怎么爱?外婆和奶奶谁更爱孩子？

 zenmeai？youyiduanshijian，weixinfapengyouquanliyouhenduommdouhuifenxiangneiyangyitiaogaoxiaoduanzi：“mamasheng，waipoyang，babahuilaijiuwangshang，waigongmeitiannongmaoshichang，zhangbeilaishangxi!suihouhaiewaileyiduanyiduziyuanhendepingjia：xiaohai，niruguogeyouliangzhiderenjiubiewangjixiaoshunwaipo，tameitunirenhedongxi，zhiweileninengshenxinjiankangzhangdale，zhiweilegenghaoditimuqinfentanpeinidejianxin，youyuniderentiliyecunzhetamenbafenzhiyidexue。xiexiejiechudewaipomen，zhujiechudewaipo、waigongmenshizhonganquan、shenxinjiankang、zhangming、xingfukuaile!”neimezenmehuiaishangleta?aishangtadebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenmehuiaishangletadewenzhangba。

 woyikanzheijuhua，jiuganshoudaozaiqizhongnongnongdeguyiheyuanhen。henxianzhu，fenxiangzheiyigaoxiaoduanzidemmmenquanshibumingbainannvguanxide。dahuoeryoumuyouxiangguo，zailaoye、laolao、zufu、laolaodangzhong，jiujingsheizuiyingdangtengxisunbeini?

 meimeitanqizheigewenti，henduorenhuibeiwoguofengjianshehuide“nanzunnvbei”deqingkuangsuomengbi，renweizhangbeihuibiwaigongwaipogenggaoduzhongshizisunhoudai。erdangshunweiliulideqingkuangzaixianshishenghuozhonglvcikaiyandeqingkuangxia，tamenbianhuijuedehenbulijie，laosaomanfu，borandanu。jiaruniyebaoyouneiyangdeniantou，zenmeai？neimejiuxiangdetaiduole。gouxiangyixia，dangyigehaizi，tabeijuxiantianxingcanfeihuoshibingzhongdeqingkuangxia，paoxiatadehuidaodishishei?jiaruxiaohaishiertongzibizhenghuanzhe，paoxiatadehuidaodishishei?yibanquanshinanxingjiqinanxingbabamama，youdenanxingbabamamahaijilinanxingqizierhun。fanguolai，huidaizhuzheiyixiaohaixunyi、guoduanyaoyanghaizizhangdalededaodishishei?yibanquanshinvxingheqibabamama，youqishilaolao。

为什么呢?

 kexuesongshuhuiyiqiankandengguoyipianwenzhangjiao《gedaiqin，waipoweishenmedegaofen》，zheierjianglaidaoxuduo youguan“zushangxiangmutouzi，sheizuijijizhudong”zheigewentidekexueyanjiushiyan。duozhongbuyiyangdekexueyanjiuxianshixinxi，laolaozuitengxixiaohai，cizhishilaoye，zaidushilaolao，erzufuzeyibanpaixingzuizhong。yiyang，laonianrenduixiaohaidexiangmutouzi，bulunshizaihuaxuewuzhihuanshizaishijiancengmian，laolaodougaojubangshou，cizhishilaoye，ranhoushilaolao，zuizhongshizufu。ciwai，haiyouyigeguanjianfajueshi，duimeiguo、xibanya、helan、faguodeng13geouzhougeguodeshujudiaochabaogao，jiaruyigelaonianrenbujinyoudaerziyeshiyouguinv，neimabuguannanhaihenvhai，tamendoushihuigengguanzhuguinvdexiaohai。

 zheizhongkexueyanjiudedaodejieguo，haoxiangyuwenzhongkaichangdeshunweiliushixiangfuhede，waipo(laolao)shi，duixiaohaidetourushuzuiduo、zuijiechu!kedaodishiweishenmeni?weihezhangbeihuineime“lengdan”ni?

 yanbianxinlixuezhuanjiadechudebiaoshushi：zheigenfumuzhenshishenfendekeyucexingchabiexiangguan。zhenduimamaeryan，youyushizishenyunqi，tanenggou100%dixiangxinxiaohaishizishende;danshiduibabaeryan，zishennvrenshengxiadexiaohaishifouzishendeguxue，zebuyidingchangchang100%mingque。

 zenmehuiaishangleta？youguanzheiyidianwoyijingzhuzhongguohenshucile，zhengyouyuzheiban，pubudanjuecenanrenduixiaohaidexintai，haiyiyangjuecezhangbeiwaigongwaipoduixiaohaidexintai。

yijushangbianzheiyitu，jianxindahuoergengnengyimuleranderenqingzheizaiqizhongdeguanxisuoshu：

diyitiaoxianshilaoyeyimuqinyixiaohai;

diertiaoxianshilaolaoyimuqinyixiaohai;

disantiaoxianshizufu—fuqinyixiaohai;

disitiaoxianshilaolaoyifuqinyixiaohai。

 yijuqinziyoukebianxingkanlai，mamaduizishendexiaohaishi100%mingquede，bicizhijiandedianjilianjiexianbianshishixian;erbabazeyaoburan，yinerbabayuxiaohaizhongjiandelianjieshixuxian。zhengyinruci，zenmehuiaishangleta?diertiaoxianlaolaohexiaohaizhongjian，shilianggenshuangshixian，zheigenxianshizuilaogude，zheijiufeichanghaodibiaoshulelaolaowangwangduixiaohaishideyuangu。fanguolai，zufuduixiaohaizhongjianshilianggenxuxian，zheigenxianshijiaoruode，zheiyejiushizufuduixiaohaizuishengshudeyuangu。jiaruyaozufuduixiaohaitouruhenduoqinzhixiangmutouzi，zelaolaohemuqinbixuweichihendidepucaihenyoukenengwancheng。