当爱来临的时候 他已经爱上你了吗？

 fuchudeaiyounaxieni？qiaoqiaodeaishangleyigerenyihou，danxin“luohuayouyi，liushuiwuqing”，zhinengbaochijianmo，zhinengzishenxinji、fannao。shijishang，yaoxiangfenbianlingyifangshibushiduiniyeyouxinbingbuhuitainan，kanyixianeigerenshifouyeneiyangguanxinzheni?neimefangbuxiadeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankandangailailindeshihoudewenzhangba。

1.他忽然越来越对你分外关注

 zaiyibanzhuangkuangxia，yixingpengyouzaihuxiangbiaomingguanzhuxiezhushi，doujiaoweishenzhong，bingqiejingchangshilazhehaoduogehuobanyiqixingdong，feichangshaodulixianglingyifangbiaoming。jiarunifajuetahuranyuelaiyueduinifenwaiguanzhu，duziyirenqiaoqiaoderangniyixiangbudaodexiezhu，zuishaobiaomingniyizhizaitadexinlizhanyouleguanjianbuwei。

 liru，niliansebuhao，tarenyemeiyoukanchuqu，jinyoutahuiqiaoqiaodelejieni：“zenmela?shifoushentibushi?”nipengdaoyijianbuyukuaideshi，taneishihoubingmeidaochang，guohouquejijixiangniqinqieweiwenhuoguiquan，zheixianzhushiyitarenkouzhongtantingdaodezhuangkuang，biaomingtazaishikeguanxinni。nibujingyiyinshichuqin，tahuixunsufajuebingbulushengseditantingniweishenmemeiyoulai。qiyeyounaxiehaoshierhuobulinideshi，tahuixunsudigaozhirangni，jinikaixinhuojiaolv，zheixie。

2.他常常“不经意”与你相逢

 aiqingxinlixuedeyanjiubiaoming，dangyifangduilingyifangzaochengaimuzhixinzhihou，zongqidaikeyijingchanghuichuxianzailingyifangyanqian，bianyuzaochenglingyifangdeliuyi。keshiyinweizizunxin、miantianjiqishehuifazhandianpingdengyaosudeqianzhi，youbukenranglingyifangfaxianzishenshiyouyineiyang，yincitongchangzhuangchu“bujingyi”、“bujingyi”demoyangzuoweiyangai。　fuchudeaiyounaxieni？yidanzheilei“bujingyi”changchangchansheng，neinijiubixuduoxiangyixiangle。

 liru，zaixiaoyuanneili，meiyiciruguonihehuobanzaiqingyoudelinyindaosansanbushi，tachangchang“bujingyi”zainageshikezhenghaoyesansanbugandaoniyanqian。zaishitangchifandeqingkuangxia，tachangchang“bujingyi”dizuozhenixiguanxingzuodecanzhuobianshangyunikankanertan，ningshizheni，naizhihaihuijixubahaochidexiaochijinipinwei。zaihuibaogongzuoshihuozaikandianshijushi，jibenshangmeiyicitadou“bujingyi”zuozhelinihenjinzhichu，naizhihuiyunidezuoweikaozhe。zaixiabanledeqingkuangxia，tachangchang“bujingyi”zaidamenkouyudaoni，erqiemeiyicibixu“shundai”yunitongxingyeyiduanlu，suiranzheihuishitaraoyuanduozoulu。youqijiushiniruojiechuandigenggaiyixianidezhutihuodonglujingheshijian，tayeyiyanghui“bujingyi”disuizhegenggai。neima，zheilei“bujingyi”dayuejiubingbushibujingyila，henkenengshitazaiyouxindizaochengnidezhuyile。

3.他忽然特想掌握你

 yifangmian，talaoxiangzhangwoni，jingchangwenjinidejiatingjingjiqingkuang，tingnijiangershi、jiangyiwang，duinijiazhongdeshieryoudutedeqiuzhiyu，naizhihaichangxiangtarentantingniderichangshenghuo，zongzhaojiyudaojialibaihui。zheitongchangshixiangyaobianchengnijiatingzhuyaochengyuandeshujuxinhao。

 lingyifangmian，tayexiangjinizhangwota，changxiangnitanzishendeershi，jinimenjiuzhaopian，jiangxueshengshidaideyouqudeshi，duinishuojiazhongderenkoushuliangzhuangkuang，fumudexingqingxihao，congeranshizhehuanyingnindaotamenjiawaner。zheitongchangshibiaomingxiangyaojieshouniweitajiatingzhuyaochengyuandeshujuxinhao。

4.他越来越爱对你搞捉弄

 tahuranyuelaiyueaiduinigaozhuonong，liru，zaixiabanleshi，nihuranchajuezijidedanchedeqimenxinbeibierenbachule，tarenqingqinggaosunineishitagande;zaixuduorenyanqiantahuizhuanyekainidewanxiaohuahuoshichengxinnahuaqini，jinixiabuletai……zheileizhuangkuangzainanshideshenshangzhuyaobiaoxiandejiaoduo，daduoshushiyouyuzhaobuzhezhengdangxingdeyuanyintiejinni，huoshinicongmeiyouxiangqiyaoliuyita，yincitajiuyongzhuonongdefangshilaibiaoshu，yilaishiqidaizaochengnideliuyi，erlaiyeshiweilegenghaodidedao yizhongxinlizhuangtaikaolv。danshi，zheileigerenxingweidabufenshiyizhongbuchenggongdebiaodafangshi，youyuzheijingchanghuishilingyifangzaochengyanfanxintai，yagenmeiquxiangzhenixinliyanzangdezhenzhengyongyi。

5.他的眼光常常跟伴随着你

 yibanshuolai，dajiaduizishentebiexiaidewupinzongganjuekanbuzu，erqieqidaikeyichangchangjiandao。yidan“xinshangren”chuxianle，tadeyanguanggenghuiqingbuzijindebeixiyinzhuyiwang。jinjindangbicidouhaimeiquelijiangchusixushi，zheileiyanguangjingchangshiqiaoqiaoshexianglingyifangde。

 zaigongzuozhongkongxiniouyihuishou，huihuranfajueyouyishuangyanjinghuishuohuazainingshizheni。zaiqiyejuhuidechangsuo，niyehuifajuetadeyanguangzhengconghenduorentoushudejianxichuningwangni。zongeryanzhi，yaoshiyoutadaochang，nidouhuiganjueyoushuangshuangyanzaidingzhuni，youshihouyouhuiyishanerguo。

 lingwai，niyehuijuedetadeyanguangyutarendeyanguangbuyiyang，tadaizhuyizhongningwangdenengliang，daizhuqijihewennuan，haoxiangyaojiangnideshiyexiyin，shinidongxin。zheishiyouyu，shuangyanshixinlingdechuanghu，henduomeifayongyuyanbiaodanenglideqinggan，dounenggouyongmuguangchuandi。fangbuxiadeaijukexueyanjiu，dajiajiarujiandaoxindongdeshiqing，yantongbianhuiqianyishidibianda，dangbicibuyanxiangduixing，erlingyifangqueyizhikannichaochu6miaoshi，ninengzaochengduitadeduyouliuyi，naizhihuijuedebudangran。youcikejianyanguangzaichuandiqingganshangduomedeguanjian。zhengyouyuneiyang，yanguangyejinizhangwolingyifangdeneixinchushilexinxineirong。

 yinci ，ruguonifajuetadeyanguangchangchangzainingshinishi，yinggaoqingchutashichuandaxinxidezuijiashiji，jiaruoniduitayeshiyou“hanyi”，hebuchangshiyejiangzishendeyanguangkanxianglingyifang，lingwaijiyuqingshendexiaorong。jiarufajuelingyifangdeyanguangbujinbubikaiquekanqilaigengyoushencai，neima，zuishaonenggoupanduan，bierenduiniyizaochenghaogandu。danshibushiaidebiaodamuzhiyi，haibixuyongbiedezhuyaobiaoxianqueren。

6.他与你独立交往时忽然越来越不当然起來

 dangailailindeshihou，guoqudajialianggerendulijiaowangshi，tabingmeishenmebudangrandezhuyaobiaoxian。danshijinqi，niquehuranfaxiantayunijiaowangshiyuelaiyuesichaoqifu、buzhisuocuo，jianghuadoubuneimashunchangle，naizhihaibansuilianfahongdezhuangkuang。wangwanghuichuxianzheileizhuanbian，bushitaganlenaxiebaoqiannideshi，jiuhenkenengshitaduinixindongle。xinlixuezhuanjiajuede，dangyigerenfajueshenpangyouyiwei“xinshangren”，eryoumeixianglingyifanggaobaishi，tongchanghuizailingyifangyanqianshouzuwucuo，lianfahongerrexintiao。tashijiaolvqingxudeyizhongfanying。tebiezhuyideshi，ruguonifajue，jinguantazainiyanqianhuichuxianbudangrandezhuyaobiaoxian，danyebukenlikelikai，neima，niyejiujihenyoukenengyishitade“xinshangren”le。