当爱来临的时候 怎么才能追上喜欢的男生？

fuchudeaiyounaxieni？yingduirangzishendongxindenanhaizi，nvhaimenyibandoujiaoweijiaoxiu，bingbushihaipayingduizuihourangzheiyiduanganqingbianweidanlian，bianshijiaoxiudebiaoshuaiyi，danbiaoshudefangfachedibudui，jieguorangnanhaiziyitouwushui。yingduiwenrunruyu，niyidingxiangbianchengtadeairen，danliyingzenyangzhuiqiuwanmeizishenxiaidenanhaizini?shiwomentaolunyixianvshengzhuinanshengdetihuixindeba!neimefangbuxiadeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankandangailailindeshihoudewenzhangba。

第一、胆大追求完美，敢于应对

yaoxiangzhuishangnanhaizi，haowuyiwenbukeyizhishishixiangzheimejiandan，youyuzuixiannixuyaojibaidejiushinidexinlizhuangtai，henyoukenengyingduijinidongxindenanshi，nidouhuiyoudianerjiaolvbuandexintai，yinci nizongyouyubuding，haipazuochubenzhidexingdong，yizhiyuzuihourangganqingyanmaizaixinlingshenchu。kenandaoshuonizhixiangyaoxiangxiang，erbuyuanyibianchenglingyifangdelianrenma?gujinihaowuyiwenxiangyao，danwangwangniyituozaituohaipayingduidejiaoda yuangu，bianshiganjuezishenbuzuchuse，fuchudeaiyounaxieni？lingyifangburongyiyouaishangdejiyu。

yidanjinizheileiniantou，neimenihaowuyiwenzhuiganbushangzheiyinanhaizi。yuangudangranwuxuduojiang，nimeiyouneiyangdeniantoudangranyebuhuiquqinfen。zaizhuiqiuwanmeinanhaizizheijianshiqingshang，qianwanbieganjuewanxianuanweijiuhenqingqingsongsong，shijishangzheiyiquanshijiemeiyoushashishishinajiuwende，youqishizhuinanshengzheijianshiqingshang，zhuzhongdeshiyuanfen，zhuzhongdeshininongwonong，yinci zaifangzhengnidexinlizhuangtai，yingyongdequzhuiqiuwanmeiyiwai，yeyaobawoshitayeganyuanjienanidefangfa。

第二、提高风采，升級女人气质

qianbianyeshuoguo，yaoxiangranglingyifangyeganyuandegennizaiyiqi，neiyidingyaoxiyinzhulingyifang，nengxiyinzhuzheiyinanhaizideqimaquebaobianshitigaonidefengcai。nvshixiyinzhunanhaizidefengcaiziranshinvrenqizhi，zheizainanshikanlaishijiaoda deyouhuolisuoshu。danliyingzenyangtigaonvrenqizhi，shitabeizishendefengcaisuoqinpeini?

shengjinifengcaidefangfa，dangranshiquzhangbuduan，xiangyixiangnizuichusedediqu，fayang，zaixixinsisuozainideshenshanghenyoukenenghuiranglingyifangyixiezaihudediqu，jinkenengdejiuzheng，henyoukenengduinilaishuoshiweilegenghaodilingyifangerzuochugenggai，zheiduinieryanhenbuheli，fangbuxiadeaidanshijishangbingbushizheiyang，nisuozuodeshijishangshizairangzishengengchuse。niyidingyaolejie，weiyounigenggaile，nicaikeyiyoudaliangdezhulizijinxiyinzhulingyifang。

第三、维持层次感，不彻底解开你的面具

jiujingshenmejiaoyouhuolini?youguanzheigewentidetantaogebuxiangtong，danzhenduinvshideyouhuoli，wonenghenqingxideduinishuo——cengciganzhanlejuedaduoshu。weishenmenanhaizidouhuiti“xinzhongdenvshen”ni，nandaoshuoxinzhongdenvshenqueshijiuneimapiaoliangma?xiangxinhaowuyiwenbujinshipiaoliangdeyuanyin，daliangdehuanshizaimenglideneigeguniangjubeiyidingdeshenmigan，zongxiyinzhuzhenanhaiziquzhuiyi……

yinci zaizheierwojianyizhuweinvhai，zaichupengnanhaizishiyidingbiesuibianjiekaizishensuoyoudemianju，youyutashixiyinzhunanhaizidejiaoda quebao，shitashikeyouxiangshenrulejienideyongyi，zheijishichenggongle。

第四、使你在他的心里不同寻常

henyoukenengzheiyinanhaizihenchuse，buweiyouniyigeyixingpengyou，yingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，yaoxiangzaitazhuduodeyixingpengyouzhongchuleibacui，neimejiuyidingyaobaozhengbutongxunchang。danzenmerangtaganjuezishenhenduteni?

dangailailindeshihou，bixudeguanaihaowuyiwenbukeyishao，danbiedenvhaiyefeichangrongyibaozheng，shijishangxiangrangzheiyinanhaiziganjuezishenhenyouqi，shitaxinliduizishenyoukegumingxindeyinxiang，zuishidangdefangfashixuehaozanyangta。meiyoucuo，zhenduinanhaizieryanshitayinxiangshenkedefangfabianshijitamenzanyang，zheibujinshixinlikaixinzheimejiandan，hainengshitaganshoudaoniduitalejiedekegumingxinshuiping。