiuyouyixiajigefangmian：yi、benshendenenglibeihaowuyiwen。tachangchanghuiguanzhushibushiyoulingrenkandeqi?er、caiqibeishangxi。huoxutayixieaihaohecaiqiliangzhezhijiangongzuozhongchedibugan，dannirengxuxuehaozhongaihezhongshi。san、qinfenbeiganxie。taduinijiqiduizheiyiduanqinggansuozuodeqinfenbixubeiganxie。

女孩在谈恋爱里的心态要求：

yi、changchangbeiguanai。suishipingshidexutao，niyaoxixinlingting。

 er、zaisandebeihaowuyiwen。tahenyoukenengyierzaiersandilejienishibushiaita。shijishangtajinjinbixuzaisandihaowuyiwen，nixuyaojitazixinxin。

san、niantoubeizhongshi。(zaigongxiangxintaizhuduoshitigaoxianghuqinggan)

 shuangxiangqingganzhangai,weihubaoyangzhangqixingguanliandefangshi：zhidingyigesanchengsandelengzangfangan。yitiansanciyicisanfenzhong。sanajihua;

 diyiattention，zhuanxinzhizhi。zaidajiashenghuoqijuzhong，wochangjuededajianengjitarenzuimeideliwushishijian，paidiaonishoutoudequanbuhuo，guanbishoujishangzhuanxinzhizhiditinglingyifangjianghua。

 dieraffection，rouqingmiyi。feiyingyukouyudegoutongjiaoliu，jishentiyuyandegoutongjiaoliu。meishierduobaoyibaolingyifang。

disanappreciation，huxiangshangxi。

 shuangxiangqingganzhangaimeiyigewanshandenvxingdeshentilidoushiyougeshifenhaiziqidexiaoguniang，meiyigehaiziqixiaoguniangshentidoushiyougehaiziqidexiaowenhao。neijiushiwojiujingyoumuyoutaoxi。zaizheigeshihounixuyaoxuehaokuazanlingyifang，zirankuazanlingyifangrongmao、shenxingshigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan。huoshitazhaoliaojiazhongdenengliyeshiburonghushide。

 ziranmeiyigewanshandenanshirentilidoushiyougeshifenhaiziqidenanhaier，meiyigehaiziqidenanhaiershentidoushiyougehaoxiaodexiaowenhao，neijiushiwoyoumuyourangbierenkanbuqi?wulunbianweiduowanshandenanshi，zheiyixiaowenhaorengrancunyou。xuehaojitamenhaowuyiwen，conglaimeiyoushenmeshiqingbiaigenggandong。shuangxiangqingganzhangaiyounaxie？jiarurujinganjueshengmingzhongyouyixiebuxiangxidediqu，henkenengjiushizheigekechengdouhaimeizuole。

 wuxiadeai,butichufenshoudetanlianaishijishangyouguilvxingkexun，jiaruzunzhaozheizhongxinlizhuangtaixintaiyaoqiu，dangzuihouyiciduilingyifangshuowoainideqingkuangxia，dajiahuilewuquehan。duiyuanquderenshideliunianfangfashichengjitadezhiliangzaicihaohaorichangshenghuoxialai。