nanrendeaiyounaxieni?wulunshiyijingzhuinanshengdenvhai,huanshizhengchuzaitianmeilianaiqidenvshi,xinlidoushiyouneiyangdenanti:woliyinggenjuruhedefangfarangnanhaizimishangzishenni?suirannanrenhenvrenyongyou wuqiongwujinyouhuoli,erzheileiyouhuolishixiangyaonifajuehetanxunde,zhongjiutaburongyimomingqimiaodeduinizaochengnonghoudexingquaihao,zheidangranqianshedaonanrenhenvrentigaoyouhuolidefangfa。neimayoushenmefangfanenggouxiezhuzishenzengjiafengcai,zenyangcaikeyirangnanhaizimishangzishenni?neimenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankannanrenainihexiangshuinidequbiedewenzhangba。
zheipianwenzhangneirongjiangyikao“qingchangdeyi”denvhaimendegongzuojingyan,zhuyijihaiyouyihuodenikaizhanpouxi——
方法一:优良的第一印象
jibian nanhaizikanshangqushishifenkeguande,danshijishangtamenzaiyingduiganqingshiquehuiyuelaiyuechuxianyichanglixing,nanrendeaiyounaxieni?tangruoxiangrangzheiyinanhaiziduijinichongzudexingquaihao,neiyidingyaomingbaizaidajiadexiangchuqianqichuangjianyouliangdediyiyinxiang。youdenvhaiduidiyiyinxiangdelejiebuzhengque,ganjuejiaowangdediyimianbianshidiyiyinxiang,qishibushi,yaoshizaizheigenanhaizibingweichuangjianduinidepingdingguifanshi,dajiadechupengzhongnisuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqudeyijuyidonghuoyiyanyixing,shijishangquanshizaigoujianyouguanzishendediyiyinxiang。
yinci yidingyaogaoduzhongshidajiadeqianqixiangchu,ninengxuehaochengxianzishendefengcai,zhuyaobiaoxianyouguanzishendeyuzhongbutongdian,youyujinyoujitamenliuyouchongzukegumingxindeyinxiang,caikeyizaidajiabuduanchupengdeqiantitiaojianxiazhandexianfeng。
方法二:相处中呈现你的信心
zhenduiniaoerrengranzhongleidenvhai,nanshidangranhuichuxianchongnixinlizhuangtai,danshijishangdangzheiyinanrenyuelaiyuewanshanzhishitamenbianhuigaoqingchu,shijishangxiangduixingyuyouyilaiganlidenvshieryan,tamengengquxiangyutiaoxuanxinxindeairen。queshiruci,juedaduoshudenvshizongbuzhengquederenweinanshixiangyaodanfu,xiaizishenxiaonvzideyimian,yinci tamenhenxiangyaobazijiquanbudeshierdoutuidaonanhaizideshenshang,bingbazheizhongzuoweishiliyingde。keshijishangtamenbingbulejie,nanshigengxihuandenvshengleixingshixinxindandudenvhai,zaizheileinvhaideshenshangyongyou yuzhongbutongdefengcai,jiusuanshimiaoshuzheileinvshihenxuanliduocaiyebusuanguo。
方法三:交谈初中会倾听
nidongqingtingdefangfama?zixunguoxuduodezhengzailianaizhongnvshi,tongchangzaitamenlaikan,shuobailede“qingting”zhishiqujueyu“ting”,yaoshizailianggerendexiangchuzhongweichi“ting”dexintaijiukeyi。
nanrenainihexiangshuinidequbieshishenme?kejutiqingkuangbingbushizheiyang,shijishangnvhaimendelejiezhongjinjinting,bingmeiyoubadajiadegoutongjiaoliudangzuoshixianghujianshidegoutongqudao,shijishangzaidajiadegoutongjiaoliudangzhong,weichiyikexixinqingtingdexinshihenzhongyaode。pingshizhongnanhaizihaowuyiwenhuigenniliaoyixieyouguantadehuatitaolun,ruguonixuehaozaixianliaozhongqingting,ruguoninengcongtadeyujuzhongxunzhaozishenyaoxiangdezhongyaoxinxineirong,bingzailingtingchuzhonghuishidudefabuzishendekanfashi,neijianxindajiadeguanlianbidinghuigengjinyibu……
方法四:文本寄情
ruguonimeiyoutashenpangshi,nishizenmebiaoshuzishenganqingdeni?zongshirujindedajiarengweizaiyiqi,danniyirannenggoubiaoshuzishendeqianchangguadu,duijiyiduanqingshendewenben,yongduanxiaoxihuodianhuadefangshichuandirangnizuixinyideta,duitashuonidesinian,shushuonidezhongchang。
方法五:懂的格调
nanrenainidebiaoxian,dangdajiadeguanlianyulaiyujinshi,nishibushimingbaizhuyaobiaoxianzishendefengcai,jiecijihuilaijifazheiyinanhaizidexinlini?cishijiuxiangyaonizhuyaobiaoxianzishendegediao,zhuyaobiaoxianniteyoudefengcai,chongzudekaiqizheiyinanhaiziquanbudelangmanqixi,bingbansuizhenixianghushengbai……gediaobudanshizhideshiyongxing,daliangdehuanshilequ,xingzhibuguoyigebiaodaxingshibale。
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