爱的色放,异地恋应该谁投奔谁？

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neimajiujingyingdangsheitoukaosheini?wojianyidezuofashineiyangde：

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huizongqilai：jiarulikewanhun，nvguanzhenan;jiarumeineimakuaiwanhun，neimananguanzhenv。

 aidesefang,zuizhong，woyaoduinvhaimenshuodeshi，jiaruolianggerendeshenhoushihunyinshenghuozhichengdian，pobudeyibeishuiyizhan，neimadajiadouyingdangqinfenrongqiarongru，zhengqubufenli。danzaiyiduanmeiyouweihudetongjuguanxili，nijishiqudanshendesuiyi，youmeiyouzaoshouhunshudequebao，zheileiguanlianfeichangmingan、feichangfengxian。yinci ，bubiyiganqingzhimingzuowanlixishengdechunshi。buran，nichongmanxiwangditoukaota，qudeqingkuangxiayouduoxingfukuaile，huishoujiuhuiyouduotongchu。