爱上一个人怎么办？挽回发信息要注意哪些方面

 aishangyigerendeganjueshishenme？meiyoushenmehuran，zhishinikandileganqingdebaocunqi。qingganzheigedongxi，xiangjileyizhangchuxuka。zaiyiqishi，liangrenxianghujingliguodegandongshunjian、zaojiudexingfu，shiyibibicundaojinrongjigoulidejinxing。neimeaishangyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

 erliangrenzaiyiqishidezhengzhi，sunhai，xianghujiandebulijiefenqi，jiuhaoxiangyicicixiaofei，naizhishibeitouxian，zhizhifenshoushizai，zheikaxuanbubeigongbubeishuabao。

 dajiazhongjiandeqingyibeihaofeiwanhou，youmeiyoulijihuodetianbu，lingyifangjiangnilajinleaiqingyinxingde“xinyongheimingdan”li，zheigeshihou，nixuyaoxiangdajiacunchuyixiexindeqingyi，caikeyiranglingyifangjiangnilachuqu。

 xuduo qingganfenshouzhihou，bingbushimeiyoufuhexingdehenyoukeneng，fanguolaixuduo quanshiyoukenengde，jinjinyouyubuzhengquedewanliufangfazaocheng lebuchenggong。

 jiunafenshouhouheqiannanyouxianliaozheijianshiqingeryan，yixielianrenfenshoudeqingkuangxia，benlaizhuangkuangsuanbushangcaogao，aishangyigerendeganjueshishenme？xianghuhuoshipengyou，nvshengfaxinxineirong，nanhaiziyehuihuiying。keshiyouyunvhaideyidunsaocaozuo，zaocheng nanhaizichibuxiao，zuizhongrangjushishenxianlekunju，shiququanbudelianxidianhua。

fenshouhou，jiaruyaoxiangwanhuidehua，helingyifangfaxinxiyaoliuyishenmenantini?

第一：不必提情感

 fenshouhou，dajiadeguandianyeshiyagenmaodunde，niyaowanliu，taxiangfenshou，shuihuobuxiangrong，tianleigoudihuo，huoxingzhuangdiqiu，nijuedeneimeweirandenanti，nenggoukaotanchulima?niyuefaxiangtangeqingxi，lingyifangbianhuijinisigewanquan。

第二：不必质疑/逼问

 xuduo wanliuzhedoushihuibaotiaoruleidiheqiannanyoushuo，nizenmebuhuiwoxinxia?nibushuozuopengyoudema，weihehaibuliwo?zheixiegeshuyijian。zheishijishangshiyizhongquanliluanrudezhuangkuang，dajiazaoyiyibushilianrenguanxi，niqueyiranxianglaizainan/nvyouderenwujiaoseshangfaguangfare、duzhifanzui，lingyifangyidinghuixunsudijiangnihongzou。

第三：不必绕弯子

 nilejielianrenhaodeqingkuangxiazuiaishenmema，xiaizhan，xiaikuangfaxinxi;neimenilejielianrenfenshouhouzuihaipama，yiyangde，zuipazhan，haipanixinxihongzha。

第四：不必惹恼另一方

 rendebenxingquanshiyouquediande，meiyigerendeshenshangyedoushiyouleiqu，zuiguangfande，nanpabeishuoqiong，nvpabeishuochou，nanshengpabeishuoxinggongnengbuhao。

 aishangyigerendebiaoxianyounaxie？xuduo nvhaifenshouzhihou，yingduilingyifangdejiduanxintai，doufeichangrongyibaozou，congerlengchaorefeng，zhuantiaolingyifangdetongdianchuo，renaolingyifang，zuizhongzaocheng guanxijinyibuebian。