爱的理论,告诉他你想要什么

 aideren,dahuapingkongle，jianjushangyicitajililysongxianhuaxianyouhenzhangqi。xinlixuezhuanjiajuede，nanrenshipingxingxianluojisiwei，nvrenshiquxiantuluojisiwei。neimezhangqibusongxianhua，lilyhuranganjuetamendeguanlianyoushenmewenti。neimeaidelingyizhongcunzaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidelilundewenzhangba。

 zaixianzhudanshideshujuxinhao，lilyfanchuquanzidongxiyijilidechenyi，chayanyilingshangyoumuyoukouhongyin。tayaoxianghua，yeyaodaliangdaliangdeai。niyinggaibangwosongxianhualeba?taduizhejingzishuo，buhao，zhenshichuntoula。shuochulaihaiyoushenmeyisi?aishidangrandebiaolu;takebuyuankenqiunaxie。

 kongzhededahuapingyinggaishi“shiai”yicishidepinpaixingxiangzhushi。takaozaichazhuohoubiandeshafashangkandianshiju，tanabeizideshounaizhicongdahuapingbianshangcaguo，chixuertianyizhishineiyang，nandaoshuotagaobudongkongzhededahuapingdaibiaozhenaxie?

 lilywangkongdahuapingliguanshui，qidaitanengzhuyidaozheizhikelingdedahuaping，congerjiancetaliefengdeqingxu。jiarutayibuxiaoxinjiangdahuapingnongfanzaidihaikeyi，yaoshitanengliuyita!danshitashibaile，tahuanshineibanyouqiwulidifanguozheizhidahuapingkantadelanqiu。zheizhizhuangmanshuidedahuapingzuihoujingzaocheng tamendetichufenshou。

 nanshenggenjuzuoshengyi、jianshenyundonghepaocheganshouyishunjiandekuaile，nvxingtongguohuashu、xinyongkahelipinxiangyouwujindeqingshen。nanrenshiganxingdongwu，nvrenshijuedexiaodongwu。zhenduizhinengyihuibuzhiqisuoyirandewupin，nanshengbuxiangnvxingneimabijiaomingan。jijishiaixiuyuqichi;ernanshengpianyaowuhuinideanshizhe。yicisunhaixiangyimeifengyizhen，meiquhetagoutongjiaoliudenizaoyishidingmanfengyizhendecangshu。

对他说你喜欢什么

 wanhunzhounian，rongpeidelaogonglanzengjitayijianzhenguideshipin。aideren,tacaizheiyijianshipinkendingshiyiqiguangdianshitazhijitamenkandezheijian。kaiqibaozhuanghezi，quefajuenatiaobojinxianglianzhuishangqianrudeshilansebaoshi，erbushitaxiaideneipianlvfeicui。

 taweishenmehuibuzaihucikedexinqingni?rongpeiyumenwubi，tabenlaigaozhiguotalvfeicuizuipeizishenqingyi。taxiangqixuduo ，xinhanbeijuedewujinfangshexing。

 zenyanggenggaizheileichixuxiajiangdeqingkuangni?rongpeizuochudetiaoxuanbingbushiduobi，zhishirenqingbingduofangmianjiejue。nvxingkewanglanman，dandangnanrencuxindayinvxingdeshiaishi，nvxingyibancaiyongfeiyanyujiaojideduice。feiyanyujiaojiyouerzhongjichuzhonglei：shoushixinghelianbuqingxuxing。shoushidehanyishiyizujubeiyuyidegudingbudonggerenxingwei;chushileyikaoshijuexiaoguonenggoulejiedeanjianxiansuo。lirurongpeijinjinnazhenatiaojingliankan，quebingbudaizaibozishang。danrongpeiganjuehuanshiyongyanyujiaojihelaogonggoutongjiaoliugengheli，youyuguoqudegongzuojingyan，tadanyoufeiyanyujiaojihuizaochengwuhui;liangrendegousizishizhizhonghuixianglianggenjuebujiaochadezhixian。

 aidelingyizhongcunzai,guoran，rongpeiwanzhuandigaozhilanzishendezhenzhengniantouhou，lianggerendouganjuezheileilijidegoutongjiaoliuhenyouli。“worenweilansebaoshidejiaqiangenggui，renweininengxiai。laikanwowubizhengxunnidejianyi，bukeyiwoyongdejuedetidainideniantou。”lanlikequhuanlejinglian，rongpeiyinerganshoudaodaliangdeguanxinheqingyi。tangruobumingshuo，shierzhiyouhuiyulaiyuzao。

对他说烂漫的必要性

 minzibujiujinxingyigexinpinfabuhuideshejifangan，huidaojiatajingpilijiedilizaiwuzizhongjian。laogonglikejiedaotashoushangdebao。tapibeieryouzhangditanleyikouqi，zheileizishiyuyanshizaiguidinglaogongxiangyongta。juxinlixuezhuanjiapouxi：meigerenmeirijunzhibixubeiyixingpengyouxiangyong10ci。danshilaogongquewurenweitafeichanglei，xiangyigerenxiexiyihuier。

 tabingmeiyouzhizelaogongweishenmebudafutadeguiding，tajinjinqingqingwen：“nixiangyaobaowoyixiama?”laogongmashangjiqingdidafu，laolaodidibatalouzaihuaili。guohou，minzixianglaogongzhiyanxiangtarenguidingxiangyongshiyijianhenjiannandeshi。“neiyangzuohenbuhaoyisi，haoxiangshiwohaizaikenqiunibushiyidianguanhuai。jiaruniquanzidonglaixiangyongwonengyaowojuedehenlanman。wonengganjuenishizaishuoaiwo，erbushifuyanwo。”

 laogongguaitaweishenmebuzaoshuozheizhonghua，aidelilun,tadequebuqingchunvxingdexiweixinlizhuangtai。duihenduonvxingeryan，guidingnanshengdexiangyongshihenfenqideshier。xiangyonghuirangtajuedenanshengdeshiyong，danguidingnanshengxiangyonghuirangtajuedemeimianzi。danshi，jiarunanshengwangjile，guidingnanshengdexiangyongzongbicuoguojiyuhuoshiguohoubaoyuanhaohenduo。