怎么爱?女生该如何对待同居和婚前性行为？

 zenmeai？bubirenweiwomendoushilieshide，shidengdaishenaidechuyubeidongzhe，shijishang，dajiadexintaiyibannenggoujueceganqingdemaixiang。neimezenmehuiaishangleta?aishangtadebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenmehuiaishangletadewenzhangba。

nanrenyikaishidoufeiyaoquyuenicaikeyidedao nideqinlai，zheijiujiushiniyaozhuyaobiaoxianxintaideqingkuangxia。

 nidexintaigouqiadang、goujianchibuxie，haodenanrencaihuiliuxia，huaidenanrencaihuigundeyaoyuande，jiarunimeiyouyigejiandingbuyidezishenxintai，bianhuipeiyuchushifenxintongdeganqing。

nenggoutongyitongjushenghuo，buyinggaimeiyoubiaozhun。tashiganqinglidedi4tiaofangfa。

 wulunheshitongyihelingyifangchanshenghunyinguanxi，doubukeyiquebaodajiadetanlianaixingfukuaile。youyuguanjianbuqujueyuchanshenghunyinguanxideshijian，erqujueyuxintai。

 henduorendoushuo，henanrenxiangchuyihou，bubijizhechanshenghunyinguanxibijiaohao，zenmeai？nikeyidiaozhunanrenyuezhangdebudaoni，nijinhounengxiangyouderiziyueduo。

danshijishang，zhendeshizheiyimoyangma?neikebuyiding。

 youxierenzaijiandisancimianjiuqinwen，jiandiwucimianjiunuleigoudongdihuo，yifayifabukeshoushi，suihoutamenenaile5nian。bingfazhengbianshi：zhei5niandangzhonglingyifangyizhicaiyitashisuiyidenvxing，yaoburantazenmekenengneimakuainadao?yinci，liangrenchangchangzhengchao，nanrenbuduancaiyinvxingzaiwaimianyeyoubiedemubiao。

 youxierenzaiduizhile4geyueyihoucaigangkaishijindaoqinglvqingkuang，dabannianyihouxuanbujindaohunyinguanxi，keshizheiyebuyidinghen**，youyu2nianyihou，nanrenhuanshiyiguaiyideyuanyinlikai。“neileijuedetaipiaopodayu，buxiangxin，dajiayizhineimahaoxie。”nvshuo。

 youxierenjiushichenglaidaowanhunyihou，danshijiehunhoucaifajuebicizaizheixiefangmiandexianghupeihejuedehaoxiangbibushangneixinlaideqiehe，yinciyiyouyiliyiliqu。

ziranshuzuiduodezhuangkuangyaosuanzuo，diyitianpengmianjiu*shang*chuang，ganqingzaidiyigelibaiyineisuoyouwanbi。

 congzhishangdebiaomingnenggoufajue：wulunheshitongyihelingyifangchanshenghunyinguanxi，doubukeyiquebaodajiadetanlianaixingfukuaile。danshi，zheileiguanlianmingxiyouhedajiadeganqingmiqiexiangguan，ruciyilai，sisuoheshidiandiantoutongyilingyifang，bianweiyigehenzhongyaodeconghui。

实际上，关键不取决于产生婚姻关系的時间，而取决于心态。

 zenmehuiaishangleta？jiaruniyikaishisuobaochidexintaidoumeiyouhenyongxin，neimawulunlingyifangxiangduidirangnideganqingyouduomedecanku，yeshixianeryijiandeshier。yibanrenzishenbianshiyimianjingzi，nizenyangkandaitarende，yehuiyinqitarenzenyangganenhuikuinidexiangfa。jiaruniyikaishifadeqiubianshiwaide，neimejiubieqidailingyifangnenggouhuiyigetaihaodeqiurangni，youyudajiadeqiuyiyibandouyiyangpingfan，yiyangruchuyizhe。

 jiaruniyikaishidexintaihenyongxin，neimajiuxuyaozuixianbazijideguandianjianlizhu，zheiyiguandianzaiyikaishiyouhuideqingkuangxiajiuxuyaoyouyidingdeshuoming，erqieyiweibiededejianchibuxielaixuanchengnidejiandingbuyi。dabufendenvxingchanshenghunyinguanxideqingkuangquanshizai“huijuebushang”dejingshenyalixiagangkaishide，zheizhongganjueyoudianzao。

 bubiranglingyifangsuibianshuodongni，youyurentijiushinide，weiyounizishennenggoujuece。ertasuotidejinjintiyi，niyewuxutaishengsilijiejizhebalingyifangdangselangkan，keshininengzhengpanhuijuediao。

 zenmehuiaishangleta?yixienvxingdaotoulaihenpasangshilingyifang，naizhilingyifangyanchuhehutichufenshou，yinci diandiantoutongyiyuzhichanshenghunyinguanxi。zheileitongyishihenmeiyoubiaozhunde，zongshiranglingyifanggengqiaobuqini。congjinyihoutajiulejie，yaoshitashinaxiefangshi，niyejiuguaiguaitinghuale。