女生搭讪男生的十二个基本要诀 如何控制情绪？

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 fangfaer：pingshiduoxunlian。pingshijiuyingdangduoxunlianherenkankanertandejiyu，wojuede。wulunnanhainvhai，shilaoshixiao，shiwomenzhongguorenhuanshilaowai。dajiajingchangbuaixiyudajiazhouweigoutongjiaoliudejiyu，yiqichengchejigexiaoshilianyijuhuayemeiyou，rangzheiyishehuifazhanbiandelengdan。jijideguanzhutaren，bawohenduoyuzhouweigoutongjiaoliudejiyu，ninengfajue，zheizhonglurennengduotishengnideshixian，dianxianijianglainengchenggongyutarenkaiqifangbianzhimendejibeno。zheibanyanxixianshuyihou，ninengfajue，yaoyuyigeluren「zhuangshu」，xiediaoxinfangshiduomedefeichangrongyideshi。

老外在搭话这些方面算作大神。出国留学那麼数次，每一次同团的女生都是有几回被欧洲国家男生搭话的记录。怎样控制自己的情绪？有些是在纪念物店，有的在pub邻居桌。有一次最浮夸是，在路上身边也有大家同团好多个男生，外国人则凑回来对女生说「cup　of　coffee?(需不需要喝一杯现磨咖啡)」。果真民族化不一样。大家是否更应敞开式胸怀，学着点呢?

 fangfasi：lianpihou。qudahuawubiyaoyouzhanglianpihou，tashitarenjiaowode。wojuedetadeyisishishuo，yingdangyaojijidian，buweiju，biehaipabuhaokan，ruguonidaizhuchengxinshangmenfuwu。henduorenbianshiyouyumiantianerweishouweijiao，keshi，ruhebuqingchunvshengshifouyeqidailejienilei?haola，zuoleyifanchuguoqianwenhuajiaoyu，zongsuantiqianzhunbeiyaogangkaishidahuale。

 fangfawu：guanchaziranhuanjing。qukankanertanshishuoqixienaxie?jiukaonijimindedongchalile。wobuhuiganjuedongchalijinyouzaipengdaodongxinmubiaoshicaiyaoguancha，pingshidajiajiuyingzixiguanchazhouwei。wohenxihuanzuozhejiaoluoli，guanchaqunti，xunliandongchali。yigerenquanshenshangxia，doubiaoluchuyixiexinxi。waizaiyibufen，yizhedaban，yijuyidongdejuede;daobenzhiyibufen，yijingzuoxienaxie，kongzhibuzhuzijideganqingzenmeban？yijingkanshatayouxingquaihaodewupin，xiaobiaoqingshikaixinhuozhebeishang，huoweihegandaozheierdeyuanguzheixie。zheiyiyibufenfeichangguanjian。weihe?youyuzaijutiqingkuangxiayibanbingmeiyouxuduo shijianjiniguancha，yinernigengwubiyaozaiduanqineifenbiangaishuoxieshenmejiaoweiheshi。dongchalibingbingbushiyicukeji，bixuqinjialianxi。ruciyilai，jishinimeiyoudahuaqudechenggong，wojuedeneiyangdegongdiduijinhouyeshideyifeiqian，sheikexinrenzhandiansheibunengxinrenganzheixie。

 fangfaliu：lulian。luliandemudishiyeranglingyifanghaiyoujihuikankanni，lejienidecunyou。jiaruruguokeyidehua，yibuxiaoxindesimuxianglianyehenhao，shitajuedenidecunyou。keshihaijide，yaomiandaiweixiao，jilingyifanghaoyinxiango。rujinzaoyibushixingkuge，yiyuxiaotongxingle。danshi，zheibingbingbushibixude。woxiangwenyixia，nizhiluyiqian，bixuxianluliancaikeyiwenma?

fangfaqi：chengxianchengxin，qinzikankanertan。

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