爱是流动的 甩掉错误恋爱心理

 aishiliudongde,cengjiheshi，shengnvyijingchengweiyizhongshehuixingwenti，maosiquanguoshangxiadouzaiguanzhuzheigequnti。yourenhuyushengnvyaofangxiagaozitai，cainengbaituoshengnvshenfen;yeyourenzhichishengnvmenyaojianchiziji，zhaobudaoheshidejianjuebujia。ranersheiyounengzhenzhenglejieshengnvzheigeshenfendegangani?bierenwenduodaledoubuhaoyisibaozhenshinianling;guonianhuijiabugancanjiatongxuejuhui;kandaotongxuepengyouzaikongjianshaihunshazhaobaobaozhao，zijizhinengshaidanshenzhao;xiangqinguochengzhongyudaodegezhongqipa，jiduranqixiwangyiweizhenaijiuyaolailin，daozuihouqueyoushiguoyanyunyandewunai。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangzenyangderendewenzhangba。

 shengnvmenqishiyefeichangkewangzhaodaoyigeaideren，xiangfuxiangchiyizhidaolao。danshishisihuzongbururenyuan，kandaorenjialihundouzaihunle，haishimeiyouyudaoduideren，duideneigerendaodizainalini?qishi，gaibudiaocuowudezijijiuyongyuanyubudaoduideren。tongguoduishengnvheyihunnvxingliangzhejinxingguanchafaxian，beishengxiadeneixienvhaizizaizeouxinlishangzourulelianaidexinliwuqu，tamenxiangyaozhaodeneizhongrengenbenbucunzaihuofeichangmaodun。yaoxiangzhaodaoduideren，haishiyaogaidiaocuowudeziji。

1、过于自我的恋爱心理

 shenmedouyaoqiuduifangtingzijide，congbugujiduifangshizenmexiangde，duifanghuiyoushenmeganshou、xuqiu、aihaoyibuzhongyao，zhiyaoyiziwoweizhongxinjiuhao，henbudejiangduifangshenshangsuoyoude“gexing”douyiwangdajin，ganjinshajue，dazaoyigezijinengjieshouhekanhaode“haohaonanren”。aishiliudongde,yuanlailianaide“beiju”jiushizheiyangdanshengde，zhibuguozheilidezhujiaoyigeshiziji，lingyigeyidingshizijidenanyou。

2、好高骛远的恋爱心理

 aishangzenyangderen?zheishiyizhongxinbitiangaomingbizhibo，bunengkeguankandaizijidexintai。zaijingjishehuitongguohunyinhuo“quxianjiuguo”defangshilaigaibianzijidemingyunweicengbuke，danbuzaimeinvdexinglie，jiubuyaochaojingjixuedefanchoulizuan，neishibuxianshide，yeshichulibutaohaode，gengshidiaojiade。zheijiuxiangnabingkuaiwanghuolushangkao，buhuaneishibukenengde。xianshishenghuozhongyouxuduodongxishixuyaoyongduidenglaihuanqude，lianaihehunyinyibuliwai。suoyizaikanzijideshihou，xuyaoyouyigekeguan、gongzheng、shishiqiushideyanguanghetaidu，miandeshihou“wuyanqujianjiangdongfulao”，zheijiaodaijiaergu，shizhibizhijibaizhanbudai

3、喜怒无常的恋爱心理

 qingxujibuwending，xihuanshixiaoxingzi，changyizijidexihaolaisuzaoduifang，guanyongziyiweishidediaochongxiaojilaikaoyanhezhemoduifang，shaoyoubuchengxin、buruyihuoshiduifangruyouniyi，jiuhuiyongyikuernaosanfenshoulaiyaoxieduifang。zaizheigeshijieshang，shuyedoumeiyouliangpianxiangtongde，hekuangshilaiziyulianggebutongjiatingderenni。duiyulianaizhongderenlaishuo，jinguanlizhizheizhongdongxiyouxieshihoushibuzenmehaoshi，danbiyaoderenkehebaorongshibunengshaode。

4、从众随流的恋爱心理

 aishangtaderen,quefazhujian，kanshenmedoushibierendehao。bierenshuohaojiuhui“chunfengdeyimatiqing”，bierenshuobuhaobianhui“dongfengwulibaihuacan”。caigaobadoubeikanhaodeshihou，zijiyegenzhekanhao;jinqiandiweiqiangshoudeshihou，zijiyegenzheqiang。gendaoyidingchengdu，qiangdaozuihoubuzhidaozijijiujingxuyaodeshishenme?danbuguannayizhong，douxuyaochouzhunle，buyaokanzouleyan，xuancuolerenjiudengyuxuancuolehunyin。cuowudehunyinjiuxiangtizidacuoleqiangtou，nifeilebantiandejinghaoburongyipashangtizidedingduan，quefaxiantizidacuoleqiangtou，xialaideshihou，gezhongdehuiyihejianxinzhiyouzijizuiqingchu。chuzhongyuanbenshixiangzhaoyigehaode，jieguomeichouzhun，kanzouleyan，yinsuibozhuliuerduansonglezijidemeihaoaiqing，zheijiaodebuchangshi。