怎样爱一个人?如何留住男人的心?

yishengzhinengaiyigema？nvxinghenshanyudabanlaixiyinzhunanrendemuguang，danyidantamenzaochenglenanrendeliuyi,dangnanrenyaoxiangdaliangdizhangwotamenshi，tamenquemaoshoumaojiaodibuzhidaogaizenmeban。wenzhonghuichushiyixiebianjiehaoyongdexiaojiqiao，jiaonizenyangxiyinnanrendexin。neimeyigerendelianaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenyangaiyigerendewenzhangba。

1、使他痴迷。

jiaruqijinyijingtaxiaitasuozhangwodeni，tayidinghuijinjinweiraozainipangbianyaoxiangzhangwodaliang。bubixunsujiudakaixinfei，chufeishinijiuzheiyangdegexinghua。duojidajiadeqingganyidianshijian，rangtajianjianditiwen。yidianyidiandijiemizishendemimi，rangyiwaijingxibuduandejiuyidian。

•weichiyidiancengcigan。bubibazijiyijingganshenme，zainaer，hesheizaiyiqizheizhongxinxineirongdouduitashuo。jibian nibuxiangyouyiweichicengcigan，gongxiangnidesuoyoudongtaixingyeyouyiwangdemeiyigeguanjiandian，duinanreneryanyeyixietaikuzaofaweihouzhongle。

•baocunyixiexiaojingxi。nanrendebenxingshihaoqizhe，tanxunwanjiahaoyongdouhenbuhaipaderen。tamendangranfeichangxihuanyiwaijingxi。jiarunifanganjitamenyigeyiwaijingxi，liruquzuohuaxueyundonghuoshiqukanchangyingpian，jiudandaqufenpeiyiqie。

2、找到他的个人爱好。

meiyigerendouxiaitaolunzishen。tashirendetianxing。hetagoutongjiaoliushi，bubiyizhiguzhiyutaolunnizijihenideqiannanyou，zhishiduowenyixieyouguantadeshier，shitalejieniduitahenganxingqu。jiaruninengshitadakaixinfeiduinishuotayiwangdelijing，jibian yixiefaweiniyetingdejinjinledao，tahuiganjuetagennihenbodianhua，ganjuegenjinifazhanqushidegailv。

•jiarutaxiaimouleisediao，neimaniyoushihouchuanyixianeileisediaodeyifukuziyekeyi。jiarutaxiaimouleishicai，jitamenzuoyiduntaxiaidewanfanyekeyi。

•kehuyulaiyuduoyanghua，youlaiyuanyubuyiyangwenhuadetedianderen。jiarutalaiyuanyubuyiyangdewenhuadetedian，yishengzhinengaiyigema？ninengchangshiquzhangwoyixietadewenhuayishu，tahuifeichangxihuande。

•fangsitayidiandian.nvrenxihuanbeifangsi，nanrenyeshizheiban。tamenjinjinguoyibuqujiangchuquyouyutamenpaneiyanghuiweihaitamendenanrenqipo。yaojilao，bubixianggemuqinyiyangjiaoguanta，keshinenggoujitamennongyizhangtaxiaidelanqiusaidemenpiaofei，huoshisongtaneigerentijiguodediandongtixudao。taburongyiganshoubushangzheifenai。

3、寻找爱他与使他单独中间的均衡点。

nanrenyushengjulaishidandude，yisishishuotamenbinvxinggengbixugerenkongjian。yaoshitajuededaochuleyiwaitayeyouciwaiyigeshijie。wuluntaruheduiniyouganjue，tahaibixutadepenyou。yinci shidudeqingkuangxia，jitamenyixiegerenkongjian。

•jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoyingbuyinggaixinrenganta，neimajiutiaoxuanxinrenganta。jiarutajileniyigemeifajinixinrengandeyuanyin，nizaigangkaishicaiyitadezhuguanyinsu。shijishangjiarunixinrenganta，taxihuanni，tajiuburongyirangniyiqieyaobaibudingnidexinrengandeyuanyin。jiaruniyizhizaigaixinrengantadeqingkuangxiacaiyita，tahuichengfanidebuxinren。

4、使他觉得自身像个男人。

shiyongnanrendeziaoyouyiwuhai。zheihuishitagerenganjuehenyouliang，bingqietamenhuijiangnagerangtamengerenganjueyouliangderenliudaoshenpang。zhideyitideshi，tamenhaihuijixurangjiniyiyangdetihui。

•jiaqiangtaxinzhongzhongdezishen。jiarutajuedezishenxianggexuanshou，duitashuotaquanshenjirouhenfazhan，shenxinghenrongqia;jiarutajuedezishenxianggezhuanjiaxuezhe，duitashuotahenboxueduoshihenkegumingxin;jiarutajuedezishenhenfengqu，tashuoxiaohuajiuxuyaoxiao，jitamenzaojiuchongfenfahuiyoumofengqudeziranhuanjing。

•renpingtadeyongshifengfan。zanyangtazaiqianbianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqudeshenshixingwei。yigerendelianai,dangtajinikaiguanmen，niyaochiwancan，yaoshitaganjuetahenyouqi。

•yaolejietazaitadenanxingpengyouyanqianhuishilingyifanyangzi。jiarutadegerenxingweideyoudianerguaiyi，neishiyouyutaxiangzaipenyouyanqianfengjingyixia。keshibubiqurenshouzhijiedebuzunhedezuinidegerenxingwei。

5、将公共场所撒狗粮降至最少程度。

nanrenbingtaoyanzaigonggongchangsuobeiqiangpozhequqianzhenideshou，yunijiewen。jiarutaxiai，neibuguo。keshijiarutataoyan，neimejiububicouheta。jiarutaganjueneiyangzuofeichangganga，niyebieshengqi。nanrenshihenfengbishidexiaodongwu，tamentaoyanjiangzishendemianruandeyimianzhanxianchuqu。

•zenyangaiyigeren?jiarunibixutazaigonggongchangsuoqingsongzizaidixiuenaidehua，wenroudiduitashuo。duitashuo，niqueshihenzhuzhongzheiyidian，bingqienihenlejieyexutabingbutaixiaineiyang。jiarutaduiniyouganjuehuoshiaizheni，tahuizuochurangbude。