恋爱那点事 警惕约会中容易犯的错

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 nihaowuyiwenhuihenyihuo，youyuzainidexinlimeiyouguifan，yinci duiyouhuizhongshenmegerenxingweihuiduijinibuliangyingxiangjianbiedubuzu，neimajiexiaqudajiaxiezhuzhuweinvhailaipouxiyixiashenmegerenxingweizaiyouhuizhongshiqianwanbunengdeba!

第一种个人行为、对幽会精准定位不对

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第二种个人行为、不明白感谢

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第三种个人行为、太早的讨论婚姻生活

 youdenvhaiyizhihenji，haimeiyougangkaishiyiduanganqing，jiugangkaishidatantetanhunyinshenghuo，yikaishiyiduanganqingdeshi，lianxiaohaidemingzidouquhaola……yingduizhezheibanyoulangmanqixidenvhai，tashirangnanhaizishifenwunaideyijianshiqing，youyunanhaizizhenduiqingganshikeguande，tamenhuijiangaiqingzhengtiguihuadehenjishi，suihouxunguidaojudefazhanqushi，zaitamenlaikanxiangxiangzaihaodoudibuguoshiji。

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