爱的表达,跟男人聊天不能说的话题

 nvshiyunanshizaikaizhangoutongjiaoliushi，youyixiekendingbunengshuode“jihui”huozhadan，nvshimenwubiyishidaozheizhongzhadanhuojihui，caikeyifangzhijiangchurangnanrendaozushiyudehualai。zaiqizhong，zuibixuliuyidebianshi“buyongshuohuishizishenyuezhangyuechoudeyuju”。neimeaidebianjieyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidebiaodafangshidewenzhangba。

 zheiershuobailede“chou”，bingbingbushizhiyushengjulaiderongyan。youyujibian youzhezaipiaoliangderongmao，yaoshizaihuihuazhongjiangchuzheizhongciyu，neimacongnanrendejianjiekanlai，lingyifangdoushihuilikebianweiyige“choue”denvshi。

neima，nanrenjuede“choue”denvshidaodishiruhedenvshini?

 “nanrenyingdangyaoyoujingshenshizhidigongzuozhong，erqieyaoweilegenghaodiweihuguanjiandejiarenerhuo”，duiyuzheiyijianyi，yidingyouhenduonvshidoubiaomingzanchengba!tongyangde，zancheng“qidainvshinenghenyazhipiaoliang”denanrenyingdangyeyiyangduo。huanjuhuashuo，lingrenganjuemeiyouqingdiao、yuyanhezishiyidianyebuyazhidenvshi，congnanrendejianjiekanlaibianshishifen“choue”。

 nanrenduiyigebuzaihubierendemuguang、zishishifendisudenvshibaoyouhaogandegailv，jiuhenvshihuiqushensishulv，heyigebukaolvdaoweilaidenitezuyiqishenghuodegailvyiyangdi，keyishuojibenshangshibutaikenengde。(shuobailedenitezuzhideshibushengxuekaoshi、buxueshengjiuye、buxuexihuobaomingcanjiajiuyefudao，zhengrihunhuneederen。)

aidebiaodafangshiyounaxieni？neima，huirangzishenyuezhangyuechoudejihuiyujuyoushenmeni?

•“yinci bushiwoneiyanggennishuolemeiyou?.”

 zheijuhuashizaihelingyifangqizhenglianmaodun，yaoxiangqiangzhiluoshizishenderenweishixuyingyongde，youqishihuazhonganhan“weihenilianzheiyidianshidoubumingbai?”dehanyi，youdihuilingyifangdechengfenzailimian，yinci kendingbukeyiyingyong!

 huizaiyunanrendehuihuazhongjiangchuzheijuhuadenvshi，bianshibumingbaizhongshinanrendenvshi。mingbaizhongshinanrendenvshi，jueduibuhuiyingyongneiyangdeyuju。meifarangnanrenkaolv

qingmiandejiudianxiaojie，shimeifazaoshougukereliehuanyingde。

•“可是……”

 zheijuhuayou“jinguannenglejielingyifangdeniantou，keshiwodexiangfacaisuanshiqiadang”dehanyi，tanbaishuo，zheigenzhijieledangdifourenlingyifangchabushangshiduoshao。yigeyazhidenvshi，shiburongyizaiyunanrenqingqingsongsonggoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxiayeyaojianchibuxiezishenderenweide。

•“但是……”

 “danshi”zheigeciyu“keshi”leisi，yeshifourenlingyifang、jianchibuxiezishenjianyidehua，youshihaijingchangzaizhaojiekoushiyingyong。likejiuxiangzhaojiekou，gengshiziworentongshifenqiangdadezhuyaobiaoxian。zheijuhuayaoshiyishuochurukou，bianhuidailailingyifang“nirenweizishenzuizhongyao”deyinxiang，yinci yeshijihuidehua。

•“本来……”

 zheijuhuayehenjingdian，youyudajiazaiyingyong“benlai”zheijuhuakaishihou，jinjiezhededaduoshuhuishimaiyuan。biru“benlaiwoneimeqinfenle，lingyifangquedougaobudong、zhoubianderenyebumingbaishangxi”，zheijuhuashifourangrenshifenershuni?zheijuhuayeshizhirenweizishenzhengdangxingweideyuju，nayigenanrenhuiganjueyigezongshigenzishenshuapiqidenvrenshiyoufengcaide?wojuedeyingdangmeiyouzheileirenba!

 jinguanzhishangzaoyijulexuduoshili，danshijishangwulunnayige，zheizhonghuadoushiyouyigegongtongdian，bianshi“renweizishenzuiqiadang、zuizhengdangxing”。eryigechaoqianglirenweizishenzhunquexingdenvshi，zainanrenyanzhongdoushihuikanqilai“henbutaorenxihuan”。huangejiaodulaikan，yaoshibuyingyongzheileiyuju，zheixie“fourenlingyifangerjianchiziwo”dezhuyaobiaoxianbianhuidafudujiangdi。

 ziran，zheibingbingbushixiangyaonichedibumingquetichuzishendejianyi。rendaoyutarengoutongjiaoliushi，yidinghuichanshenghelingyifangchanshengfenqideqingkuang。cike，yigehongpaidejiudianxiaojiebianhuiyingyong“yes,and……”defangfalaitidaizheizhongbudangzhichudeyuci，laihuiyinglingyifang。yejiushijibian lingyifangchangshuodehezishendejianyibuyiyang，yaoshixianshuoyici“dequeshineiyang”，yi“yes”jienalingyifangdejianyihou，zaiyong“suihou”huozhe“bingqie”yileibuxurenzaochengdichudeliancizaicishuoxialai，neimajibian nichuandileyulingyifangxiangfandejianyi，jitamendeyinxiangyehuichedibuyiyang。zheishiyouyuxianbiaoshule“yes”dejianyihou，keyiranglingyifangjuedeta“zaoshouzhongshi”deguanlian。

 aidebianjieyounaxieni？zheizhongjihuidehuayaoshizhixiangquliuyi，bubisuibianshuochurukou，neimanaohaizhonglideniantoudangranyehuigensuidiaozheng。jiaruyikaishijiuyaoxiangturangenggaixinlideniantou，huoshiyiyagendadaozishen，shibutaikenengsuibianqudechenggongde。xiangbiyaoxianglijigaijinshencengcidexinlizhuangtai，haibibushangcongrujinlikejiunengbandedaodejianyixingdonggangkaishixueqi。yaoshiteyiliuyi，bubijiangchuzheizhongjihuidehuajiuxing•，ruguoyibuxiaoxinshuochulai，yaolikeziwofansi。buduanneiyangxunlianzishen，dangrannengjianjiandibianhuazishenjianghuadeyudiaoyushiyongfangfa，zhangciyiwangdangrannengcongyuyanzhongzhanshichugaoqingdiaole!