怎样爱一个人?如何让他知道我想和他谈恋爱

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 jiranzheimingyueduzhewenqinvshengdaodigaizenyangduinanshengchongfangdian、rangnanshengfuzhuxingdong，huoshigaizenyangduizishenxinaidemubiaobiaoluchuxianglianaidexinxizheigewenti，neidajiajiulaihaohaoditaolunyixia，zuoweinvshengdedajiagaizenmezuo。wowubiyaoxiangenzhuweishuodeshi，chukaiyaorangzishenbianzheng、yaoyouzishendeshenghuo、yaotigaozijijiqiyaoduibierenshifangchulaizhenchengyiwai，youshiyigenvshengyoumuyoutanlianaidejiyu，chukaizheixieneizaiwaimianzaibiaozhunyiwai，haiyuyijianshiyongyou jiqijinmideguanlian，neibianshiniyoumeiyoushifangchulai“woxiangtanlianai”dexinxi。

先变成100%的女孩儿，才可以碰到100%的男孩儿

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 huoxuyixiejiaoweiqianghandenvshengyaoshuo：“aiyo，meichala!zongzhiwoyuanbenbianshiyaozhaoneileikeyishangxiwodenansheng。jiaruhenyounengli，zhuyaobiaoxianchuqianghandemoyang，rangnanshengyouyujuededaomeifazhangkongwoerwangzhiwangerquebu，neimejiubiaomingtabingbushiyigeyouzixinderen，woyebubixuyigemeiyouxinxindenanshenglaizhuiwo!”shila，yigenvshenghaoqiganyundijiangchuneiyangdehua，zaiqingxushanghaoxiangshihenhaoshuangshuangkuai，danjiangqilaihaoshuangshuangkuai，jiupanineixinshijishangwanquanbushizheiyangxiangde，jibian waizaizhuyaobiaoxiandezaiwanqiang，xinlihuanshiqidaizaiguduziyeyouyigenanshengkeyigennishuoshuoxinlihua，rangninengzaibiequdeqingkuangxiasamaimeng……yinci ，rangzishenyoudaliangjiyu，quyushangyequxiyinzhuzheixiehenyoukenengshangxinihuoduiniyouganjuedenansheng，bingbushifeichanghaoma?

 wojuede，qidaixunzhaoyigedongdajia，yexiangyaogendajiagongxiangshenghuodiandiandidideren，shimeiyigerendeqipan，youyuwenhuayishuqianzhideyuanyin，dajiagengqidaizheigerenbianshidajiadeqinmideairen，bingqiehen“beiju”di，duinvshengeryan，juedaduoshudouhuanshideyounanrenlaidangdanneiyangderenwujiaose，zhongjiushuangxinglianzairenkouzongshuzhongsuozhanyoudezhanbi，jinjinjinjishaoshubale。jirannihuanshibixunanren，jiuyaodajialaihaohaodikexueyanjiuzenmecainengxiyinzhudaoyigelixianghuazhongdehaonanrenba!

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给男人适度的必须感，激发真男人的士气

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 yiner，jibian shiyigejuyougaopinzhishenghuodenvshi，ruonixinlihenqipanyifenganqing，henxiangyaojiaoyigenanyou，neimaqingchangshizaishidudejihui，biaoluchuneilei“wozhendexuyao”、“wozhendexuyaobangwoyixietiyi”、“shiwoyidiangudu”、“woxuyaoyouyigerenlaipei”……dexinxi。

 zenyangaiyigeren?jiusuanshishifengaopinzhidenvsheng，buneimezuodehua，nanshenghuiganjue：“nidayuebuhuitanlianaiba!”、“nidayueyijianshisuoranwuweiba”、“zheileinvshengyingdangyebuhuikanzhongwoa”、“wogaibupeitaba”……yongyouzheizhongtongguonidewaizaizhuyaobiaoxian，errangnanshengzishenzainaozhongxiangxiangchudexintai，jibian yigenanhaierzaiyikaishideqingkuangxiaduiniyouqu，yehuichouchubuqian，youyudajiananrenshihenpabuchenggongde!jiusuanshigeyouhenduotanlianaideganjuedeqingchanggaoshou，yebixuganshoudaonvxingyixiezhengliandehuiying，caiganzaicizaiqingganshangyuefangyueduo，zaixingdongshangyulaiyujijizhudong。zenyangaiyigeren?yiner，congmingdenvhaikeqianwanbuyaozaiyikaishideqingkuangxia，jiuzugenanshengmenxiangnipufuqianjindequdongli!