恋爱中的人,别为爱情而迷失自己

 lianaizhongdianyounaxieni？zhenzhengdeaiqingbashuangrendao，zaixuduo qingkuangxianvhaixunzhaonanpengyouhou，huibazijiderichangshenghuozhongxindianchedifangdaolingyifangdeshenshang，zheibudanbulidajiadeganqingfazhanqushi，fandaohuirangzishenmituzaiganqingzhong，bazijinongdebiantilinshang。ganqingbixuyunying，ninenggaibianxianzhuang，keshibiemishifangxiang。neimelianaiyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaizhongderendewenzhangba。

错误观念一：舍弃理想

 xuduo denvsheng，zaichuduixiangyihou，huichedidezijintouruganqingzhong，yizhiyusheqixuduo ，zaiqizhongbaohanzishendelixiang。lianaizhongdianyounaxieni？keshizhenshizhenzhengainideren，shibushedejinisheqilixianghua，sheqiquanbutiaoxuande。

genghekuangganqinghelixiangnenggoujiangu，weishenmeyaosheqizishendelixiangni?

错误观念二：更改价值观念

yinweilianggerenzhiqiandejiatingqingkuang，jiaoyujinglidengdoubuyiyang，yinci lianggerendejiazhiguanbidingburongyiwanquanyizhi。

 dangjiazhiguannianchanshengfenqi，tiyidajialianggerenxianghukuanrong，xianghuzhijianrenrangyibu，bingfeiyouyujiazhiguannianyouchabie，jiuyouyideshunconglingyifang，laigaibianxianzhuangdebiaozhun。

niyaoguoma，jiarunilianzishendeyishidougenggai，nijiangburongyizaijiushini，haizennengquebaolingyifangyiranainini?

错误观念三：掩藏自身

 weilegenghaodishuncongzishendenanhaizi，xuduo nvshenghuiyouyidequyanzangzishen，danzheiganghaoshiyizhongcuowuguannian，youyushiqunixiyinzhutadediqu。

 shijishangnibingbuyidingweitagenggai，yaoshiduitachongzuhao，jibian nibushitaxiaidenvwangzhonglei，danjianxintayehuilibukaini。

错误观念四：牺牲自己的時间

 lianaizhongderen,xishengzijideshijian，yizhipeizhelingyifang，tashifeichangdadecuowuguannian。ganqingbushinirichangshenghuodesuoyou，zairichangshenghuozhongniyeyougongzuozhong，yeyouheguimi、qinrenjiaowangdeshijian，bieyinweiaiersheqibiededeshijian。

 weishenmeyaojiniderenshengdaoluzaoshoutarendezhuzaizheni?jibian tashizheifenairen，niderenshengdaoluyezhiyouyounizijicaozong。

错误观念五：别为情感而危害决策

 ganqingbingbingbushinenggoulingjiayurenhedongxishangde，jibian nifeichangaifeichangaita，yebubiweizhulingyifangzhuan，nixuyaozhangwoxiaoriziheganqingdejunheng。

qianwanbierangqingganweihainidejuece，rangzishendexinligangkaishixiangyibianwaixie。

错误观念六：别忽略自身

yixienvhaizaichuduixiangshi，huixiandehenshenhenshen，tashibuliganqingkuailechengzhangde。

 lianaiyuhunyin,jiarunibuyuanneiyanghulvezishen，hebuzhaoyigeshierzhuanxinzhizhiquzuo，liruzhaoyigezishenhenganxingqude，huoshiyizhiyaoxuedewupin，neiyangcaiburongyihulvezishen。