女人一辈子不得不讲的九个谎言 是我不可爱吗？

 shiwobukeaima？tanyichangbufenshoudelianai，buxuaiqingyouyujianjuerbianqian，yebuxuaiqingbaijishijian，gengbuxuaiqingshujishiji，liangrenjiuneimashizhongdezouxialai，yizhidaodilaotianhuang。wojuede，tashixuduo nanbaonvbaodouqipandeaiqing，neimatanyichangbufenshoudelianaigaiyouzheruhedexinlizhuangtai，caikeyiyunyinghaozishendeaiqingni?neimerenrendoushuowoainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshijiehewoaizhenixinlixuedewenzhangba。

一、不害怕孤独和分手后就随便刚开始一段情感

 bubihaipaguduhefenshouhouqusuibiangangkaishiyiduanqinggan，buzhengquedegangkaishiyehuizaocheng buzhengquedejieguo。budawutiqianzhunbeizhizhang，zaixuanbumingquelianaiguanlianqianjiujilingyifangyigechongzudexianghuxinrenhegoutongjiaoliudequanguocheng，neiyangnengzaifeichangdashuipingshangfangzhimangmugenfengdelianai。

二、坚信全世界会出现真爱

yongxin，chengdandekandaizheifenairen，bubiyouyushoudaosunhai，jiuyaofourenaiqing。?

三、不寄希望于寻找一个彻底合适自身的人，明白大部分情感都必须磨合期

 aiqingbianshiruguonizhidaotabingbushinisuochongbaideren，bingqiegaoqingchutahaicunyouzhezhuduoquexian，shiwobukeaima？queyirantiaoxuanleta，bingbuyouyutadequexianerpaoxiatadesuoyou，fourentadesuoyou。

四、学好真爱别人

 zhenaiyigerenshizhengqueyindaozishenhesuozuiaiderenzairengetezhicengmiangongtongchengzhang，shidaibiaozheyiqizaojiuhuanle，zaihuanlezhongxiezhulingyifangchixugaizhengquedian，ziwowanshan。erbushixianghuzhijianchizehexiangaixiangsha。

五、不暧昧，对爱情忠实

 shijiehewoaizheni,aiqingshiliangrendecunyou，zhuangbuxiadisangeren。yinci xiuguaizishennanyouxiaoxinyaner，yexiuguaizishennvyouxiaotidazuo。aiqingshizhuanyide，qingjihao。shidudeheyixingpengyoulakaijuli，duidajiadeaiqingshiyouyichude。taijindejianju，huoxuhuizaibuzhibujue，zuochurangxianghugangadexingwei。bubiqumengpianzheifenairen。haijide，ruonimeiyoupiantayibeizidezhangwo，neimabianduitashuozhenhua。danghuanghuayizaibeichuochuandeqingkuangxia，youkenengyiqiedougaoyiduanluo

六、碰到矛盾能够客观沟通交流

 renrendoushuowoaini,xuduo lianrenzuihoufenshoubingbushitamenqingganbuzuhao，zhishitamenpengdaonantishizongshizhengzhi。tanyichangbufenshoudelianai，xuehaoruhechuliliangrenzhongjiandemaodunhefenqihenzhongyao。tiaoxuanyigeshihedeshijianhedizhikaizhantantao，erbushizailingyifangjuedepijuan，xiaochen，huozhiliyubiedeshiershi?jilingyifangyigexianghurangbudeshijian，bubiyiweidezhengzhishuzhongtou。shuoyiqianxixinkaolvdaohaoshuoxieshenme，lunzhelingtingxianghuxinlideyuju，