爱情荷尔蒙：男人女人分手谁更难受？

 fenshouzhihou，jiulianzuomengquanshidajiatichufenshoudeqingjing，niqinfendiyaoxiangbawozhutadeshou，keshibuguanniduodadeqili，tadoutoudoubuhuidixiangqianzou。neimeaiqingguannianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingheermengdewenzhangba。

nizhiyoukanjiantadebeiying，ruhedoumeifaaijin，zhiyoukanjiantaxiaotuizaizheigeshijieli，shushouwuce……

shijishang，niwangwangwanliubuchenggong，shiyouyunimeiyouxunzhaowanliudezhongyao。

 zaifenshouhou，henduorendoumeifalijidiaojiezishenheqiannanyoudexiangchumoshi，zaocheng qiannanyouyizhizaitao，danniyizhizaizhui，neiyangyigeliangjihuali。

yinci ，yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，zuizhongyaodebianshinongqingchu，heqiannanyoujiujinggaizenyangjiaowang。

 gendahuoergongxiangyigewomenzijideshili，shilizhongdelele(biming)，bianshikaolijidiaojieheqiannanyoudexiangchumoshi，caiyibubuwanhuiganqingde。

zuichudelele，meibanfajienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi，buduanzhaonanyouquzhiqian，qiufuhexing。

 erlingyifangqueduitadezheileigerenxingweiyulaiyuyanjuan，yikaishihaikekeqiqide，daozhihouyagendoubujielelededianhua，yinci lelezhinenggenjuweixingongzhonghaoxunzhaodajia。

 zhihou，laoshilijingzhangwohou，ganjueleleyagenmeiyouzhengquerenshitichufenshoukeguanshishi，yizhiyi“nvyou”dezhenshishenfenquheqiannanyoujiaowang。

zheiyilaierqu，rangleledeqiannanyouganjuetayagenbumingbaizishencuozainaer，yejiangbuqingdadaoli，jiuguoduanmeilitale。

 shijishang，leleyaoxiangwanliushifeichangjiandande，jinjinyikaishitameiyouxunzhaoheqiannanyouxindejiaowangfangfa，doumeiyouzhenshilumianduinantijiejuekunnan，yinci caidaozheiyichengdu。

yinci，laoshigangkaishijutizhidaolelecongbenshennantikaolv，quyingduitichufenshou，genggairenzhinengli，gaibianxianzhuang。

 yiyizhongxindezhenshishenfenherenwujiaosequyingduiqiannanyou，youqianrushendilajinxianghuguanlian，zheicairanglelehenanyoujianjiandizaicilaidaoyiqi。

 yinci ，wanliuzhongzuizhongyaodebingbushiduiqiannanyoujingenzhemeifang，zhishiyaoxuehaolijiniuquzhenshishenfen，suijiyingbiandiquhelingyifangjiaowang，xiabiandajiajiulaijiangxia，jiujinggaizenyangyuqiannanyoujiaowang，gengyouyiyuwanliu。

应对提出分手客观事实

 yulianrentichufenshou，shiyijianshifentongchudeshier，dandajiawangwangkeyimaixiangtichufenshou，biaomingdajiazhongjianyidingyouhenduomeiyouchulidenanti，yeyiweizhezhelingyifangrujinhendichuzheiyiduanganqing，baohanni。

 yinci fenshouzhihoubuguannizenmemaican，lingyifangdouburongyiyouguoduogandong，naizhiyibufenrenyaoduizheileijiuchanbuqingzaochengyanjuanhedichuxinlizhuangtai。

 yinci yingduifenshoushi，nixuyaozuodebingbushiqianxinwankujiuchanbuqing，zhishiyaojianshaozishendexuqiugan，zhongshilingyifangdeniantouhejuece。

 neiyangdenifandaohuishitazaochengyisikuijiugan，yehuizaixinlibaocunnideyifenxingfu，zheisixingfuhuiduiwanliuyoufeichangdadexiezhu。

neiyangdajiafeichangdashuipingdoushihuibaoliuzhulingyifangdelianxidianhua，naizhihuiyoushihouhuxianglianluo。

思考自身，适度关注

 changyandao，zhejichibushangxishidoufu，wanliuyeyiyang，yaoweizijiyigesikao，hejiuzhengdequanguocheng，jinyoubanantidouzhaodao，jiuzhengle，dajiadefuhexingcaihuigengweichijiuhepingwen。

 zaizheiqijian，haiyaoshidudihelingyifangchuangjianyixielianluo，danyidingyaolizaiyibanpengyoudezhenshishenfenshanghelingyifangkaizhangoutongjiaoliu，caozongxianliaodepinlv，jinjibubitaiguojingchang，youshihousongzhiyixieguanzhujiukeyi。

 ranglingyifangganjuenizaoyiduitameiyouyaoqiule，neiyanglingyifangcaihuixuehuifangxiaxinlizhuangtaifangshe，manmanyunixiufuchangtaihualianluo。

 aiqingheermeng，erqie，zaiyuqiannanyoukaizhangoutongjiaoliushi，butanqiyiqieganqingdeshier，neiyangdenifandaohuishitazhangchuxiehaogandu，cujinlingyifangyaoxiangyunijinyibulajinguanlian。

让自身变成另一方的习惯性

 dajiadoushuoganqingbixushenmigandecijixing，danciwai，yeyaorangzishenbianchenglingyifangde“xiguanxing”，bianweiweitaderichangshenghuoyongpin。

ninengjiangnideguanzhubianweiyizhongchangtaihua，erqiezaixianliaodeqingkuangxia，weizijishezhiyigechuxiandeshijianhuanjie。

 liru，zairushuiyiqian，helingyifangshuoshuohua，peiyanghetawanandexiguanxing，buduanyiduanshijianhou，duibianjiehuixiguanxingnidechuxian，haiyounidewananhaomeng。

 denglingyifangmanmanxiguanxingnidecunyouhou，zheishihouniyizhizaihuranchoushen，zheihuiranglingyifangzaochengfeichangdadexinlizhuangtaiqifu，huizaixinzhongxinfanyiluan。

 weilegenghaoditianbuxinliqueshaodezheiyifenguishugan，tayidinghuixiangfanjijilianluoni，bingjiangnizuoweiyige“dute”decunyou，neiyangdajiadefuhexingcaihuishunlichengzhang。

 aiqingguannianyounaxieni？zhejishichibushangxishidoufude，wanliujiuzheiyang，yibuyigejiaoyin，yihuankouzheyihuan，jinyoujianjiandijienaxianghudegenggai，caikeyizhenshidishunlichengzhangcongtoukaishi。