恋爱咨询之同居中应该注意的事项

 lianaizixunyoushenmeni？youguanqinglvtongjushenghuodeyiyiyizhidoushiyou，zaizheierwomenbupianzhongyudeshuotongjushenghuodeliyubi，youyuzhenduitongjushenghuo，meiyigerendoushiyoubuyiyangdeguandian，youdenvhaiganjuetashizaixiangyouganqing，tizaoderonghelingwaiyeshizaishiyanxianghushibushiheshi，eryoudenvhai，youlingyizhongguandian。zheierdajiaxiangshuodeshi，zaitongjushenghuoshishuangfangjiangpobudeyihuiyingdui，jianxinyijinglijingtongjushenghuo，heyouguotongjushenghuolijingdenvhaimen，yidingyouneiyangdetihui：tongjushenghuozhongyouhenduonantibixuchuli。neimelianaizhongderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaizhongdiandewenzhangba。

 xiabiandajiajiudaizhuzheizhongnanti，xiezhudahuoeryiyizhengli，qidaizhuweizimeidounengxunzhaotanlianaihetongjushenghuojunhengdian，yizhineiyangxingfukuailedizouxialai!

第一点，钱财的均衡

 lianaizhongdelianrenpobudeyiyingduidediyigenantijiushixiaofei，youyutongjushenghuozhenduishenaiderendaibiaozheliangrenyinshiqijubixuzaiyiqi，lianaizixunyoushenmeni？zheidangranmianbuleqiancaideshiyong，tongjushenghuohouhaihuijixuxiangzhiqiantanlianaiyiyang，zaixiaofeishangyounanhaizilaizhandabufenma?

 zheigewentinanyihuiying，youyudajiayaoxunzhaoguishuyuzishendejunhengdian，tangruodajiashixueyuan，lianggerenyemeiyougudingshouru，jinjinzaijiezhubabamamadeshenghuofeiyongguoshenghuo，neimewotiyifentantongjushenghuozhongdexiaofei，neitongjuzhonghuichuxianyuangaoyutanlianaidexiaofei，nanhaizilaizhandabufen，bidinghuishitashoubulede;tangruodajiajinyouyifangyoushouru，neidangranshiyoushouruderenzhanguanjianxiaofei;ruoshidajialiangrendoushiyoushouyi，neimewotiyidajiazaitongjushenghuozhongyeyaoxunzhaoqiancaidejunhengdian，buranzheikenengbianchengweihaidajialiangrenganqingdepingwenyidayaosu，guoduodelianrenzaitongjushenghuozhongyouyuxiaofeirongqiabuzuerchuxianfenqi。

第二点，隐私保护

 youdenvhaiduitongjushenghuoyouneiyangbuzhengquedeguandian：zongganjuetongjushenghuobianshiwanhun，yincijiangzishendeyinsibaohuchedidezhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。

 niyidingyaolejiezheiyidian，tongjushenghuohewanhunshibuyiyangde，tongjushenghuojinjinxianghudingju，shiyizhongqinmiwujiandegerenxingwei，bicibicizhongjianyidingyaozhongshihuxiangdeyinsibaohuliyi，nirengranyouzishendeshineikongjian，youzishendepenyoushejiaoquan，gengyouzishendeyinsibaohu。zaizishendexinlingshenchuliuyigemimidejiaoluoli，meibiyaobaquanbudeyiqiedouzhuyaobiaoxianjilingyifang，tangruonijiangquanbudouchengxianchuqu，neibeilingyifangjinjincaokongyiqiedeni，haowuyiwenhuichuxianjiqietaochuzheiyiduanganqingdeniantou。

第三点，家务活

 lianaizhongdian,zaitongjushenghuozhong，yinweinvhaimendexingqingchabie，yinci zaijiawuhuodezhuzhiquanshangmianyoutianchadibie：youdenvshipobudeyidanfuyiqiedejiawuhuo，zaifanmangdegongzuozhongrichangshenghuoxianxia，yinweitongjushenghuodeyuanyin，rangzishentutianleyifenxindegongzuozhong，neibianshizhaoliaolingyifang，danfudaliangdejiawu;eryoudenvhaizequandoubugan，quanbagongzuozhongtuijilingyifangyigeren。

 henyoukenengyilianggeyue，zheileijiawuhuodefenpaiburongyichuxianhendananti，danzhangjiuyiwang，bidinghuizaochengyifangdemaiyuan，yinci dajiayidingyaoquelijiawuhuodefenpai，tashizaiweizhihoudehunhoushenghuodiandingjichu。

第四点，性生活

 tongjushenghuodaibiaozheyoudaliangdexingshenghuoshijianhejiyu，dannvhaimenqianwanbieyoubuzhengquedeniantou，juedeyongtongjushenghuodefangfahejingchangdexingshenghuo，jiukeyijinjindebangzhuzheiyinanhaizi，youyutashiyijianshisuizhiweideshier，zuichudajiahuiyouyushenmiganhecijixinggannanfennanshe，danshijianhaowuyiwenburongyiguozhang，reqingtundiaoyihoufandaohuiyouyizhongyanjuangan。

yinci qingjilao，lianaizhongderen,xingshenghuojinjinrichangshenghuodediaoweiliao，erbushizhanyourichangshenghuodejuedaduoshu。