恋爱中的人,成为剩女的真相

 lianaizhongdianyounaxieni？dalingshengnvyulaiyuduo，xuduo nvshengyizhigaozhizishenbuzheji，youyurujinnanduonvshao，zishendouhuiyousuoshude。danshibansuizhenianjidetigao，zheizhongnvshengchajuezijihuanshigulinglingyigeren，zaiyanxianzhoubianhaoguimishuangshuangduiduishi，jianxinyidinghenxiangyaozhidaozishenbianchengdalingshengnvdeshiqing。neimelianaiyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaizhongderendewenzhangba。

 xuduo nvhaiwangwangbianchengdalingshengnv，bingbushishiyinweinibenshenbiaozhunbuzu，xuduo qingkuangxiatongchangshinideaiqingyishiyoushenmewenti。zhongjiuchuduixiangdepincihenshao，naizhicongmeitanguotanlianai，yinci zhenduiganqingdehexinlinianquanshilaiziyushujidianshilianxuju，danshizheizhongzhuzuosuilaiyuanyurichangshenghuodanyaoyuangaoguorichangshenghuo，lianaizhongdianyounaxieni？yincizaiyidingshuipingshang，jijiemeimenchuandilexuduobuzhengquedeyishi。

xiabiandajialaipouxiyixia，wangwangbianchengdalingshengnvdeshiqing，ganjinlaibudongzhuangdongba————

一、觉得感情天生注定

 xuduo nvsheng，zaixinlidoujuedezhenzhengdeaiqingtianshengzhuding，yinci wuxuzishenquzhengde，ganqingzonghuiyoulailindeyitian，yaoshizishennaixindengdaijiukeyi。

 shijishangbingbushizheiyang，zhenzhengdeaiqingxunzhaoheshizishende，zhuixundaodongnideren，yinci ganqingbujinjinshitianshengzhudingde，lingwaihaixiangyaonidezhengde，duiganqingjijizhudongyixie，naizhijijixuehuifangxiashenziquzhuiqiuwanmeiganqing，zheizhongquanshiwukefeiyideshier，ganshenmerangzishengulinglingdedenghouni?

二、总希望不属于自身感情

 ganqingbingbushixiangxianglaide，xuduo nvhaikanduoledianshilianxuju，bianyizhixiangxiangzhehuigulianghebaimawangzidejingdianpianduan，ershijizhongneiyangdezhuangkuangquzhikeshu，huanshishuxinchulai，xunzhaozhenshiheshizishenderenba。

youyuheshinide，caijiushinideyinyuan!

三、不清楚自身要想的

 lianaizhongderen,youdenvhaiwangwanglunluodanshen，xuduo qingkuangxiashibuqingchuzishenjiujingyaoxiangnaxie，jibian tanguoxuduodetanlianai，danyizhihuiyi“ganjuebuhao”、“suoranwuwei”zheizhongtuoci，laicongcongdewanbiyiduanqinggan。

buqingchuzishenyaoxiangnaxiedeqinggan，jiusuiyidezhaoyigenanhaizitanlianai，tanjihuidoushihuiyizhidanshende!

四、规定太高

kandaiganqingzimingqinggao，tashixuduo nvhaidegongxingwenti。

 lianaiyuhunyin,wangwangcunyouneiyangdenanti，bujinjinshixinliguidingtaigao，xuduo qingkuangxiashixinhuaichengjian，zaishangyiduanganqingzhongshoushangle，zhenduijiexiaqudetanlianaiyuelaiyuehenbijiaomingan，yinciguidingshangsheng，dangranxunzhaoshihedeqinglvnanduxishuyetishenglexuduo。