wojinnian34sui,nanyoubiwodawusui,womenshilihun,xiangqinyuehuilejiede,daoxianzaiyejiaowangleyinianbanle,youyuwomenshilihun,zaizaijiashangshiwohaizi。neimeaiqingguannianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingheermengdewenzhangba。
yinci woduizheiyiduanganqinghenbuzhangyang,patarengenhaizishuosandaosi,wozhoubianderenyefeichangshaolejiewodeganqingqingkuang。
danjishirucidajiaganqingyizhiyilaiquanshishifenfeichanghaode,zhizhishangyue,dajiaqiyedeyigehezuofang,huranyijianshishuomingqingyi,shuohenxihuanwo,yinweiwohuijuetale。
keshitafangfomeiyouzhunbeisheqi,woyebugaoqingchutaweihehuranneiyang。
yinci zheijianshiqingyemeiyougaozhinanyou,zhihouyeshibuxing,taouranjianzaiwodeyouxianglifajuelezheiyiyixingpengyoujiwodexinxi,nanyoujiandaohoujiugangkaishizhiyiwo,ganjuewoshenbeitayongyounaxie,hetarennuanwei。
youyutadeqizijiuzheiyangliqutade,yinci taduizheixiefangmianshifenbijiaomingan,yerangbicizhijianbaofaleyulunyali。
naizhi,tahaiyouyuzheijianshiqinggenwotichufenshou,haibawodeshoujihaoheshoujiweixindoujiaruheimingdanle,daoxianzaidoubutingwobiaoshu。
womingbaitashoudaosunhai,danwokendingmeiyouzuolebaoqiantadeshier,woxiangwenyixiawoyaozenmezuocaikeyiwanliutani,zenyangcainengrangtazaicixiangxinziji?
答:
kanguonidexushu,shifenlejienideqingxu,dajiazhongjiannantilaiyuanyutaduinidewuhui。
zheizhongwuhuiyeshiyouyu,tazaiyiqiandeganqinglijingzhongshoudaoyixiesunhai,yinci queshaozixin,taiguobijiaomingan,yinci caihuidaozhirujindefenqi。
dannidoumeiyoutuoshanchulihaozheizhongwuhui,caihuirangmaodunjiashen。yaoxiangwanliu,jiuxuyaoconglingyifangdezheizhongnantizhongxiashou,shitazaicijianxindajiadeganqing。
danshitazaicijianxinqueshiyigeyouzhangdequanguocheng,jinyoudajiazishenshizheguoqule,jingliguole,caikeyiranglingyifangjianjiandigaibianxianzhuang。xiabianwonengrangniyixieganqingshangdetiyi,qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。
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dajiazhongjiandeganqingshimeiyouwentide,yinci bubiranglingyifangbawuhuijiazhongxialaile,lijixianglingyifangjieshiyixiataduinidewuhuiba。
ninengtediquzheyixieshuiguoshucai,qutajiazhongkanta,shuoxianggentaliaoyiliao,suihouzuoyidunfanrehonghongdefanshi,shitatihuinidechengxin,yihoubashierdeqianyinhouguosuoyougentabiaoshuyibian。
danyinweilingyifangshoudaosunhai,yinci henkenenghuihendichunidebiaoshu,cikejiuxiangyaoniquchuyixiezhijiezhengjule。
liruniyiqianhuijuelingyifangdeyixiexinxineirong,jiqinicongmeiyouhuiyingguolingyifangdezheixiedianziyoujian,dounenggouzhengshi。neiyanglingyifangjiandaohou,huizaixinzhongduinisongleyikouqi,burongyizaiyouyifangbeinini。
逐渐影响、修复信任感
danruguobuchulitahenduonianlaixinlidebijiaomingan,jianglaitayiranhuiyoucaiyini,buxinrennideqingkuangxia,yinci buchuliyagennanti,shimeifazhenshifuhexingde。
aiqingheermeng,zainidexushushangshuo“youyuwomenshilihun,zaizaijiashangfenbieyouhaizi,yinci woduizheiyiduanganqinghenbuzhangyang,patarengenhaizishuosandaosi,wozhoubianderenyefeichangshaolejiewodeganqingqingkuang。”
nenggoukandechunishiyigeshifenguanaihaizidemuqin,keshiniquehushilenanyoudeniantouhetihui。yuanbenlingyifangbianshiyigeganxingderen,niduiganqingbuzhangyangdexintai,shijishangtayidingshiduoshaodoushihuizaixinzhongzaiyide。
jiaruyaoxiangranglingyifangzaiciduinixiufuxinrengan,bibushangshizhefabunideganqingqingkuang,ranglingyifangyechangshihehaizichupengkanyixia。
budannengranghaizigenglejieni,yekeyirangnanyoujiandaonideqingyi,neiyangtayehuixiangxinnishiqueshixiangyaogentazouxialaide。
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zheiyijia,kenengshiyizhongjuede,liru,ninengchangchangdaizhuhaizihetachulaisansanxin、qudongwuyuana、ertongyoulechanga、huoshidengshana。
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neiyangtayehuichedigaibiandajiadeguanlian,zaicirangniyigezhenshishenfen,zaicirangniyifenxinrengan。
aiqingguannianyounaxieni?lihunhoudeairenshishifenbuyide,youyuyiqiandesunhaiyenanyirangtamenchedizouchuqu,yinci caiyaogengrenzhendiyunyingguanai,caikeyibaxianghuqueshaodeneiyiban,jianjiandibuqilai。
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