爱上一个人怎么办？让男人上瘾想挽回的女人

 aishangyigerendeganjueshishenme？jinqixuduofensidoulaigenwoshuoyiyangyigenanti，bianshiganghenanpengyoufenshoudeqingkuangxiayuanbenbuyuanwanliu，danshibansuizhefenlideshijianyuezhang，duinanpengyoudexiangnianyejiuyuenong，yinciyaoxiangquwanliu。neimeaishangyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

 keshiquefajueqianrenzheishiqueyongyouxindeqinglv，yinerchuyulezuoyouweinandechujing，suihoujiuxiangwenyiwenjiaoshijiujinggaizenyangzuocaikeyifuhexing。

shijishangzheileizhuangkuangyaoxiangwanliujiaonande，keshijiarunidexinxinqueshihenjiandingbuyi，neiyebushimeiyoufangshide。

第一步：憋住，不必去想他

“jiaoshi，woruguokeyibiezhubuyuanta，bujiubuyuanwanliulemeiyou?”

 deque，ruguobuxiangnianjiuwuxuwanliule，keshijiaoshizheiershuodebubiquxiangtashibubimeishimeikedouquxiangta，gengbubiquhusiluanxiang，xuduo nvhaidoushihuixiangxieluanqibazaode。

 lirutashifouyouhexinrenqunaliwanle，chiwannaxie，nixuyaolejieniyuefaneiyangxiang，aishangyigerendeganjueshishenme？neimenidejingshenshizhiqingkuangbianhuiyuecaogao。

neizheiyangyilai，niderichangshenghuobianhuishenxianyipianheiyinzhizhong，ganjueganshenmedousuoranwuwei，naizhiyuelaiyueziganduoluo。

 suoyishuoxiangdequenenggouxiang，yinweixiangnianhainengbianchengfuhexingdequdonglijiqiyuandongli，keshiyaokongzhi，yaoburansinianbianhuicongqudonglibianweishashangli。

第二步：给他们一个好的印像

jitamenyigehaoyinxiangdeqiantitiaojianbianshibaozhengyoukongzhidexiangnian，bubibaxiangtazuoweirichangshenghuodesuoyou。

fanguolaiyeyaobaxiangtadeshijianquyongyuchongshiziji。

bazheixiechouqi、bushufudeshijianquyongyutigaoziji，shidudiqukuozhanyixiazishendeshejiaoquan，xuexipeixunyizhongxingquaihao。

 ruguoniqueshirangzishenyuelaiyuequweifengfuqilaishi，neimenidangranbianhuiyuelaiyuegengweixinxin，erzheiyifenxinxinzhenduijiexiaqudefuchouzhelianmeng4shishifenzhongyaode。

第三步：适度修复联络

 xinxinbangshendeni，zaiduyingduitadeqingkuangxiaburongyixiangyikaishishineibandejinghuangle，zheishihoudeninenggenjuyixiefangshizaicilianluota。

 lirudajianeishihoutanlianaishi，tachangchangrangnizhufan，rujinniyejiunenggouwenqi：hei，xianzaiwoyouqixiangchinineishihoubangwozuodeyu，ninenggenwoshuoshizenmezuodema?

 zheileinantitadaduoshushiburongyidichude，bingqiehuigaozhiruheruhezuo，dangwenqiguanjiandianshi，niyejiunenggousamaimengshuoruheneimenana，dangshidewodoubuqingchunizhufanneimebubian，aiwoneishihouzhenchun。

 tingjianzheijuhuadetaduobanhuikuanweini，dannizuihaoshijiulijizhongzhi，shuociciganxieni，yinweiwobingbushitexiangdaraoni，keshihenxiangchinineishihoubangwozuodefan，baoqian，daraonileba。

suihoujigankuaigualedianhua，jitamenliuyixieshineikongjianquxiasi。

 gengguanjiandeshizaihoumian，ruguonigaohaoyihounenggoufalepengyouquanpeiwen“dangshidemeiweikekoubuqingchuaixi，rujinshifouwanle。”

 xiangxinziji，zheishihoulingyifanghaowuyiwenhuigaoqingchunideyisi，jijidelianluoni，zheishihouniyejiunenggoujianjiandidezaiqushenru，fushita，zhizhifuhexingyijing。

 aishangyigerendebiaoxianyounaxie？dangran，shangbiandefangshibingbingbushiduiyumeiyigerendouyouyongde，tajinjinyigedejiagou，shijideguanjiandianyibufenhuanshiyaoyijumeiyigerendebuyiyangzhuangkuangqupouxi，youyudingxiangtuiguang，youqishiqinggan，gengshiruci。