,nvhaierxiaoxiaohebizishendisanzhesuidenanpengyoutanlianai10geyuele,bansuizheshijianliushi,xiaoxiaoduinanpengyoudeqingganyulaiyushen。keshi,nanpengyoubuzhidaocongheshigangkaishi,duitashilengshire,xiaoxiaojuedehentongxin。zhihounanpengyoutanbaishuo,shimuqinzaiyixiaoxiaodenianjida,dizhiliangrenzaiyiqi,nanpengyouhenbuxiaxinjiushuo,jiuyouxinshengshuxiaoxiao,xiangrangxiaoxiaobazijiwangjile。xiaoxiaolejiehouyouqinanguo,gennanpengyoutongkudanaoyichanghou,nanpengyoutongyibutichufenshou,suihoucongtoukaishimeitianwanshangjixiaoxiaotongdianhua。guanlianhuanjiehou,xiaoxiaobugan,youqixiangzaizheiliduanqingganzhongbianweishishizhe,rangnanpengyouzhuanyiduizishen、duojizijitouru,keshiyoubuqingchuyinggaizenmeban,yincijixinxiangwoxunqiubangzhu。neimeqinglvzhijiandeaichengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqinglvaichengdewenzhangba。
jiandaoxiaoxiaodeqinggangushi,woxiangdaolelingyigezhichanggushi。bierennaonudigaozhipenyou:“kongzibuzhunbeizaizheigeqiyezuole!”tapenyouwenweihe?tashuodao:“lingdaobugaoduzhongshiwo,youyiluankouwodexinshui,dihuiwodexiaoshouyeji,pengyouyeqiaobuqiwo,meishierjiangwohulaihuanqu,wozhunbeihuangongzuo。”,penyoushuo:“nibibushangbazheigeqiyedangzuomianfeixuexiyeyougongzinadediqu,batamendequanbushijicaozuo、biaozhundouxuedeshou,zaihuangongzuobuchi。”bierenyixiangbucuoa,jiuliuxiale。guoqulebannian,penyouwen:“ruhe?xuedechabuduole,gaihuangongzuoleba?”bierennaonaotoufashuo:“danshijinqilingdaoyijianshiyoukuajiangyouzhangxin,wochenglegongsibangongshiwangluohongren,worenwei……haoxiangyemeibiyaohuangongzuole。”
dahuoerhenyoukenenghuichuxianyilv,zheiyizhichanggushihexiaoxiaodexiaogushiyoushenmeguanxi?linshipaokaizheiyikanqilaiwuguanjinyaodexiaogushi,wojuedegaozhidahuoerdeshi,nanrenzaishilengshiredeqingkuangxia,shijishangbianshixiangfenshoule。zheitiaofazeqingnvhaimenjihao。zhenduinanrenlaijiang,jijishuotichufenshou,juebutuotuolala,jiufangfojubujieshouxinghuiyiyang,shizaihuijuesonghuoshangmendefuli。yinci dangtashuodaofenshouhou,niyidingyaopingjingxialai,xiangyixiangjiujingfashengshenmeshi,yingdangruhequchuli。
yiyang,zailianaizhong,ruguoniganjuetadexinzaoyilinijianxingjianyuan,niyulaiyubawobuzhutadeqingkuangxia;ruguonifajuetajiaocailiangzhichuan,buyuantichufenshoudanbugandeqingkuangxia,youkuyounaobingbushijiejuekunnandefangfa,jibian niyongyoukuyounaolinshixiyinta,tazaowanyiranhuipaodiaode。
nanpengyouxiangfenshoudeshihou,nvhaimenyaozuodeyixieshishi:
1.不必尝试折磨或是凌虐另一方。
jutifangfashi,buyaohetaouqi,bubizailiaoyiqieshangrendehua,bubizailiaonaxie“womingbainibuaiwo”“wojiuzhidaoniyiqingbielianle,kanzhongbiedenvhaierle”“woyequeshineimejinifanganma?”“woqushileniyeburongyinanguode”denghua。danfannijuedehuiranglingyifangbuyukuai,huoshinengrangzishenjiehen、xiaochuzishenbiequdehuadoubuyaoshuo。
2.即便 明知道另一方在骗你,也不必强调。
liru,dangtaquhenvtongshiyongcanbeinibujingyifajue,taqueduinishuoneiyitianzaijiabanjiadian,niyejiuzhuangbuqingchujiukeyi,bubijiangnidezhimouyongzaichuochuanlingyifangshang,zishenneixingaoqingchujiuxing;jiarutajiechuanni,niyejiuxiaorong,yebuyaogaosutanilejiezheijianshiqing,chufeishinizaoyixiajuexinyaohetawanquanlaosibuxiangwanglai。
3.即便 另一方胡编乱造地斥责你,也全盘接受,不辩驳。
jiarutagangkaishixianqini“bingbushiguojiagongwuyuan、jiaoshi”“babamamabuxihuanni”“kanqilaihenai”“buhaokan”,bubifanchunxiangji,zhibixuhuanhuandeduitashuo:“woweichangbuxiangxiangnijuededeneiban……danshijizheiban,wojieshourujindezishen。”
4.打扮,去找被你冷淡已久的小伙伴们,让自身过得更高兴一些。
fenpeilibaitianqujuhuihuodong,suihoumenbaxingzhengjiguanle,bubitongyitadelinshixingyouhui,jiarutayaoyueni,tadangranhuizhaodaoni,jiarutazhiquanni,tahaihuijixuzhaobiedeshijian,danxincuoguoletadedianhuahuoshiyouhui,wuxuxiangtaguoduoshangbaonidexingji。
5.应对他,要忍让,表述你的无奈和对另一方的必须。
dangtachizenideqingkuangxia,chulifangfaxuanyongdisantiao。qinglvzhijiandeaichengyounaxieni?duitashuo:“wojinguanbingbushijizhide,danlaotianyehentaiaiwo,jiwoyigefeichanghaodenanyou。”shenchushoubudaxiaolianren,taburongyizaicide。
6.表述对他的赏析,以能使他感觉愉快为总体目标。
jiarutaduinitanqitadegongzuozhong,nixuyaozanyangta:“shizhenshijia?pengyoulibianyingdangweiyounihuodeneiyangdeshurongba?”jiarutabiaoshuxiaochenhuoshibumanyi,nixuyaoduitashuo:“nizaoyizuodegouhaola。”
jiandaozheier,nihuoxujiugaoqingchuqianbianwojiangnagezhichanggushidezuoyongle——niyingduiyigezaoyiyaoxiangtichufenshoudenanren,liangzhezhijianyoukuyounao,bibushangbatadangzuonideganqingxunlian,yongtalaimolianzishendexinnian,duanlianzishendexintaibakonggongzuonengli,changshitansuolingyifangdebixu,bianchengyigeranglingyifanglibulederen。zhidaotaganjuenishifenyoufengcai,ganjuezishenshenaizheni,ganjuezishenfeinibuaideqingkuangxia,zhudaoquanjiuzainishoushangle。jibian meinengwanliukunju,zheiduiniyuyixingpengyoujiaowangyedayouyichu。
kuanrongfansichuduo:“yibaohaiyibao”deboyi
情侣爱称,女孩儿的前任,以前不辞而别、消失,还欠了2000多元化租金,最终是女孩儿付了。三年后前任再次出現,好像是工作拥有有起色,女孩儿搞不懂他是否去求复合型的。如今他约女孩儿出来用餐,俩人三年不见了。宴上毫无疑问免不了提及当初的事如果你是这名女孩儿,你能告诉他哪些?前提条件就是你還是喜爱这个人的。
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