感情问题:有的爱情不值得你付出！

 xuduozimeiyijingchuzairelian，suiranganqingdouhuiyixiebujinrurenyidediqu，keshiganqingzhenduirenhereneryanquanshihentianmideshi，jibian kuhanyoutian，danshaoweidekuweigengrangxingfudeshierkanqilaigengtianmei，shijishangwojuedebianshiganqingdejiaoda shijiyiyime?neimeganqingzhenxiangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanganqingwentizaixianzixundewenzhangba。

 danbukeyifoudingdeshi，youdezhenzhengdeaiqingmeiyoujieguode，youdenvhaiyefajuechulai，zishenmuqianyijinglijingdeganqing，henyoukenengshimeijieguode，danbingzheduiganqingdezhongshiheshebude，tamenrengzaiqianxinwankudezhichengdianzhe。meijieguodeganqinggengyouyiyime?henyoukenengnidenianlingjiaoweixia，yijingtihuizheganqing，zheiwohennenglejie;danyoudenvhainianlingzaoyihenda，nengtanlianaideshijianzaoyihenshao，jiarunirujintanlianaidemudibianshihunyinshenghuo，neimewotiyinisheqizheiyiduanganqing，youyunihenkenengxiaohaoqingchunnianshao，quehuanbudaoyidingdianshouyi，yinci zhangtongbibushangduantong。

youshenmeganqingbuzhizishentouruhelianlianbusheni?

1.对感情你远比另一方在意的水平多

 nijuedeniyizhizaichuduixiang，dajiadeganqingshifenxingfu，danlingyifangqueyizhibuyiweiyi;nirenweidajiashifenshihe，keshinidenanpengyoulaikandajiadeguanlianjiaoweiyiban;nichangchanghuixiangta，danduitaeryanfangforichangshenghuoyoumuyouniquanshiyiyangde。zheibiaominglenaxie?

zheiziranbianshiganqingdebuheli，bijiaozhixianixuyaoyuanbilingyifanggengzaiyizheiyiduanganqing。

 “womenliangtaibuheli，aihehenquanyounikongzhi”，zheigequgeciyidinghenqiehenicishidexinqingba，liangrendeganqingchuzaibuhelideqingkuang，zheirutongnimengezizaichuandeliangbian，dandajiadexiuzhongxiangchataida，yinci chuanshifeichangrongyiluandaode，zheiershuode“xiuzhong”bianshiduiganqingdetourushuiping。ruguonidetourushuipingyuanyuanchaoguolingyifang，neimadajiadezhenzhengdeaiqingbuwanshande，tayezhongjiuhuihuixiangchuanyiyangluandao。

2.可伶另一方

 ganqingzhenxiangyoushenma？youdezimeihenshanjierenyi，zongganjuezishendelianrenhenkeling，naizhiyoudenvhaizhuanyetiaoxuankelingzhongleidenanhaizilaizuoweitanlianaimubiao——

 liruzhaoyigeganqingzhongshoudaozhongcuode，huoshirichangshenghuoyouhendacuobaidenanhaizi……zishenyoulianshengai，nixianggemamayiyangduitawanbanzhaoliao，buyuanyishitazaiduzaoshousunhai。keshilianminzhongguibingbushiganqing，yinci zairuguonifajuezheigewentishi，nikenenggaoqingchuyuanxianzishenbugouaita。

 keniduitayizhicaiyongkelingdexintai，cishidenihaowuyiwenjuedejueqingliqulingyifang，kenengzaidujinanpengyouhouzhongdeyanlidaji，yinci niyizhiqiangren。

danniduitazhongguibushiaiqinga!nandaoshuoniqueshixiangyaoneiyangyibeizime?

3.他就是你的钦佩目标

 suiranqinpeizishendenanpengyoumeiyoushenmecuo，keshimangmugenfengdeqinpei，naizhiniduitadeqinpeizhiqingyuanyuanchaoguoganqing，zheiduinieryanshijiankebeideshier。

 ganqingwentizaixianzixun,henyoukenengniyefajuele，zishenqinpeizheqinglv，yinci niduitadexintaibujinshiganqing，daliangdeshiyizhongningwangdexintai，zheiyiyangbulidajiaganqingdegongzheng。shuangfangdexiangchulidangchuangjianzaigongzhengshang，ziranzheiershuodegongzhengbingbushiyingxianglidegongzheng，zhishiluojisiweihexintaidegongzheng，ruozaizheilianggefangmianlidajiayouxuduodewucha，neimejiuxiangyaonixixinxiangyixiangle!