zouzaiyiqiandajiameiridoushihuizoudenatiaodajieshang,kanjianshenpangjingguodelianren,manyandoushinimenyiqiandemoyang。neimeaiqingguannianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingheermengdewenzhangba。
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一、真心实意的心态
xuduo yaoxiangwanliuderendoushihuipengdaoneiyangyigenanti,zaiwanliuzhongbuqingchugaiyongshenmedetaiduquyingduiqiannanyou。
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二、信心的心态
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三、不骄不躁的心态
henduorenwanliudeqingkuangxia,doushihuiyong“qianyishi”quwanliu,liruxianglianluolingyifang,youpadajiao,bulianxi,youpalingyifangyouxinganqing,xianliaopanankan,buxianliaopawangque。
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